I could answer that really well if I was getting paid. My time is very expensive. I don't show any attention until I have money.
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I could answer that really well if I was getting paid. My time is very expensive. I don't show any attention until I have money.
Unless a dancer is just unattractive -- and that does happen -- it doesn't take much to get one dance from me. A second or series of dances requires some attention to detail during the first dance and conversational skills.
When I solicit a dance, it's usually because something about the woman sparked my interest. Sure looks, but not maybe not drop-dead gorgeous looks (although I appreciate them, I'm not really attracted to cookie-cutter silicone Barbies). It's not really a type, just some twitch in my libido I can't explain.
I've also learned not to make judgments. Dancers who don't stir a strong initial attraction have become some of my favs. If it wasn't a mystery, it wouldn't be fun.
I've never had a dancer pull the 'start dancing without asking' routine-
maybe because I'm not in an environtment like vegas that requires super
intense hustling.
"Wanna dance" works for me about 100% of the time for the following types of girls:
-enhanced 'barbies';
-tall women;
-tattooed/pierced girls with some attitude;
-really athletic women
Other types of dancers usually have to work a little bit more (not much more)- good actresses (that are good at creating the fantasy that they actually like me and make me forget I am paying them) or dancers that are just sincere and make interesting conversation usually get some $$ even if I don't initially think they are my 'in the club type'. I wish I had a silver bullet for the original poster, but different custies like different things and usually working the floor and appearing available, friendly, and a little frisky is all that is usually required. Even though approaching as many customers as possible may seem daunting or like too much work, I bet there are some guys that are too lazy to track you down even if they think you are the hottest thing they have ever seen. Giving a customer an option may lead to a sale, and you may be just what he is looking for even if many other dancers have approached him.
Or else waste my time waiting around for the stripper to approach me (possibly never) and risk her getting booked out for the rest of the time I'm there. I don't look it as being "easy" - it's not like I'm paying for something I don't want. I don't see much point making a stripper I like work to make a sale. If I am good to her she will probably be good to me, since strippers probably like to hold on to their good customers. If I want to chat with her I can do it during the LD. If I want to chat with her before the LD I can get it with a tip and a drink.
I like normal down to earth types of dancers who can sell their dance with a simple ask offer. The type of girl I normally go for is (other than being attractive, but then the only SC I go to 95% of the women are attractive, but I am looking for something different other than just looks)
-Real, down to earth types, someone who can carry on a good conversation
-Big plus if you are an artist, liberal
-Cute face, natural breasts & nice proportional body
-Minimal make-up
-If you look like Natalie Portman or Scarlett Johansson, I will lose my bank account :D
^Somebody get word to Natalie. It's probably not a big step from doing it in films.
Last time I went, it was because the girl was wearing fishnets. No other girl was.
Time before that, girl had pigtails + body type I liked.
Other girls I don't really remember.
I'm always looking for health.
Guys can see physical health from a mile away. Shiny healthy hair, clear skin, and a slender toned (not emaciated) figure tells me a lot. A nice balanced face with bright eyes and a nice smile seals the deal, but I'm weird, there's one more thing: A little bit of facial imperfection just does it for me. When I was a lot younger, I had this crush on a girl with the cutest little crook in her nose, so I will approach, SC or not, if I find you hot.
Costumes don't really matter to me. A little known secret is that men can actually see through most clothing; that tells me more about what mood you're in than anything else.
Like women, I'll screen for mental & emotional health. How do you move, or how did you approach me? It says a lot about how you feel about your self. Do you have a sense of humor? Can you follow my conversation? Are you a perpetually negative person? Sure it's hard in the SC, but you really can't let your previous interactions with customers affect this time between us, here and now. I didn't come into the club to be an emotional tampon, I came in because I wanted to have some fun. Be fun for me.
Smoking will kill any attraction I had for you. Same with cocaine, heroin, etc.
Dancers who are wallflowers are boring. Dancers who are maniacs are just plain annoying. Having some balance and showing the initiative without being forceful is the way to go, and yeah, it turns me on too.
Oh it's a pretty low sales tactic for sure.
Actually, we'll feel taken advantage of.
You're sounding like my mother :P Seriously though, many of your customers have been trained well by the women in their life.
Since it sounds like you're speaking from experience, I'd recommend spending time to console/cheer up this customer instead of chastising him for loosing your money for you. This might be his first time, or first few times in a club, and your recovery is going to make or break his coming back a second time. Don't give away an LD, but a brief conversation should be free.
