Private Parties - How I do 'em
Hi everyone!
Joe newbie here. I thought I'd stop lurking and contribute to this website. Anyway, I am throwing a private party this summer (my 2nd one) and thought I'd share my strategies with the fellow SC junkies in putting it all together. Sorry it is a long post. It probably won't work for everyone but here goes...
First the girls:
Most important thing of course is the GIRLS. Without top talent that will meet the expectations of my fellow SC junkie friends the party will be a bust. Fortunately my bud and I are regs at a topless club in So Cal with 1 or 2 visits a week usually each spending $150 to $300. We have about 6 or 7 girls that we lap with on a consistent basis when they are working in the club so we sort of spread the $$ around and neither of us has a super consistent favorite that we dance the whole night. We also are gentleman with good manners and treat the girls nice and usually have several of them sit and/or drink with us throughout the night. When our faves are on stage we always tip 5 bucks or so and often will sit at the tip rail to get a better view and give them some support. We also tip the waitresses really well. Overall we are known and have good reps with the dancers. Importantly we know that the SC scene if for entertainment purposes only not a dating service. Besides we both have obligations and are not looking for dates.
Over the last year we have become pretty friendly with some of the girls, have given and gotten phone #’s, have seem some of them OTC, and seem to spend a lot of time texting. Basically our goal is to be friends, have them trust us, and get them to dance at our private parties which we have twice a year or so (when the wives are gone). We are not really trying to see them OTC but just get fun girls to our privates who already know and like us (although OTC stuff has happened, but that is another post!)
So at this point we have actually have cell #’s for about 10 or 12 dancers that want to come to the party (some actually text us weekly to make sure of the date and if they are going to dance). We won’t know how many girls we will need until I know exactly how many guys will be there. I am figuring a 4 to one ratio (20 guys = 5 girls for you math challenged). One crucial fact: One of the girls has done a private for us before and she made a grand and only worked 3 hours. She is well liked and vouched for us to all of the other dancers. Plus they are all from the same club and get along well.
Someone asked why don’t we just hire girls from a company to come over and dance? Well you don’t know who you are getting, what they look like, what their attitude is like, and it is not the same. Having girls you know, are comfortable with you, and have great attitudes (plus are smokin’ hot) is just so much better.
Ok, so we got the girls…
The Venue (aka my house)
Basically what I do is turn the house in to a strip club. Lots of couches, mood lighting, a stripper pole, 3 semi private lap areas, a super private bed dance area (aka the guest bedroom), a lounge in the loft and MY VIP area (aka the master bedroom, hey it’s my house!) We also have a smoking lounge in the large patio with lots of candles etc.
Music
As far as music goes I have spent the better part of 6 months assembling a great stripper mix on the Ipod. So far I have 6 hours worth of songs that I am trying to narrow in to 5 hours. I have everything, Hip Hop, rap, house, trance, rock, R & B. Just hit play and the music will take care of itself. I will be posting the song mix in another post in the song forum. Believe
me it’s a killer mix that will keep everyone movin’ all night long.
Food/Drink
Of course we have all the beer, wine, champagne, and top shelf booze you could want. We also have a sushi chef that will start preparing sushi for my buds and the dancers at around 6pm. Gotta have good food for the party! The girls are welcome but not required to show up early and get some sushi, have some cocktails, and meet the guys. This part of the party is really fun as everyone is eating'/drinkin'/partyin' and is pumped to give or get some killer lap dances. At around 8pm the girls retire to the master bedroom to get ready for the party which starts at 9.
The Boyz (aka the guest list)
Our privates are legendary among my crew and everyone wants in. However, I run a tight guest list. I want the big spenders who are there to lap and lap and lap all night. For my wealthy buds I make them promise to bring at least 3-5 grand (which is nothing to them) so they can buy dances for my broke ass friends (that I still want to attend) like my school teacher bud or my musician bud. I tell all my friends if they ever fuck up and do something stupid or piss off any of the dancers they are OUT forever! They of course stay well-behaved. And noone is allowed to bring friends along. If you aren’t on the guest list you are not getting in. The last thing I need is more guys at the party that I don’t know or trust. Plus it messes up the girls/guy ratio.
The Party...
At 9pm the music starts and I bring out the girls one by one and introduce them to the guys. I make sure to have about 500 in singles and lots of twenties to make change with. I also give the guys a warning/pep talk to remember to treat the girls with respect, each dance is $20, don't get too wasted (good luck with all of my lush SC junkies!), and don't monopolize any of the girls as we are all waiting to lap. I also tell them when the dancing and the dollars stop the girls won’t stick around too long so I kind of act like the club DJ and make sure my friends keep going. If there is a shy bud in attendance I make sure to walk a girl over and maybe buy him the 1st dance to get him rolling. Of course no cameras or cell cams and KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. What happends at the private stays there. Also no one is allowed to tell their significant others that they are going to a party or anything to do with me or my bud. You gotta come up with your own excuse as to where you are and why you got home at 4am.
