I'm not feeling my most attractive these days. I have only been attracting black guys and not very top notch ones either. Two white guys I dated just skipped town and forgot all about me. They don't even text me to say hi or anything. I think I wasn't good enough. I don't see a black guy doing that do a non-black girl. I'm not mainstream in my appeal. I have a really big booty and a small chest. I have a tummy (not terrible). I have wide hips. I have short thick hair that I put in blond extensions (twists) so that I can have long blond hair and not have to deal with short nappy hair. And I have brown skin (mahogany). This is not mainstream. Besides weight loss, do you have any ideas about how to make my look more like Beyonce or someone with mainstream appeal?