The last thing that turns me on is a really fucking good LD:
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...37#post1948937
Repeat sales are soo much easier than cold calls.
Hope that helps
I hear this so rarely and I wish all women knew it.
This is another thing women should know: deviation from the ideal is not necessarily less attractive. Perfect or ideal proportions are actually uninteresting. It is a principle of aesthetics that there should be a balance between unity and variety.Quote:
but I'm weird, there's one more thing: A little bit of facial imperfection just does it for me. When I was a lot younger, I had this crush on a girl with the cutest little crook in her nose, so I will approach, SC or not, if I find you hot.
I find women's cloting to hide a lot about their figure and greatly alter what they don't hide. I put it down to aesthetics. I have seen women apparently transformed after removing their clothes.Quote:
Costumes don't really matter to me. A little known secret is that men can actually see through most clothing; that tells me more about what mood you're in than anything else.
As for your comments about the stripper behaviour and fantasy, I enjoy that too and it's good advice to the OP; however, I also enjoy the real-world seediness in the clubs and it's a fun game to navigate a hot stripper's moods or attitudes and either go with it or subtly influence her to lighten up.
Totally.
Sometimes girls wear lead in all the right places. Superman vision just doesn't work as well, but I have yet to be truly surprised.
Despite the stories of douche-bag customers, I'd still recommend following the Hippocratic oath. If your customer isn't having fun... well then.
One who is sexy, funny and seductive. I am not immune to a good hustle, but I find the clubs in Vegas to be heavy on the "wanna dance" approach.
I am surprised by this but have no basis to dispute. If I had to hazard a guess, I would say that this happens to Vegas tourists who visit clubs infrequently. I can't imagine a regular SC patron putting up with that, but who knows. I know I wouldn't, not because of the money but out of the damned principle of the thing.
I didn't specify this, but I was referring to how clothes can hide a woman's good qualities, although they can also be used to hide bad qualities. Therefore of course I was not talking about deliberate hiding. I guess it is to do with the fact that clothing - colour, cut, style etc - can either complement or clash with a woman's complexion, figure etc. Many times I have taken a step back on seeing a woman after she has removed her clothes and seeing how beautiful she is underneath them.
This happenned with the stripper I got my first LD from. She was walking the floor in a thigh-length black dress and I didn't find her attractive. When she danced and stripped on stage, however, I could see that she had a beautiful figure, face, hair, etc. It was uncanny. She even appeared to move without any grace when walking about in her costume, but on stage it was obvious that she was professionally trained - a dance student or graduate. She was spectacular.
I find many dancers (professionally trained, not strippers) don't seem to walk with the grace and poise I would expect yet move beautifully when they perform.
Yeah, I forgot to mention how you move, that says a lot about more about your attitude and character, and makes me more interested.
I like a dancer who is a tease, who is mysterious, who takes her time, and leaves me wanting more. Hard to do in a club that is full contact,which is why I prefer the no contact clubs. Such clubs require an act - not just a grope session.
The other thing I like is the opportunity to buy a dancer a drink and talk. No, I am not looking for a girl friend in the club. But there has to be more to the experience than just some flash and cash.
Maybe I am old fashioned, but when I have found a non-contact club with the right dancer providing a tease, that is preceded by some oral - err..verbal...foreplay, then I have been willing to spend money.
Healthy, enjoys my company, seems like she's just being herself, not putting on some big act. I personally feel uncomfortable with girls who look like they could still be in high school, even if I know they are actually older. When the economy was good, you could wait all night and none of the really attractive dancers would ever be available. Now it's the opposite problem, not having enough money to get dances from all the attractive dancers available, and having a hard time choosing. If a girl walked up to me and just started dancing, I would get up, walk away, and she would be burned with me permanently. If the management at your club allows dancers to do this, you are too classy for the place, look for a new club.
I look for a girl with a really nice body (attractive face is also great, but secondary) who will allow me to touch her a lot and does a lot of touching herself, without trying to upsell me into higher priced dances.
I also like a girl that can sit and talk to me a bit first, someone I can enjoy flirting with a little before getting dances, a girl who seems to like my sense of humor and has one herself. I definitely don't like to hear a girl bitching about this or that, especially about things that go on in the club, like other dancers, customers, management, etc.. Someone that's just really enjoyable to sit and chat with for a while first.
For me I usually get dances with the woman that will make eye contact while asking me. Too often some dancers will look at you, and then while asking if I want a dance, already be scanning for their next customer to ask.