Apparently that's me.
Some background, I have a regular who comes to see me about once a week at the most, sometimes twice a week. He's good for a decent amount of money, 5 or 6 and is a "nice" person. But I can't stand him...he drives me absolutely insane! He's VERY overweight, insists on pulling me colose to him when we sit, spits when he speaks, makes this snot sucking sound in the back of his throat and sometimes will make that sound in my ear when he's trying to be sexy.
CONSTANTLY tells me how much I mean to him, how much he enjoys our time together, and how much he appreciates me even "giving him the time of day, I must really care about him to even bother" (says this ALL the time) and talks.... oh my god he talks.
He will talk until he stops breathing I think. Then every now and then he will ask me a question and when I begin to put something into the conversation, he starts kissing my cheek. Big wet, slobbery rubbery lip cheek kisses. Lately he's moving from kissing my cheek to my forehead and nose. That's WAY too intimate for me and way too gross.
Honestly, you know that scene in Star Wars, where Jaba the Hut has the princess chained and collared? He pulls her onto his fat ole belly and starts licking her...that's what I feel like.
So anyway, I had my customer, and at the end of the night I was complaining to my friend about how much he grosses me out, and how I think he's gotten too comfortable lately.....this little girl pipes up and says "You spoiled brat, you got to be in VIP all night."
So I thought about it, am I being spoiled? I don't really think so. I really am repulsed by this guy. I'm still nice to him. I do my job, smile, flirt, dance and get him to buy drinks and pay me. I never act like he hasn't paid me enough etc....
But I feel I should be able to bag on him and complain about how gross he is when I'm not aorund him right? Eh... I guess it rubbed me the wrong way when she said that.
I'm thankfull for the money yes, but the guy makes me want to get violent. :-\

