New and feeling anxious...
I'd never considered stripping before (I used to be Mormon! lol!) but a friend of mine does it and she has made some really good money. I'm mid-twenties and have a pretty good body. B cup breasts and 26 inch waist. The only thing is that I haven't danced in years (since like middle school.) Is it possible for someone who doesn't know how to dance to be a stripper? I do aerobics and yoga and martial arts but I can't seem to get ball room dancing down, and I'm not too sure what's involved in stripping. If I do do it, I'd like to start it soon because I need the money, and because if I think about it too long, I might not do it. Does anyone have any tips though, or is there anything online I can watch about taking clothes off seductively without having to shake it too much, because I've kinda got two left feet...
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Hmmm, no pic and your questions sound like something a man would ask.
Why don't you just go to a strip club and see for yourself how they dance. Or were you looking for the "I'll come over right now and teach you" answer?
Honestly, it's not as if strip clubs only exist in other countries and you have no access to them.
And if you have a "friend who does it", I doubt you are as ignorant as you are pretending to be.
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You learn on the job. There's no secret to stripper dancing, you just start stripping and learn as you go.
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Susan's right. I never "danced" before in any fashion and I did just fine. It's not much dancing really anyways.
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No, I was hoping maybe there were some other sites that someone on the web could point me to or maybe a video I could buy. And yes, I'm going to go to a club, probably tonight. And no, I am not a man. And yes, I am that ignorant. I've never grown up around the lifestyle, and I have a friend who did it just a few times for some extra money (she's more of a friend of a friend.) Anyway, probably going to a club is my best bet.
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Before I danced, I had never been to a strip club even once. If you try to buy some video that tries to tell you how to strip and dance sexy, you'll be thinking way too much and it won't be sexy at all; more like forced and choreographed. And that's not what stripping is supposed to be about. Just go to the club, watch a couple girls, and just get up there.
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mY first time on estage, I jsut rolled my hips around and tried to spin around the pole. My club has two poles, and one has some sort of sheath that spins on its own, if you do go, make sure you know what pole spins beforeyou hang on, cuz you'll FLY!! hahaha
Yeah, it's not so bad, sometimes, its easier on stage if you just move to the music with your eyes closed, if it's a slow song. That's just what I do sometimes if I'm having a hard time up there.
Otherwise, I try to ignore the people looking at me, until I get comfy, then, I smile at them, wink, and try to do what the other girls do, minus crazy pole tricks.
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I had never really danced before i started, aside from going clubbing. In those middle school musicals...I was the one that looked si horrible because I just could not learn the cooreography. I learned by observation, and lots of time with myself, a mirror, and some music.