I wonder how often (if at all) you have encountered male customers who are accompanied by their female partners and what your views are on this?
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I wonder how often (if at all) you have encountered male customers who are accompanied by their female partners and what your views are on this?
If you do a bit of a search through older threads you'll see many opinions on this. Overall the consensus seems to be that we like female customers who are there to be customers - not as tourists, not being dragged there unwillingly by boyfriends or husbands, not to partake in stripper chic without paying, and not to sit around feeling better than us.
I have posted a lot about this, but in summary...
hate it. Leave her at home.
exactly what jenny said. my opinion ranges from "i don't mind" to "i enjoy" dancing for a female customer as long as
#1 she respects the same rules i have for male customers
and
#2 she is there to be a customer, not to dance infront of the stage, and not to be FORCED by her boyfriend/husband to get a dance in order to turn him on.
i absolutely will not dance for a girl who is scared (not nervous.. but SCARED) or who is pissed off because her SO dragged her in. i'm not going to be a pawn in that game. the money isn't worth it.
i have, however, made VERY good money from nice couples who are into going to strip clubs together. a lot of girls avoid them, so my being open to it is already a sales point.
and to elaborate more on the "respects the same rules" factor.. i have had way too many girls (increasingly) try to do a lot more than the male customers would usualy dare. what REALLY pisses me off is when i can tell the guy "put her up to it" because he figured she could "get away with it" better than he could. i expect a fellow female to have a lot more respect for me than that. i've flat out told them before "i'm not here for you to sexualy assault me so your man can get off". i'm also not cool with a couple trying to fuck in VIP. i've actualy heard "i know i can't fuck you, but can i fuck my girlfriend while you dance for us?"
no. no you can not.
it's not even that i see anything wrong with it per say. i don't. i just don't believe that belongs in a strip club.
and as has been mentioned before, the female customers who come in just to "party" are -VERY- unwanted. a female customer dancing infront of the stage and/or trying to "strip" all while not tipping at all, will promt me to go get management. the only exception is if she's with a group of people spending a lot of money. the "i'm better than you"s can stay at home too.
Every sat night I encounter this and I don't like it. I would prefer no females being allowed in the club. While there are a few ok ones they still aren't big spenders or anything (yes I realised dancers on their night off would make great female custies but I have never met one at my club).
They make us generally feel like side-show freaks the way they stand and stare with digusted looks on their faces.
Other dancers that are not working are good customers, but all other females can go.
I like dancing for female customers and couples, I dont have a problem with it.
At my old club we had high percentage of couples and female patrons. Yeah sometimes there would be a group wih a bit of attitude, but I can usually work it (-:
I've very rarely gone to clubs with friends and their bfs/gfs (I'm single...not hard to tell, eh? :D) There have been a few times, but these were not exactly your average girlfriends...my one buddy's girlfriend is bi, near as I can tell. She's a cool chick, and treats people the same way they treat her. Then there was one time I went to the bar with one of my female friends and her gf. (Female friend is a lesbian, gf is bi). Then again, even I get annoyed by women who sit around acting like the rules of common sense and decency don't apply to them, or even worse, like they're better than you girls. I'm a rock singer...I love strippers ;)
I was in this club up in Missoula, MT, and there was this really old couple there. He had long grizzled hair and a long grizzled beard, and she looked like the stereotypical hillbilly wife, even missing a couple of teeth.
Then she bought him several lap dances and sat next to him and grinned as the dancer gave them to him. When it was over, she said, "Happy birthday, honey," and they left.
Wish I had a wife with an attitude like that.;D
The only females I like in the club are sober(ish) lezzies, and other dancers.
I don't mind it, unless like mentioned before they aren't there willingly and are there to party instead of be customers.
On a side note, Penny, you're hot.
It is fairly common to see female customers. Usually they are with their SO. The only times I have been to a club in the last year has been with my wife, usually it has been her idea. She used to be a dancer and she likes to visit old friends. She tips well, especially if no one else is tipping the dancers on stage. We simply go to have fun. If this is the purpose of the visit, to me it is ok. I have seen several times that some female customers seem to think the club is a swinger’s bar.
this has totally been covered ad nauseum.
i agree with Emily, leave her at home. unless she is confident with your marriage and wont mind you both getting dances. if she's going to be clingy and such it's a no go.
I would like to give a big "thank you" to the ladies for posting their likes and dislikes about having female SO's in their clubs. I have gone to the SC with my bf several times and have really liked it, but felt a bit awkward because I know the strippers stay away from us for the main reasons that have been posted ad nauseum.
However, we have found a club on the Quebec side (we live in Ottawa - Ontario bordering Quebec) and this one gorgeous woman approached us cautiously and we've gotten to know her and she is comfortable with us. We asked what was allowed as a couple and she kindly guided us and we follow her lead.
I was hoping I was being a good female custy and from your answers to this and the other threads I'm happy to see that I'm being a good girl :-*
Kandykisses
Kandy, the mere fact that you're thinking AT ALL about being considerate about it sets you apart. My feelings have already been covered by everyone else posting here, so I won't go into detail; suffice it to say that I LOVE a genuine female customer. They're just incredibly rare and hard to distinguish from the rest of 'em.
Be patient & don't be offended if we don't approach right away. Keep the money flowing and keep the attitude very open and friendly from BOTH parties, and you may have some takers.