Contact in a No Contact Club
The lap dances at the club I work at are supposed to be very low contact. We can touch shoulders or knees for balance/support, thats it. The lap dances are all done in a big open room with couches, so the guy can see all the other guys getting dances. A vast majority of the girls there break all the rules and are rubbing all over these guys. I'm just wondering how the hell am I supposed to sell more than one dance without using contact like all the other girls do. Obviously this guys going to see all these other guys getting rubbed on and dry humped, so why buy another dance from a girl who doesnt when he can go get one with more heavy contact? Any tips on what I can do to keep my money up without comprimising the rules or the fact that I'd really rather not have dry sex with these men?
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
speand more time with them out of the dance room, and try to get them straight to vip. that way they don't see the other girls dirty dancing.
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
Some options:
You can try to find something else special to "sell" like humor or good convo but that doesn't always pay for everyone. It's skill that not everyone has. If that's you, well then there is option #2: can you work in another club?
Option #3: if you're comfy doing as much contact as the rest of the dancers then go ahead and compete with them. But don't do it if your not fully ok with the legal or emotional risks that go with doing more contact. Contact is not right for every dancer either.
Remember you are not stuck, you always have choices. Best of luck!
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
Unfortunatly its the only club close to me (I'm in Maine) I have a boyfriend so I kind of feeling guilty being really touchy with guys. I do ok with money but I rarely sell more than 2 dances to the same guy and I think thats why.
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
TMC is right. I feel that there's always a market for a girl who can have a conversation AND give a good dance, not just walk up and grind away. In my club there is a lot of unauthorized contact. I still make money from a lot of people who actually do not want a lot of contact. They want a girl they can talk to who is nice to look at. Just try to find those guys.
Another good way is to use it as an opportunity to upsell. Say your dances are 20 in the couch area. Tell them that for 30 or 40 you'll give them the "really good" dance, which will be comparable to what the other girls do for 20. For 40 dollars a dance I think it's worth it to give the same contact as everyone else, right?
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
Remind him of how much more suggestive is than sleazy. If you just say it, alot of guys are just like..... "Oh yeah......"
Re: Contact in a No Contact Club
Step up your suggestive contact. Make eye contact and stroke his face/hair, lean in close to his neck and make little sex noises and breath on his neck, etc.
If you're already doing that or that doesn't work, find a new club.