Hoe taking my customers...
At work, I'm the type to not really get in people's business or really care what they do to make money, as long as it doesn't affect me. Well, there's a girl (call her X) at my club who fucks guys in VIP. It's kind of her reputation. She is very pretty, looks clean...She's very attractive. Well, two of my customers already have stopped seeing me like they used to because she probably does whatever they want her to do. One of my custies actually asked where she was the other day. She's been working at the club longer than me, she hasn't gotten fired, she doesn't flaunt being a whore even though we all know she is, and I wouldn't be surprised if she is fucking the managers. There would be no point in me talking to management, in other words.
I guess this was just a rant...I can't think of anything to do but accept the fact that I can't compete with a girl who will give the custies whatever they want. It just really pisses me off that I'm losing custies to a dick-sucker....that's all. It's like, I'll have a regular, and then they'll come in one day and be like "Oh, I met X the other day and we went to VIP...she's fun!" then all of a sudden they're HER regulars.
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Now, are you SURE that's really what's happening? Because I had a similar reputation at a club for a few weeks. Some girl who had been gone for awhile came back and was pissed that some of her regulars had started getting dances from me. Nexty thing you know, she's telling people I'm doing"god knows what!" In the private dance area to them. It was probably easier for her to tell herself that than admit that They're interest had gone elsewhere.
I'm not saying this is what YOU'RE doing. But is it possible someone else has given her a bad reputation?
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fifi
Now, are you SURE that's really what's happening? Because I had a similar reputation at a club for a few weeks. Some girl who had been gone for awhile came back and was pissed that some of her regulars had started getting dances from me. Nexty thing you know, she's telling people I'm doing"god knows what!" In the private dance area to them. It was probably easier for her to tell herself that than admit that They're interest had gone elsewhere.
I'm not saying this is what YOU'RE doing. But is it possible someone else has given her a bad reputation?
No no no...The customers who have the reps for being "nasty" and pulling their dick out and shit in VIP coincidentally LOVE taking her to VIP. And also, girls think customers don't kiss and tell...they do.
I understand what you're saying, but I wouldn't accuse someone if I wasn't sure.
Also, one of my old regulars (who stopped seeing me and took X to VIP all the time) NEVER asked me to do anything extra when he was my reg. He hadn't taken me to VIP for weeks, he would just take X. Well, he came in the other day
and took me to VIP cuz X wasn't at work. He actually straight up asked me to suck his dick...he's never ever asked me to do that before he started taking X to VIP.
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This is why I am possessive about regulars. Some dancers think its unfair, but you are leaving the door wide open for someone else to distract your guy. With a good regular I throw a fit if he even looks at another much less gets a dance with one. (Just to clarify- I get mad and yell at him, not other dancers.)
Also, ask your regular which night he is coming in and make sure you are there those nights so he doesn't get distracted from you by another dancer. Or better yet, tell him to come in on the nights you're already working.
And you know what? He will appreciate you for it. It is an ego boost that you care enough to see him on a certain day and you like him enough to get jealous if he does dances with other girls.
Hope this helps.
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Good point LuckyOne. I guess I'm just going to have to start working a little harder after all.
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A girl at my club loves to steal my regs too. Meh, I figure more will always walk in the door tomorrow! I try not to sweat it. Do what you can to keep him, but when they go they are gone. One thing you could try too is a guilt trip approach, such as saying, "I love it when you come in to see me because you are the only guy in here who respects me, never asking me for extras. It makes me feel so lucky to have you."
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LC, are you still at the Oasis in Doraville?
If so, X ain't your only problem - Y, Z, A, B, C, D and E are doing that stuff too.
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If she is doing that kinda stuff, gross. And, custies can and will make up shit about other girls. For instance: "So and so did this for me. Why won't u?" They want to see how far u will take it. I wouldn't worry about it. Why would u want custies like that anyway?! They're trying to get the most bang for their buck. Move on to better custies.
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LuckiCharm
No no no...The customers who have the reps for being "nasty" and pulling their dick out and shit in VIP coincidentally LOVE taking her to VIP. And also, girls think customers don't kiss and tell...they do.
I understand what you're saying, but I wouldn't accuse someone if I wasn't sure.
Also, one of my old regulars (who stopped seeing me and took X to VIP all the time) NEVER asked me to do anything extra when he was my reg. He hadn't taken me to VIP for weeks, he would just take X. Well, he came in the other day
and took me to VIP cuz X wasn't at work. He actually straight up asked me to suck his dick...he's never ever asked me to do that before he started taking X to VIP.
K, playing the other side here. And I'm not saying that you're not right, buuuuut;
There was a customer at the club I used to work at, a total prick, he would try to get every girl to do something nasty with him, EVERY GIRL. It was dead one night and he was there, so I figured I could at least get one VIP out of him and fend him off..... well, I was a little brat to him, totally fiesty, even bitchy and aggressive, and he liked it! We wound up getting along enough that he bought 7 or 8 dances off me.
