what i am nervous about...
so i have never been a dancer before, and I am planning to start soon... the club near me has nude on stage... this might be a silly question, but how do you make your va j j pretty? I mean, i just don't think mine is very cute... i don't really look at other peoples frequently or anything, but i think that mine is darker than my other skin... and that maybe the inner labia are too big... they kinda hang out the middle... also, if you spread your legs on stage, and they can see in the actual opening, is that like super gross or what? i was wondering if i should apply a tightener cream before starting... idk. I have never stripped before and i am feeling pretty comfortable thanks to you all!!! but this is the one thing that is inibiting me... it makes me feel uneasy... If I apply body make up or something, do you think it will smear? Am I the only one worried about this kind of stuff....
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Guys are just happy to see pussy no matter what shape or color. As long as its clean and it smells normal they don't give a damn. Pussy is pussy to them.
I did work with a girl who would put glitter on her pussy like the outside of the lips to make it sparkle. Besides, if you don't feel comfortable spreading your legs then don't. You'll learn stage moves that show enough but not too much of it.
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Don't bother with body make up. It'll be more trouble that it's worth and not healthy. I agree with TigersMilk...guys don't care what it looks like. Healthy vaginas don't have much of an odor. If you're concerned, cleaning it the outside with a damp washcloth before work can't hurt...no soap though!
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yeah as long as nothings leaking out of it or anything scary like that men are men and in their eyes pussy is pussy.
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I just read The Vagina Monologue today.It made me feel pretty damn proud about my vagina.Maybe you should pick it up.;)
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I think the only thing to worry about is the toilet paper issue. Under the club blacklights any little tiny flakes of tp will glow. It aint cute to have tps bits stuck to the vag when you are trying to be sexy. Use baby wipes at work. Everything else should be okay.
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Good point! TP and antiperspirant glow...but I certainly don't skip antiperspirant...just don't use it liberally. :)