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Is it ok to call a club to see if a girl is working?
Is it ok to call a club to see if a girl is working? What about asking when the next time she works? I also don't want to come off as "stalker-ish" would this make me look like one?
I normally wouldn't call the club, but she left early on the night I usually go see her.
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It's okay to call and ask, but it's kind of pointless to do that. They will tell you she's there whether she is or not. All clubs do that. They figure it's better to just get you in the door and you'll spend some money either way.
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Yep, it's perfectly okay. They do it at my club all of the time, and believe it or not, they're honest about it.
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Originally Posted by
Yekhefah
It's okay to call and ask, but it's kind of pointless to do that. They will tell you she's there whether she is or not. All clubs do that.
They don't all do that! The one I go to will tell you. They won't know when they work next, but are honest about whether they are there.
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Originally Posted by
Yekhefah
It's okay to call and ask, but it's kind of pointless to do that. They will tell you she's there whether she is or not. All clubs do that. They figure it's better to just get you in the door and you'll spend some money either way.
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Silverback
They don't all do that! The one I go to will tell you. They won't know when they work next, but are honest about whether they are there.
Well, mine does that, lol.
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I do it at the club I frequent, and they are usually honest and accurate, unless there's a new, clueless bouncer answering the phone.
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Our club is honest too, they figure it's best that the customer leaves happy and broke than just broke. So if somebody calls in and asks if I'm working they'll go "No, but she'll be here next Friday, can you come then? Oh... Well how about the week after that, from Tuesday to Saturday, pick your date? Great, see you then!"
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Yeah alot of clubs will lie and say the girl is there anyway. Im quite convinced that the people who answer the phones dont even know who the dancers are half the time so they just say yes because they dont care anyway.
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At my club they are honest. They all have radios, so if they don't know they just ask.
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Yeah - nobody at my club really keeps track of whether I'm there or not. They wouldn't know. Like they know if I've come in, but they don't know or care when I leave. If you want to know the best thing to do is ask for her email - most dancers have a work related email. If she doesn't want to give it to you, give her yours and ask her to get a hotmail or yahoo account you can contact her with for her schedule. The best way to make a ITC with a dancer is with her.
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Wow, who knew there were so many honest clubs?
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virgoamm
Yep, it's perfectly okay. They do it at my club all of the time, and believe it or not, they're honest about it.
OMG my club NEVER discloses that sort of information because it is deemed "stalker-ish"
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i love that custies do that!
and my club tells me how many calls i've had... and who it was if they could find out.
:) i like it.
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This exemplifies why you should have a personal contact with the dancer (if she's cool with that) and not bother calling the club. Its more surefire.
Needless to say when the club phone number is all thats available, its better than nothing. I've called a club a few times and in every case, they were honest enough to say no, so and so wasn't there tonight.
I guess in some clubs where they make significant money from a cut of dances, VIP rooms or selling expensive alcohol, namely an expense a customer is ONLY going to make if that particular girl is there, its more mathematically sound to be honest than try to screw him out of a cover charge.
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doc-catfish
I guess in some clubs where they make significant money from a cut of dances, VIP rooms or selling expensive alcohol, namely an expense a customer is ONLY going to make if that particular girl is there, its more mathematically sound to be honest than try to screw him out of a cover charge.
Just as a side thing - a lot of clubs may not be trying to screw the customer at all, and are just saying yes in case she is there, or may be coming in. I realize it doesn't mitigate the inconvenience for you, but from their point of view, they are just trying to make ensure that Bubbles doesn't potentially lose out on your money because she's late or they haven't seen her yet. Just saying - it's not always about victimizing you guys. You're all so fricking paranoid.
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cinammonkisses
OMG my club NEVER discloses that sort of information because it is deemed "stalker-ish"
Yeah, I called a club a year or two ago and asked if someone was there and the guy basically said "we can't give out that info"
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cinammonkisses
OMG my club NEVER discloses that sort of information because it is deemed "stalker-ish"
I have called clubs on occasion and I am certainly not a stalker. Some clubs will read off the schedule and some clubs won't. I can see the arguments on both sides.
Fact is, there may be only a couple dancers I am interested in at that club. If I show up then I am one more paying customer. It would be true that most of my money would be spent on the favorites, but I would pay a cover, and buy drinks (so the house benefits). I would also sit at the tip rail for at least some of my stay, so each dancer will receive a few extra bucks.
Next time I am in Mason, OH I am planning on checking out Cheeks. Would it bother you if I tried to learn your schedule? Just because I thought it would be cool to come to your club and meet you.
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Yekhefah
Wow, who knew there were so many honest clubs?
THIS HAS BEEN TESTED AT A POMPANO CLUB. I agree with your earlier assessment.
LOOOOOOONNNNNGGGGGGG before I was on SW
I literally hung out (in a very pl way) 5 Girls at this club Diamonds in pompono for a MONTH while I was down there. I called up and asked if a girl was there...yes...I'll make up names. You'll see the joke.
Is Suzie There Tonight?
Yes
Emma as well?
Yes
And Charm?
Yes
How about Earl?
Yes
How About Mom? Is your Mom there?
Ye...*click*
I still went. I HAD to go. And I when I got there and had an Idea who it was...I was sooooo scared...the guy could have killed me with a sneeze.
Just remembering it makes me tense. Lol. In my mind, I kept imagining having the guts to go, "Hey, I called and you said your Mom was working tonight! What the hell?!" But... I like where I'm at in life right now.
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Well I just called and asked, they said no. Looks like I got an honest club.
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did u ask when she will be working? if they wont tell u go in another nnight and if she is not there ask another dancer what nights she usually works.
when u do see her again make sure u express an interest in knowing her schedule. most dancers will be happy for repeat customers and will let u know - she may give u an email, website etc that lets u know when she is working.
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Jenny
Just saying - it's not always about victimizing you guys. You're all so fricking paranoid.
I think you're overstating it, Jenny. Really depends on the club -- and most definitely on the personnel you get on the phone. Some are totally clueless. I'd never even try to call any of the bigger Denver clubs. But the smaller clubs and the suburban clubs are fine. Your bouncers may not notice if you've left early, but my club's bouncers, manager, and especially a couple of the the bartenders know exactly who is there. I could probably call them now and they could probably tell me if such-and-such customer was there! Again "modulo" the clueless or new hires. (And it's not even because they know me, because when I call, they generally don't know it's me.)
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jaizaine
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did u ask when she will be working? if they wont tell u go in another nnight and if she is not there ask another dancer what nights she usually works.
when u do see her again make sure u express an interest in knowing her schedule. most dancers will be happy for repeat customers and will let u know - she may give u an email, website etc that lets u know when she is working.
The guy didn't know when she worked next. The dancer has already told me her schedule before, I just forgot it.
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At my club we have to send our rosters through on a monday for the rest of that week. I dont know how other clubs operate though.
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virgoamm
Yep, it's perfectly okay. They do it at my club all of the time, and believe it or not, they're honest about it.
my club is honest about it too. i believe many -are- honest. the way my club sees it is, they don't want to lie to a good paying customer and risk losing him in order to sell the 1 or 2 drinks they'd sell while he's "figuring out" that she isn't there. it doesn't make sense. also, most clubs -want- their girls to have regulars. it makes the girl consistent money and helps to keep her at that club. my club treats the girls' regulars excellent. they always take good care of them. out manager throws a few free drinks in here and there and will sometimes knock the "house" part off of the VIP fee. they don't do it all the time mind you (obviously) but they do it for really good guests on occasion (say it's his bday or whatnot).