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Escorting at Bachelor Party
I have a friend I went to school with whos cousin is getting married. Theyre having a bachelor party tomorrow nite. She had called me and asked about dancers for them but I guess found out they dont want strippers, they want escorts. So I told her to go to redbook.com and she said not full service escorts. She said theres a chinese word that means escort that they kept saying and took her a while to get it across to me. They want 'Arm Candy' escorts. Three of them. To go party with them all nite in Frisco for the bachelor party.
I guess they saw a photo of me from that was taken at school (a crappy one I might add) and wanted me to go with them. I totally trust her and her judgement. Know that if they wanted escorts/strippers they could get them but they dont want that.
She told me the pay is $1000 per girl. I told her Ill do it if my friend (a fellow dancer) can be one of the other girls. Still have to find one more... :-\
Anyway - curious if this is a good rate to be "Arm Candy" all nite. She said shes sure we can get more money out of them - who knows how since well just be partying all nite but they pay is up front and seems ok.
Im 95% sure Ill do it but hell be calling me in an hour or so and Im wondering if this rate is good? I dont want to seem greedy especially since its a friends cousin. I was planning on making $1200-1500 tomorrow nite in Reno but then Id have to WORK and with this its like Im getting paid to PLAY. Not sure of much since Ive never done anything like this before but shit if it works out it may become my new career! ;D
Curious what others think about this and the pay, etc. THANKS!
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Its called "Doha", not sure of the spelling though. Well, then again, that's the Japanese term, so I could be way off since you did say Chinese.
I say go for it, especially since you totally trust her. The rate is cool, for the job, imho, you'll probably get tipped additionally.
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^^^ DEFINATELY getting paid up front. No question about that. Its a given. :)
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$1000 for a night of partying is a good price, even for most professional escorts. Esp since no contact is involved... I call that "free money".
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definitely get paid upfront.. also.. tell them that you had anticipated making $1500 that night at work, but you want it to be fair for both and would be satisfied with $1200 for the evening as your personal rate.. the others might be fine with $1000 so allow them to negotiate if thats what they want to do for themselves. If you are fine with with $1000 than take it and have a good time.
also.. they dont have to know you or your friend are dancers.. its non of their business and im sure its just an ego thing anyways.. you know. wanting a girl whos attention cant normally be bought.. they also think all strippers are stupid. So yeah.. your smart.. dont tell them you or your friend dance. :)
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I spoke with him last night and he said $1000 upfront per girl and that well make more. He wants us to cozy up to the bachelor - give him attention - get him drinks, flirt, etc... well see how it goes - Ill post tomorrow and let everyone know how it went.
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hey how did this turn out?
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LOL. It was soooo much fun! They hada HUGE party bus with the pole and we had a great time. 2 hour drive down to San Francisco - then we had the VIP section at a club there and partied and then 2 hours back.
He gave each of us $500 when we showed up and then another $1000 at the end. $500 tip. I would do it again in a flash. He was great and tho a couple guys were rowdy there were the equal amount that were telling them to chill.
Definately never forget it!
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Audrey, I am so jealous! That sounds like such an amazing night. :) If only more men were that cool! lol
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yea - its like a once in a lifetime thing. im way too untrusting of people. had it not been for a friend of a friend theres no way id have gotten onto a bus with 20 men on it! but there were 3 other girls there too... they werent getting paid tho - just there to party. kinda felt sorry for them.....
they got wasted and started making out so on the way back we just hung out in the front of the bus and let them give the guys a free show
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I did something like this once, it was GREAT!!! Congrats on making great money for partying!!!
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AudreyLeigh
LOL. It was soooo much fun! They hada HUGE party bus with the pole and we had a great time. 2 hour drive down to San Francisco - then we had the VIP section at a club there and partied and then 2 hours back.
He gave each of us $500 when we showed up and then another $1000 at the end. $500 tip. I would do it again in a flash. He was great and tho a couple guys were rowdy there were the equal amount that were telling them to chill.
Definately never forget it!
omg you are so lucky, its so hard to find jobs like that. the most money ive ever made was naked dealing for a poker game, and i only make 700 that night, not over 1k! the only jobs i run into that i can make that much all include sex, and with various people. its nice to see SOME people will pay a good amount for simple company. It sucks that i havent met any of them lol.
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I dont expect this opportunity to ever rise again. And even if it did I doubt I would take it. I was very very hesitant and turned down the offer for 3 weeks until the day before when my friend begged me to do it and the ONLY reason I did was because she was a good friend and the bachelor was marrying her cousin.
The other 3 girls that were there just to party. They met them at the casino the night before. 2 of them got way coked out (there was coke and booze everywhere) anyway - those 2 ended up putting on a lez show for dollars. Im not kidding - the guys were throwing dollars on them... probably scooped up $100 each while my girlfriend and I are in the front of the bus chatting with the guy who set it up and the bus driver (who was another friend of theirs) So we got paid $1500 each for nothing while those girls got $200 for almost having sex with eachother.
It was a way interesting night. And to top it off I stayed completely sober the entire time.
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That's awesome! I love being rented out as arm candy, basically being paid to look pretty and party. I would do it again anytime. Traveling businessmen are the best!
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Whats sad is you know those girls went home and were super excited about making that 100$ "for nothing", not even knowing you went home with the bank.
That is so awesome. I hope I can manage a gig like that, even though like you it's really hard for me to trust people.
