I have a huge stocking/pantyhose fetish... any tips from the dancers on how to get more ladies to put on nylon stockings and rub their legs (and just their legs) and make them feel happy besides tipping a lot, obviously?
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I have a huge stocking/pantyhose fetish... any tips from the dancers on how to get more ladies to put on nylon stockings and rub their legs (and just their legs) and make them feel happy besides tipping a lot, obviously?
Just keep looking 'til you find a girl who's into it, too. Money will make most dancers happy enough but I'm sure some who are into lingerie would be thrilled. I can't imagine it would actually offend anyone. I would love a customer who wanted to spend an hour that way 'cause I love stockings. I had one who would bring me the type he liked and we'd spend time in VIP, I'd dance and then sit and he'd stroke my legs and feet. Man, that was great.
Just ask? Money would damn sure make me more than accomodating to such a mild request. Man I love fetish guys..
Word. I've been wearing fishnets lately but I always have stocking of some sort be they nylons, fishnets, stay-ups or with a garter belt, seamed or seamless... I have a few nights a month when I wear boots but that's about it! Either way I love nothing better than a customer who likes my stocking too.
One thing about stocking is that wearing regular stocking it's often hard to do any advanced pole tricks which is why a lot of girls prefer fishnets (better grip). Also one good way is to actually bring stocking you like with you in an unopened package and ask a girl to wear them, giving them out as a gift once you're done. I used to have customer tip me in expensive stockings and I looooved him. All he wanted was to see me change the stocking on and clip on the garterbelt, straighten my seams and so forth, and then he'd stroke my legs for a bit. He was great.
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i'd have to be careful as having a wee bit of a stocking fetish myself i might get a bit turned on *blush*
it's quite a common fetish so chances are there will be a girl in the club who would enjoy doing it. Usually the girls who love lingerie love teaming it with stockings too. I like the idea of bringing in some stockings as a gift too.
Just ask. I had a really cute foot-person the other day, who just asked me to take off my boots so he could caress my legs and feet instead of dancing. What made it cute was that he seemed to think, for some bizarre reason, that this might offend me or something. I cannot imagine anyone being uncomfortable with this - except for like, personal issues. E.g. - I wear boots, so my feet smell. I'm always a little "eee" over that.
I think thats why he asked u. If your into feets, u are prolly into footy smells :)
But as an aside and as it relates to the hose fetish, it may be me but i think their are less stockings in strip bars these days. Seriously, i rarely see dancers in a nice stocking and garters anymore. My guess is that they are so easily ruined.
I love the foot and leg fetishists. They're usually the most easy going and tamest customers to deal with.
I saw your earlier thread and so I assume you're from around me. Just ask the girls. Some might act hoity-toity and say no but... Forget them. Most of us wouldn't mind, as long as you're tipping ;)
I've had several custies who brought in stockings or pantyhose for me to wear. Guys like that are usually tame and fun..and hell..foot fetish guys ROCK! They always want to pay you to massage your feet...LOVE IT!!!!
I actually have a foot/pantyhose fetish magazine out now...I'm on front and back cover and 7 pg spread inside...I WISH a fetish guy would come in now! Take me to the champagne room so I can play with stockings and get my feet rubbed while sipping champagne..and now i could give him an autographed copy of my mag as a souvinier!!
Sigh....
Just ask her dude. I have yet to meet a dancer who didn't mind doing easier work for the same, if not more, money.
The great part is that your request will likely be a unique one so you get remembered very easily next time you're in.
Though I am not a true foot fetishist, I have found recently that my ATF loves to have her feet rubbed, although she too is a bit self-conscious about the smell issue. I can't beleive that every dancer who has to waer those gnarly shoes all shift wouldn't appreciate a good foot rub!!
I find it to be a most erotic exercise for both of us. I just love any opportunity to get my hands on her}:D , (within the rules of the club) so Backrubs, foot rubs, leg rubs, arm rubs, scalp massage, neck rubs are all fine with me- and her apparently. I am fetishizing her whole body, I guess and she says it changes her whole mood about being at work. I love it when she's in a good mood! :P I also will take her to lunch periodically to a restaurant (Papa Haydens) in PDX that happens to be right across the street from a lingerie store. (O, Baby!) After lunch, we go panty shopping. I get to watch her try on a bunch of different undies and help her choose the hottest one. }:D Then we go to the club and get dances in her new outfit!! I just love win/wins!!!;D A few weeks ago I bought stockings for her and another dancer (it was her b-day) so that I could get a double couch dance from them with their new lingerie. Both ladies are 5'10" / 6'2" in heels- brunette stunners, with legs that go way up and make asses out of themselves!!! :P so I had to get them the extra tall size. Nothing like the feel of four black-stockinged legs rubbing all over each other and me! Yum.
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Very cool!
I give great massages anyway.... I'm told I have strong hands. I've made the legs and feet of several dancers in the past feel much more relaxed...
Chris
By the way, what's a good amount to tip a dancer for putting on stockings, and getting to massage her stocking clad legs? Lets say private dances are 30, tables dances are 10, and I want to drink on a couch and rub her legs....without monopolizing her all night, of course.
Um, I get paid the normal dance rate.
Jenny is correct in stating that the dancer has every right to charge the maximum per song rate that she can get for her time, whether its for dancing, rubbing her legs, playing chess or just talking. If you aren't paying that rate and someone else in the club will then she has no incentive to stay with you.
Therefore, if paying $30/song is out of your price range, and you have no problem with doing your thing tableside, I suggest hitting the club at an off peak time.
That makes sense! Good point!
I agree that bringing stockings with you is a great idea. Some very openminded girls might have a limited wardrobe... also, in case you walk into the club and see The Stripper of Your Dreams, you will be prepared to approach her with a very specific request that she can fulfill right then and there, because you have come in armed with stockings (and money ;) ). Assuming you're polite and willing to conduct yourself within the limitations of the law, what girl would refuse?
Also, if you are interested in taking the stockings home with you, you can explain to her that you'd prefer to keep them and give her an additional tip (it needn't be gratuitous, $20 or so, I'd say). Just bring in new stockings each time you come in, if you prefer to supply your own (because it might get weird if you want her to wear dirty stockings, but it's not that weird if you want to keep the used stockings). Or, if you develop an ongiong relationship with a dancer, you can supply her with a "stocking fund" and give her an idea of what you like, so she can "surprise" you with her own selection each time you come in. It will require some coordination, of course, so she can shop before your meetings, but you seem like you have a clear idea of what you want, and it is safe, sane, legal, and reasonable. I hope the Stripper of Your Dreams takes good care of you.
That was really sweet. Thank you!
^^^ I guess... but honestly, I have a pretty good impression of by-the-book fetishists. A guy used to come in with a pack of Virginia Slims 100s and pay me to smoke them while wearing elbow-length gloves and red lipstick. He was a simple, straight-up smoker fetishist. He never asked for sex, OTC, extras, nothing. He was a nice, apologetic guy who worried so much about being thought of as freakish. I was happy to accomodate his desires... hey, I smoke anyway, and I'm not too picky about brands, so what was the harm? The OP sounds like the same sort. Ain't nothing wrong with fetishes of the safe, sane, legal and reasonable persuasion. Welcome to the notion of Sometimes Strange Little Things Turn Certain People On.
I wouldnt personally do it. Besides the fact that touching isnt allowed at my club I would not want a strange man caressing my legs and I would not put on some stockings that he brought from home either. But Im prob the exception not the norm.
That's ok!