Long story short, no matter what I said to other girls, they assumed that since I lasted so long with him, I must have given him what he was after. WRONG!
Second side to that story, he turned out to be a totaly asshat, a while later when he was in the VIP with another girl, she asked if he knew me (I was in the VIP as well, and waved at the other girl, she was a friend) He said "Yep, I fingered her on this very couch!"
:O
Obviously my friend told me what he said, and thank goodness it wasn't some other girl who worked there!
But the point being....you can never be totally sure unless you see it with your own eyes.
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kdogg247
LC, are you still at the Oasis in Doraville?
If so, X ain't your only problem - Y, Z, A, B, C, D and E are doing that stuff too.
No offense, but even if I WAS at the "oasis in doraville" I wouldn't want it broadcasted. And second off, how would you know what club I worked in? And this is the stripping section, I was looking for support from my fellow dancers. And no, I haven't worked at Oasis for months.
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kdogg247
LC, are you still at the Oasis in Doraville?
If so, X ain't your only problem - Y, Z, A, B, C, D and E are doing that stuff too.
Customers lie.
Revealing a dancer's location is rude unless you are said dancer. Some of us really, REALLY value our privacy and, in some cases, our safety.
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Kali Doom
Revealing a dancer's location is rude unless you are said dancer. Some of us really, REALLY value our privacy and, in some cases, our safety.
Yea seriously....his post just pissed me off.
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This sounds like a similar situation that I saw in a club on the south side of ATL...almost sounds like you're talking about the same girl in fact. Anyway, when I worked there, for months I thought that the other girls were just being catty about the pretty young girl with the hot body making lots of money...until several people I knew well told me they saw it...then a custy I've known for years from several clubs told me that's exactly what he sees her for...then my bf saw it...then I saw it too.
Most of the time, customers are lying about what they get, but sometimes they're not!
If you saw this girl, you'd have a hard time believing it too. She's young, beautiful, looks like a barbie doll, has her own paysite for erotic modelling, etc. She could make plenty (probably more!) money not doing anything with custies at all. I have no idea why she does it!
Oh, and she was doing the managers and bouncers too, which is why she gets away with it. (Yes I know this for a fact, I've seen it with my own eyeballs and so has everyone else)
I guess the only consolation is that she can only do X number of customers a night, right? :-\
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Welcome to my world, OP. >:( Long story short, there's a nasty whore at my club doing the same thing, and again long story short, I'm the one most affected by it.
Can I tell you how fast I will be running this bitch OUT of my club?
No good advice I'm afraid, other than: make her life in the club miserable and run her out :P Just wanted to sympathize and rant along. Then again if she's fucking the bouncers and managers too...that might be a little harder.
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I don't understand why girls worry so much about what others are doing?! Focus on making your own money. I've seen plenty of shit that I wish I hadn't. But, that doesn't stop me from making money. If the girl wants to be a skank, let her. Trust me. Most of the extra girls don't make that much more than the average dancer.
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dancinslifoxxx17
I don't understand why girls worry so much about what others are doing?! Focus on making your own money. I've seen plenty of shit that I wish I hadn't. But, that doesn't stop me from making money. If the girl wants to be a skank, let her. Trust me. Most of the extra girls don't make that much more than the average dancer.
Re-read the first sentence of my OP. I DON'T care what other girls do...as long as it doesn't affect me. When someone fucks my customers and takes MY money, yes I am going to have a problem.
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I'm sorry, LC. I really have nothing to offer besides....I HATE FUCKING BITCHES LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:(
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Mileia777
I'm sorry, LC. I really have nothing to offer besides....I HATE FUCKING BITCHES LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:(
Yea me too, and get this. One of my customers, who used to come in and see me all the time and spend lots of money on me, is now HER regular (guess why?). And when he's with her, she gets mad if he even comes to tip me on stage. I mean, do I actually have to start getting that possessive just to keep my customers?
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Is she only stealing your regulars? Or are the other girls complaining about her, too? This just plain sucks for all of us clean dancers out there. I don't know how your management is either.
ETA: Nevermind...I guess she's fucking everybody in the club. DIRTY CUNT.
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Yea. But the thing is, she is SO pretty and classy, she doesn't have to fuck people for money. And yea, other girls aren't too happy with her either. But she's been working at the club for years, so she's not gonna get fired, plus my managers are the type to let girls get away with murder in return for a good fuck.
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Run the bitch out or go to another club. Fuck that mess.
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Mileia777
Run the bitch out or go to another club. Fuck that mess.
Well, I've been at my club for going on 2 years, and I LOVE it! Yea, there's some dirt going on in my club, but it's the same shit that goes on in every other club in my area.
It's not really KILLING my income, but I have lost a couple good customers to her. It's just really irritating more than anything, ya know? I mean, knowing that I could be having more money coming in, but I don't because another girl is putting out more than I did.