Do I just act like I'm screwing?
While I'm doing a lapdance, aside from giving great eye contact, what's the key........How do you actually give a table dance............Do you have to stay on his lap the whole time! What are the limitations on his crotch area..........Is it appropriate to grab? Are there any cute moves off the lap that get great tips?
Re: Do I just act like I'm screwing?
This varies wildly from club to club. Tell us a little bit about the lapdances at your club, i.e. nude/topless, contact level, if table dances are different from lapdances, and we will be better able to answer you.
Offhand I can tell you that touching yourself while you're off his lap tends to be a good move. I don't mean shoving your hands down your panties, but slowly caressing your own breasts, running your hands over your stomach, playing with your hair-- all while playfully biting your lip and maintaining eye contact.
And: generally "grabbing" is inappropriate, though I'm not exactly sure what you mean.
And: the limitations on his crotch area, if not firmly established by the house/ local laws/ status quo of other dancers, can be gleaned via the following query. "Do I want to touch this stranger's weird pokey boner with any part of my body, or have it touch any part of my body?" If you're like most dancers, the answer is an emphatic "No." Proceed from there.
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It is inappropriate to grab his crouch. No you don't have to stay on his lap the whole time. in the course of two lapdances, I usually employ the various poses like leaning on him face to face, sitting on him facing away, dancing in front of him face to face, dancing in front of him facing away.
Re: Do I just act like I'm screwing?
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teeth_of_the_hydra
Last edited by teeth_of_the_hydra : Today at 01:54 AM. Reason: establishment of crotch limitations
T O' the H, I was just noticing the other day that your "Last edited by" lines regularly crack me da fuck up. :laughing:
Now that we have established crotch limitations: Pecanpimpstress, I'd spend some time surreptitiously spying on other dancers in the club as you get started. Hopefully this will give you the best picture of what's considered standard in your area contact-wise (but that doesn't mean going beyone what you personally are okay with).
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^^^Awww, someone noticed!! :D
I do so love how you get to put in a "reason." I'm not sure what the big idea behind it is (like, why does it matter why I edited? Anyway, isn't the obvious answer "clarity?") but I love the hell out of it.
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RoseWhite
I'd spend some time surreptitiously spying on other dancers in the club as you get started. Hopefully this will give you the best picture of what's considered standard in your area contact-wise (but that doesn't mean going beyone what you personally are okay with).
When you go to the club and get hired, the manager will probably explain what you can and can't do. If he doesn't just ask. Then watch the other girls, or ask one of them.
Re: Do I just act like I'm screwing?
Thankx girls, I just somtimes need to know what to do..........I take dancin real serious, it's a job........I don't want them too think I'm just a ho:)