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Asking a Custy: "Hey Can we Take a Break"
Ok, I met a guy towards the end of my shift last night who bought dance after dance, after dance. I was tired...BUT I just kept telling myself, "keep going you are making money finally!'
Anyway, just curious if you girls are tired of dancing for a guy, do you ask him to take a break, or do you just grin and bear it?
Also, how many dances can you do before you become sluggish and need a break.
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I have felt like that too, and sometimes I've suggested a song break and have said, "Don't worry, I won't charge you for the songs I don't dance," and then only take one or two songs as a break.
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I will do 10 songs then stop for a break. Good time to square up, at my club that's $100. I get paid, use the ladies room, then start fresh for another 10. Hopefully though if someone likes me that much and obviously has money, I'll try to get him to VIP. There I'm paid upfront for the hour and can spend down time drinking.
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Grin and bear it. It usually happens at the end of the night, the guy is usually hammered and he doesn't notice it is a shitty dance.
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It depends on the guy. If I think he's not going to just pay up and leave, I'll take a break around 20 songs.
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I'll ask to take a break.
OMG, you have me all hot and tired out! Let's take a break for a minute and get a drink.
I can go about 10 songs, but by the 8th, they are getting pretty lazy.
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It depends on the situation. If I have to spend the whole time gaurding hands then I will ask to take a break to compose myself. However, there have been times that I danced for 3 hours straight with the same guy.
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I try to make myself keep going. I''m always afraid if I break he won't want anymore after that. But if we haven't done money up front, but I know he has it, normally after 10 to collect money, but then I keep going. I just think of the great workout I'm getting. It's the only way I get one actually.
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^^^ Exactly. money money money money money. you never know what will happen if you take a break. If Mr. moneybags is all hot and bothered and you abruptly cool him off... he may stop completely. NOT TAKING that Chance. some guys are polite and understand that after 15 songs i simply CAN'T be as good a dancer as song 1-5... but with that kind of moolah flowing my way...
... i ain't gonna say shee-it!!!
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Well, you gotta be able to judge.....I wont leave to customer, I stay, I talk to him, I keep the sexy tone, sit in his lap, rub his neck....I dont let the tone go away. Then When I've had a short beak, I just say OMG. I MUST dance for you more. I can't wait any longer!
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Grinned and beared it, always! You can rest when there isn't money to be made!
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Yeah, I would probably not take a break unless I was physcially sick. the most I have ever danced in a row on the floor was 20 songs (I remember this cause it was a nice even number. That's one hour straight at my club) It doesn't bother me. As long as the guy is going to pay me, I will keep going. I can always sit down and have a drink while counting my money after I'm done. ;) If it did get to something rediculous like 40 songs in a row, I think I would take a break though.
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I will do 10 in a row and take a break. I have a couple of regulars who always have 10 in a row. If it was someone I had never danced for before, I'd just keep going until I was about to pee myself or whatever. If you have to use the restroom, you just have to. Otherwise I keep going.
The most I've ever done in a row was somewhere between 15 and 20.
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I look at it this way. The most I've ever done was 19 in a row, but that was $380 in my pocket right then. No hassle.
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I try to seize every opportunity for money and have never taken a break from dancing. If there is a momentum going I'm going to ride with it.
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unless it's a customer i already know well and i know will pay to sit for a song, i never ask to take a break. 15, 20 songs, whatever. it doesn't matter. the motivation of getting paid $20 for 3 minutes of my time is strong enough to keep me going.
the one thing i do ask for, unless again it is a customer i know well, is payment every few songs.
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If I know the guy has the money to pay, I'll dance until closing time or I literally give out. I have done as many as 41 dances in a row before, and regularly do 10-20 in a row, so getting tired isn't an issue for me. I do get tired obviously, I'm not a robot, but I can dance til the cows come home if the money's there. Money is a great motivator ;D
However, with guys I'm not familiar with or unsure of their financial situation, I'll run about a $100 tab and use "taking a break" as an excuse to stop and collect before doing more dances. I'll say I'm thirsty or whatever, then casually ask for the money around the end of the first break song, then wait another song or two depending on the situation before starting up dances again. It's a good way to make sure I'm getting paid and build a little rapport with the guy at the same time ;D
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I once had to stop because the entire club was waiting on me and it was already 5:30am but he kept on spending... I was SO tired. Everyone was staring at me... etc... so I finally had to say, Hey come back tomorrow? Of course he didn't. Damn.
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^^ I had that happen to me a few times before. They'd turn the fuckign lights on and just stand there and tap their foot. That's one reason I love dancing in Vegas. They never turn the lights on and close up.
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I never stop. A few weeks ago I danced for three hours straight, from stage to lap to lap to stage to lap. If I'm really tired, I just sit and grind (I'm such a whore). Another time (years ago) I did a four hour CR for a guy who wanted me to dance the whole time, and except for one bathroom break, I did.
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As long as he's spending money, I don't want to break the flow. If I get really exhausted, that's when I straddle his lap to get off my feet and do a little slow grinding. They don't usually mind.
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I act according to the situation in the end.
Just like everyone else who has done this for awhile, I've had my moments where I danced, danced and danced til I could not any longer ........be it for one person or a case of stage, dance, stage, dance etc.
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Originally Posted by
Lena
I never stop. A few weeks ago I danced for three hours straight, from stage to lap to lap to stage to lap. If I'm really tired, I just sit and grind (I'm such a whore). Another time (years ago) I did a four hour CR for a guy who wanted me to dance the whole time, and except for one bathroom break, I did.
Goodness, I bet your legs felt like jello afterwards :O
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Briggette.... 41???!!!!??? Holy Shit girl!!!! Bet your feet were hurting that nite!