How you work order of events at a private party
I would love to hear your "order of events" at Private Shows...
Do you start with announcements about no touching the pink/no cameras etc then games then do lap dances (get semi nude?) then strip tease (get totally nude?) and then if appropriate a floor/toy show?
do you announce your prices as you go or have a menu and take orders?
What has been the most effective in terms of holding interest and keeping the money flowing?
Looking forward to hearing what has worked for you!
If you could number what you do 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc. that would be really helpful for my left brain.:)
Thanks everyone!
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Walk in with my driver. Set up. Driver gives rules. Striptease and lapdance for bachelor (free).
Take off bachelor's shirt, lay him on the floor, put lotion on him - "Okay guys, I need you to SLAP $1s,$5s,$10s,$20s, on this guy and cover him up!" Guys slap a bunch of $1s on him, they stick, I get down and do a lotion/body "slip and slide" type dance (after removing the money)
At the end of that I take off his belt "The more you tip, the harder she'll whip!"
After beating him I lay him on his back again, and get the best man "Ok guys, we need a $20 on both their faces, she's going to squat down and pick that up with her pussy," do a feed the kitty for both (no contact of course!) After that we have those two pick two of their friends to take their place on the floor, and so on, until the party gets bored of this. Really, it's a super easy way to rack up early, as we can usually get at least 6 guys this way. After that we have someone spot the bachelor for an "around the world" whipped cream shot (boobies, tummy, and asscheeks) for $20. Then open the floor for lapdances, whipped cream, etc. DON'T DO your toy show until the end, work your way up to that. It's hard to get guys interested in the less hardcore action if you get super nasty right away. I would have my driver presell it when I got there, or sell it after things start to fizzle out at the end. And end on that. Also, if you have a driver (which you should) make sure he is personable and friendly and have him do most all the talking money-wise. That way you can stand there and look cute, and not like a money-grubbing wench! Also, guys at these things are often much more likely to want to see their friends get party tricks even if they themselves don't want to do them. So the "who do you want to see get a lapdance/whipped cream/feed the kitty" works wonderfully.
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This is really helpful, gave me some great ideas! Thank you so much!
Hey, while we are at it...how do girls with small boobs give boob body shots...any tips ha ha!
LJ
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I have small breasts ;D and all I do is hold the shot between them whilst squeezing them together otherwise I have the focus be my ass..... and instead have them have a shot off just above my ass crack ;D
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So you put the shot glass between your cheeks or set it on top of your tail bone like a little table?
Hey what do you gals do about lighting? Some venues have crappy lighting and don't give us the best mood setting or appearance boost...do you have them adjust the lights, do you bring your own...do you just deal with the glare of florecents and hope they don't notice your every little flaw?
you two are kind to drop your lines of advice...appreciate it!
LJ
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Luna Jade
So you put the shot glass between your cheeks or set it on top of your tail bone like a little table?
Hey what do you gals do about lighting? Some venues have crappy lighting and don't give us the best mood setting or appearance boost...do you have them adjust the lights, do you bring your own...do you just deal with the glare of florecents and hope they don't notice your every little flaw?
you two are kind to drop your lines of advice...appreciate it!
LJ
Tail bone. Never between my butt cheeks! :D
As for lighting, if there is nothing you can do about it then there is nothing you can do about it. At the same time, it is up to you whether you invest in lights that you can store in the boot of your car (can be plugged into a power point at the venue).
In the end, if you can't deal with doing shows etc in every sort of lighting because you are too self conscious then think about working in a club. You need to be thick skinned and confident in order to do well at private parties. The last thing you should be worried about is "do I look fat under these lights?" ... be more concerned about entertaining the clients.
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Great points you made....yep, thick skin indeed.
Thanks so much!
LJ
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Yeah, don't worry about the lighting. Most guys are drunk and just happy that there is a naked girl around!
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Lighting is the last thing I worry about and like everyone else said, you can't do anything about it!
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my fiance says "a mans biggest fantasy is to drink beer and see sumtin nekkid!!!" lol and its true!