Re: To dance with high class
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krchab99
I admire dancers who work in full nude clubs but don't go full nude there are some girls in my club who don't take off there thong i want to get to that level of sophistacation i think its great. In lap danes i don't show at all expcept for like a sec just to make my statement that its a full nude dance true. On stage it is harder to pull off the guys ask for it and can be quite rude about it. If anyone has any ideas pleas let me in on it i realy want to swich to no cookie showing.
LOL....
thong on: high class
thong off: unsophisticated
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no i did not mean any harm i just admire girls who keep there thong on I am sorry if i offend
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IMO wouldn't that be kind of annoying? I mean, why work in a nude club in that case?
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I think what Emily was trying to get at is that it is better to stay more covered...you know, like you leave an air of mystery.
At many clubs, as in nude, you don't have a choice and you have to take your thong off. Unless you are using the idea of a nude dance to sell lap dances, then don't show your cookie, it isn't necessary and is in fact better if you do not.
If a guy is being rude to you, you don't HAVE to do anything for him, neither sell him a dance nor show him what he wants to see. But you can also stick up for yourself in a firm but joking manner, and don't let his pressure get to you. $1 or $5 or even $300 is not going to make a lasting impact in your life...but learning how to stand up for yourself WILL have a big impact.
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I don't think there's anything less sophisticated or classy about removing a thong. Most of my dancing has been nude. However, I do prefer to actually DANCE nude, as opposed to just grinding cookie in the guys' faces. I hardly ever spread my legs onstage, but that's less about class than about giving away the candy store. I prefer to save the full view for the lapdance room, rather than giving it away for a dollar.
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Uhmmmmm....first off, I don't see the connection between nudity & classlessness.
I suppose it's the nature of the beast: guys to nude clubs to see nude women. So right off you're setting yourself up for guys giving you flack if you dont show them what they want.
So.... maybe tell them that you're really shy and then you can go full nude in the lap dance area after they bought a couple of songs. It could be a cute marketing strategy. But if you feel VERY troubled by going nude then your best bet is to work at a topless club or at a go-go club.
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oh i am not troubled by going nude i have done it many times i just thought it was admiral to not show i thought those girls had some kind of secrete to there dancing that made them an exception. Maybe i just had the wrong idea,
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My pussy is totally classy. It was on "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous". It's a museum piece. It's currently on loan to the Museum of Modern Art.
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I agree w/Yek and SS. I have worked both and do not see how they relate to classiness. I also agree that working at a nude club and not going nude may lead to problems with customers and/or management. When I worked in Vancouver, BC the clubs were all nude (go nude or go home). I finally found a club there with some classy ladies and light contact dances. ok, I wasn't going to go in this direction, but... through my eyes I see more "sophisticated" dancers perform less contact and less raunchiness on stage.
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shasta
I agree w/Yek and SS. I have worked both and do not see how they relate to classiness. I also agree that working at a nude club and not going nude may lead to problems with customers and/or management. When I worked in Vancouver, BC the clubs were all nude (go nude or go home). I finally found a club there with some classy ladies and light contact dances. ok, I wasn't going to go in this direction, but... through my eyes I see more "sophisticated" dancers perform less contact and less raunchiness on stage.
I see what you are saying i agree with your statement on sohphistcation I don't give a real raucny dance or stage show but i want to change it up to be more upscale maybe thats more of what i was getting at.
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My bf and i went to an all nude club. Paid a high cover charge to get in there, and no alcohol was served. After watching about 3 girls go on stage, and not get nude, we thought maybe they wouldnty get nude unless they were being tipped well. I can understand that. So we went to the stage and started tipping $5's. liberally. Still, they did not take off their thongs, or even show a peek.we asked management about it. We paid the high cover and gave up drinks to see nudity, where was it?
Manager said girls dont like to get nude on stage, then they cant sell lap dances. Get a lapdance, they get nude then.
Ok, we can deal with that. So we bought a dance. She did not get nude. When we asked why, she said cause if she gets nude during a lap dance, she cant sell CR's. Get a CR and she will get nude. Well...sounded scammy to me, so we declined, and tried out another dancer.
Again, she did not get nude.Not even a flash. Well...WTF? We paid for an all nude club, and saw no nudity!
Could have gone to a regular topless bar, got in for free, and got a few drinks.
The manager gave us a free teeshirt and apologized, as we were on our way out to a different club.
Anyway...I dont think its sophisticated to keep your thong on in a nude club, I think it is a rip off the the customers. They paid for and expect nudity, and when they dont get it, they will go elsewhere. If you work in an all nude club - get nude. If you dont want to show the kitty, work in a topless club.
As for classy nude....In my opinion that wouild be a great stage show...slowly takign it off, at the very end of the set, take off the thong. Only showing a peek at the goods. Wanna see more? Pay for it. I dont care for the whole open leg, spread eagle, girl takes off her thong 30 seconds into her first song on stage. Now she's just giving it all away for free.