The girls do not get a base pay or anything like that. They work it like a regular SC at 20 bucks a pop (I mean per song). By the way, we never do any of that lesbo show routine shit, dildos, whipped cream, pin the G-String on the stripper or any of those other silly games. All we want is sexy topless HM lap dances and some hot fuckin pole dancing. If a girl is on the pole we shower her with bills. Extra tipping is frequent as the girls are usually rockin us and it’s cool because they can take a break and have a drink or a smoke or something to eat. It’s a really fun and relaxed atmosphere for the girls and the guys have smiles on their faces all night because there is nothing like a private with your best friends and plenty of
Smoking hot dancers. At the last party I had the dancers left
by 1am and averaged $900 for the evening.
Sorry this post is so long. The next party takes place this summer and I will post a post-party report in this forum. Oh, and don’t forget to book a maid or cleaning service so you don’t have to clean the house. Make sure you look under the bed, under sofas etc for any stray thongs, earrings etc… That would be bad.
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Wow, the girls must really trust you if you don't give them money up front or secure them with an hourly fee!
Sounds like you have the whole thing down to a science. I would suggest some blacklights for your mood lighting (i love them).
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^^I agree! My money is always upfront.
I am curious though, is there any sort of security here? You know, sometimes men can't control themselves, and problems (ie. liabilities in your case) could happen.
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Well I guess the girls trust us. We are pretty hard core regs at our club, have good reps with the dancers and wait staff and we tip well. We have a good track record with about 4 private parties under our belt. The girls have fun, they are well treated, they make $700 to a grand each, and the guys know if they fuck up they are banned for life. Plus no guy I don't know well and trust gets invited.
Never needed security. I run a tight freakin ship. It cuts down on my fun but I basically do this for my buddies anyway. I don't get as many laps since i am watching things. Still it's ok. We never pay up front. $20 per dance just like at the SC. The girls never asked for up front $$ anyway.
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Daaaang high roller! Your parties sound like they must be a fucking blast!
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(hey sex kitten, did you read so.cal and lift an eyebrow like i just did?) ;D
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Hey Sex Kitten:
Hell yeah the party is a blast! Probably the only way to do it like we do it is to be regs like us and network with the girls. We've been visiting the club for a year and average 1 or 2 visits a week. Funny story: I was at the club and I was writing down the names on a napkin of the dancers we were hoping could dance at the private. I was also writing down the names of my friends who will be there. A dancer who we sort of know sat down with us and asked why I was writing down dancers names. I said we are having a private and these girls were on our wish list to dance for us. Well of course she said she wanted to dance and promptly gave me her cell number. Every time I see her she asks about it.
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Embyr
(hey sex kitten, did you read so.cal and lift an eyebrow like i just did?) ;D
Yyyyyeess... }:D
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my bud and I are regs at a topless club in So Cal
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well technically it's L.A.
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wow, i just re-read this thread.... these parties DO sound really fun. (*now i'm all sorts of curious... "technically LA.... " hmm, like... LONG BEACH?? ok imma shaddup now, hope you know i'm totally joking here.)
anyway- CK did make a good point about security and liabilities... even though there is mutual trust, how do you come to have a pole in your house? you mentioned a wife... unless she is a poledancer herself, i take it your pole is temporary.... in which case i'd be wary of its stability.
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Well i guess we are risk takers in regards to liability and security. Conservative I am not. However, my guestlist is tight and all are upscale married/fams 30's, 40's, 50's and we all have too much to lose if someone fucks up. No one I don't know and/or trust is allowed to set foot in my exotic dance club. We all police each other and we all know the groundrules. Number one is treat the girls with the utmost of respect and do not do anything to piss off the girls. Grounds for immediate ejaculation, err, ejection. No one and I mean no one wants to be banned because they all realize that they are very lucky to be in such a fun, relaxed, sexy, atmosphere with smokin hot girls who knows, like us, and trust us.
All the girls are 8's, 9's, and, 10's.
Yeah the pole is a home temporary pole but none of the girls do anything fancy on it. They just basically sexy dance on it, no climbing or upside down shit. After the party we just patch the hole, sand it, and paint it. The next one is in June. I'll be posting a post-party report for all to enjoy!
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how did the girls only walk away with $900 each when you had each guy bring $3000 - $5000 dollars.. at a ratio of 4 men to every woman they should have each walked away with thosands of dollars .. not counting the money you spent. Im assuming you didnt mean a total of $5000 for the party as if they are high rollers dividing the high est of $5000 thats only $250 per person.. (not exactly high roller material and your parties sound pretty lush).
anyways.. the parties sound awesome though. its nice to have a respectful guy in the club.. you make all the difference!
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latinalover
Well i guess we are risk takers in regards to liability and security. Conservative I am not. However, my guestlist is tight and all are upscale married/fams 30's, 40's, 50's and we all have too much to lose if someone fucks up. No one I don't know and/or trust is allowed to set foot in my exotic dance club. We all police each other and we all know the groundrules. Number one is treat the girls with the utmost of respect and do not do anything to piss off the girls. Grounds for immediate ejaculation, err, ejection. No one and I mean no one wants to be banned because they all realize that they are very lucky to be in such a fun, relaxed, sexy, atmosphere with smokin hot girls who knows, like us, and trust us.
All the girls are 8's, 9's, and, 10's.
Yeah the pole is a home temporary pole but none of the girls do anything fancy on it. They just basically sexy dance on it, no climbing or upside down shit. After the party we just patch the hole, sand it, and paint it. The next one is in June. I'll be posting a post-party report for all to enjoy!
you should consider the portable x-pole .. it goes up and down in minutes without any holes to sand.. just an idea. :)