When friends are fucking up your money.
I've worked at this one club over a period of 3 .. 3 1/2 yrs off and on, but more on the last 2 yrs.
I don't really want to get into specifics cause I really love my friends and don't want to sound like I'm talking shit or being conceited.
But how do you distance yourself from them in the club? Especially if they want to work with you.
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i think a really good way is to say something like "girl i love you but at work i need to make money so im gonna be really concentrated. so dont be offended if i am less chatty and friendly, it's not you it's that i have to make that money because of (bill to pay/travel expenses/rent/whatever)."
i know you said no specifics, but, is it somethiing like you're selling a dance and someone comes up to bother you and kill syour sale? that's a scenario that's happened to me before.
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Yeah thats basically what it comes down to is spoiling sales. (Like we come as a packaged deal aka double dance) And one friend in particular is very sensitive and If I was to take the customer, cause hes not interested in her, she gets very offended. (not by me, but by them). So I just didn't do it to not hurt her feelings. And moved on to the next one.
I could've made a lot more money last night.. like a LOT but I didn't not to hurt her feelings. We also have different hustle styles too.
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You cant sabotage your money over somthing you have no control over(whether the guy wants you both)
I have had a cpl friends like this in the club. They think it is perfectly acceptable to come up and start hustling double dances because we are friends and I've had it cost me plenty. Sometimes the guy got pissed (seeing an obvious hustle as opposed to the one on one we had going). Sometimes it worked in my favor and the guy who may have been on the fence about spending suddenly was turned on by the idea of 2 girls who liked each other...
Just talk to her about it. Say the truth...sometimes guys will love the idea of the two of you...some guys want one-on-one. So while you may allow her(or vice versa if she has a custie) to come up and say hi for a minute...if the guy doesnt jump right on by inviting her to sit down or offering her a drink...she moves on. Just explain that it isnt HER..but some guys want that GFE in the club and having another person there spoils that fantasy you've been working on building for him.
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^^^ Thats true. Yeah, one of my regulars who came in, I just knew he was turned off by our hustle and I was like ohhhhh man stooop. This is looking waaaaaay too obvious!
I'm just going to tell her that its not her, and its not me, its them. And that I want to work alone from now on. Hopefully her other P.I.C. comes in tonight and they can work together!
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Would she take a subtle hint? "hey..i have a really cool story to tell you later...remind me about it. I'd tell you now...but we were just in the middle of a conversation and I just KNOW I'll totally forget what we were talking about...i'll meet you in the back when I'm free and tell you about it...dont let me forget!! NOw I have to get back to what me and John were talking about before I lose our place...See ya later!"
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Yes I think she would. Cameron, you're good!
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Kalligirl
Yes I think she would. Cameron, you're good!
Thanks! Good luck!
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Kalligirl
Yeah thats basically what it comes down to is spoiling sales. (Like we come as a packaged deal aka double dance) And one friend in particular is very sensitive and If I was to take the customer, cause hes not interested in her, she gets very offended. (not by me, but by them). So I just didn't do it to not hurt her feelings. And moved on to the next one.
I could've made a lot more money last night.. like a LOT but I didn't not to hurt her feelings. We also have different hustle styles too.
well, different hustling styles and her getting offended says to me that you two shoudl be working alone. coming as a package deal is a bit much sometimes imo and i think customers can be overwhelmed. tell her you'd like to try working alone, because you need to pay such and such bill... but cameron's idea is damn good.
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My best friend and I work in the same club. What we do is split up on the floor and talk to guys. We would never approach the same guy at the same time. After I get a feel of what a guy's in the mood for I would suggest having my friend join us to add spice to the fun and point her out on the floor so he can check her out from a comfortable distance before he requests to have her join us for a brief convo and what not, and she would do the same when she spoke to guys. This works for us and there are no feelings hurt.
We only double team on groups.