I have danced nude in the past, its how I started, so I can see your side of it, but also I can speak from a customers perspective.
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Yeah..I think if girls want to keep their thong on for whatever reason..they should not work in a nude club. It's almost like thumbing your nose at it. I understand if nobody is tipping, or if someone is being rude....but to flat out refuse to ever take it off? Thats not classy...thats just bitchy.
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At my home club it is totally up to the dancer to go nude or not on stage (for free). Sometimes I do this yet I do this in a unique way that helps me not hinders me in re selling dances after the show.
In the last minute or so of my stage set I remove my underwear.... I have my back to the audience, cover up my pubic area as there are mirrors which can show people what I look like if they look in the mirror (on the stage's back wall) and then drop my head thus hair back. My hair then draps over my butt cheeks.
Since my hair with my head up straight is ass length anyway, with my head tilted backwards it is even longer.............thus I can start to bend over a little bit with my head tilted backwards and my hair over my ass which naturally also covers what I want it to cover.
I'm nude yet not giving an inch! ;D
Plus I dance nude in private dances yet only spread leg if I feel that is what the customer is seeking in their lap dance otherwise I'm generally too up and all over the customer (and keeping my legs closed with any floor work) for it to be an issue of showing my pussy or not.
There are ways to dance nude so you aren't giving away everything.
Just don't be so raunchy and keep your legs closed at all times if you want to sell raunchy dances (open leg) in the CR/VIP.
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Originally Posted by
krchab99
oh i am not troubled by going nude i have done it many times i just thought it was admiral to not show i thought those girls had some kind of secrete to there dancing that made them an exception. Maybe i just had the wrong idea,
Krchab, I know where your getting at. I've worked in nude clubs, and I've been one of those dancers that doesn't get nude. Reason being, if you want to see all of what I have to offer, you need to buy dances. I've noticed that the girls who can get away witht he "less is more" attitude, aren't working up a sweat while on stage.
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yes, earlier I was laughing because you say, "dance with high class", as if having a tiny strip of fabric is the difference between class and no class. And then you go on to say you show them your pussy during a dance. Many would argue just being a stripper means you have no class, so I find it ironic that you are so judgmental about those who take it a step further than you are comfortable with.
I work in a club where it's optional to go on stage nude and most girls don't, so it's not a problem for me, but I don't show my pussy during a dance either. It seems like a really easy "out" to say you save the good for private dances. Can you just not go on stage? Or maybe tip your DJ to put you up after girls that don't show their pussy. You can wear "classy" accessories. You can get bottomless and not spread. Lots of options to class it up a bit.
but FWIW, it's becoming clearer why you might be having issues with the other dancers there. You are aren't simply saying you don't want to take your thong off on stage. You are saying it's unclassy and unsophisticated. You work in a nude club and you are acting like you are to good do the job!
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Originally Posted by
krchab99
oh i am not troubled by going nude i have done it many times i just thought it was admiral to not show i thought those girls had some kind of secrete to there dancing that made them an exception. Maybe i just had the wrong idea,
*cough* foot in mouth *cough*
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I work in a full nude club and I am totally with Emily on this one. I think it's a rip-off to sell nude dances and not go nude.
I consider my dances sensual rather than overtly sexual - I am all about very seductive, slow sensual moves. I am not a dancer who sticks her pussy up near the guys face or spreads my legs and leaves them open for like the whole dance or anything. In fact when I spread my legs I am facing slightly off to the side so they get a view but don't if u know what I mean.
I fail to see how being nude or not is classy vs tacky. You can get clubs where the girls dont go nude but it's full of extras or really high mileage vs nude and air-dance.
I dont see how u can be in this business and be critical of what others are doing like that.
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So, if you don't take your top off at a topless club... you're classier than the girls who do?
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I was the classiest stripper EVER!! Here is what I wore:
http://thepodium.typepad.com/the_pod...ages/burka.jpg
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I think if having a “less in more” or “leaving a little mystery” approach works as a particular dancer's hustle style then that's great. I don't see why it's such a big drama for someone to ask for advice on how to improve this hustle style.
As long as a dancer isn't breaking club rules or the local laws I say go for or try out whatever work style suits the person.
:twocents:
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If I am working in a nude club, and there is an expectation that I will be doing my dancing nude, I will do it. Being nude does not mean I am not classy, it just means I took off my thong.
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T-10
I think if having a “less in more” or “leaving a little mystery” approach works as a particular dancer's hustle style then that's great. I don't see why it's such a big drama for someone to ask for advice on how to improve this hustle style.
As long as a dancer isn't breaking club rules or the local laws I say go for or try out whatever work style suits the person.
:twocents:
Exact-a-mundo :P
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ViolaStrings
My pussy is totally classy. It was on "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous". It's a museum piece. It's currently on loan to the Museum of Modern Art.
lol i might be in love with you.
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Pretty_Penny
lol i might be in love with you.
SWEET. I'll have you know it has mother of pearl inlay, also.