Who knows, maybe one of the bachelor's friends will get married and call on you again!
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AznExtasy
That's awesome! I love being rented out as arm candy, basically being paid to look pretty and party. I would do it again anytime. Traveling businessmen are the best!
That sounds amazing! How does one go about becoming armcandy for a fee?
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BrodieLux
That sounds amazing! How does one go about becoming armcandy for a fee?
It's not unheard of. It can and does happen BUT ( please note the Big "but") it is the EXCEPTION and not the rule. There is a niche in the escort biz where the creme de la creme of escorts get paid to go to dinner; to the opera and various
charity balls and the like. These women are almost always college grads; usually multi-lingual and are VERY beautiful and sophisticated. They KNOW when to use their salad fork ; can tell a Manet from a Monet and a Malbec from a Merlot.
Sometimes sex is involved and usually there is an extra fee. (Those damn "extras"
again ! ).
I'm always reluctant discussing this because it perpetuates a myth among some that escorting does not have to involve sex when the reality is that it USUALLY does. "Arm candy" escorting is no more than maybe 1 % of the escort biz. If that much. There are plenty of agencies that might be less than honest about what their customers expect and might not be above capitalizing on some naivete. So if you are sreious, Be SUPER CAREFUL ! Afaik, there are no escort agencies that really book these type women. Most are 100 % independent ; do not advertise ; do not have web-sites and screen potential clients like you wouldn't believe.
Do I know any women like this ? 1 semi-retired and 2 who are still active. They ALL got into it through someone already in the business and then developed their own clientele. They pick and choose who to work for. So that's the only way I know of to be paid "arm candy".
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ha i wish i had the patience to learn a few languages.
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Silky
ha i wish i had the patience to learn a few languages.
It's not required but it helps when you have a multi-national clientele and literally fly all over the world. That reminds me- Never, EVER agree to travel to the Mid-East ; Brunei or ANY Muslim country. See them here. If at all.
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bebewood
its nice to see SOME people will pay a good amount for simple company.
I am glad that Audrey got what she wanted and all, but someone is going to have to explain to me some time why anyone should have to pay for "simple company" because I just don't get it.
On second thought, never mind. I've always been lucky enough to never need to pay someone just to look pretty and keep me company, so it occurs to me I'm not the kind of guy who is ever going to understand it.
You could explain it to me all day and I would still seem odd to me.
Its a big world though, and lots of different folks in it so if it floated their boat... I am sincerely glad there three someones there to make them happy and hey, like, what ever. :)
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Golden Rule...here is one explanation.
There are alot of wealthy well off men that do not necessarily "need" to buy company... especially if they are wealthy AND attractive. It can be for convenience...especially while traveling with a hectic schedule...it takes more time to cruise the bars and what not. They would rather just sit in their hotel and have the company come to them.
Some men also like to just flaunt their money period. I have been company in vip(no dancing period,,just convo) for men that i know could easily sit at an upscale bar and have the company of a beautiful woman...some because of looks and money...and others simply because they have the money to show.
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Silky
Golden Rule...here is one explanation.
There are alot of wealthy well off men that do not necessarily "need" to buy company... especially if they are wealthy AND attractive. It can be for convenience...especially while traveling with a hectic schedule...it takes more time to cruise the bars and what not. They would rather just sit in their hotel and have the company come to them.
Some men also like to just flaunt their money period. I have been company in vip(no dancing period,,just convo) for men that i know could easily sit at an upscale bar and have the company of a beautiful woman...some because of looks and money...and others simply because they have the money to show.
That's right. There are a LOT of reasons. Some of it is ego i.e. showing off and a lot of it is convenience. Some of it is to combat loneliness. I personally witnessed a couple of VERY prominent NYC lawyers; both VERY well to do, who were often in the company of beautiful young women, paid to be on their arms.
Some of it is chasing vanished youth. As with "trophy wives", some older men still enjoy the company of much younger women.
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Silky
Golden Rule...here is one explanation.
There are alot of wealthy well off men that do not necessarily "need" to buy company... especially if they are wealthy AND attractive. It can be for convenience...especially while traveling with a hectic schedule...it takes more time to cruise the bars and what not. They would rather just sit in their hotel and have the company come to them.
Some men also like to just flaunt their money period. I have been company in vip(no dancing period,,just convo) for men that i know could easily sit at an upscale bar and have the company of a beautiful woman...some because of looks and money...and others simply because they have the money to show.
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Eric Stoner
That's right. There are a LOT of reasons. Some of it is ego i.e. showing off and a lot of it is convenience. Some of it is to combat loneliness. I personally witnessed a couple of VERY prominent NYC lawyers; both VERY well to do, who were often in the company of beautiful young women, paid to be on their arms.
Thanks for taking it the way it was meant and giving of your time in response. I have to say that after I re-read what I wrote I thought, "Umm, self, the only thing that is going to get handed to you for asking an honest question of this nature on the pink side is your head." As you can see, even before I ended the post I was already hedging. I left it up though because I thought it would be less than honest to take it down after it had been posted.
I got a mods warning which, I won't lie, I found discouraging. It's not my board so I am not going to debate it. I did think a thank you was in order though so I am posting this. If a thank you is problematic than I just don't know what... :) Your posts were considered, tolerent of people with legit questions, and gave me something to think about. I'd like to flesh it out a bit but... Anyway, thanks again.