I'm getting back into private parties and am nervous
This may sound stupid but I need a little advice. I used to do private parties and I decided to get back into it, I like doing this better than working at clubs, it was funner and it wasn't the same environment. Well yesterday I got a call from her saying there are these guys that want a party for Saturday night and she asked if I could do it, I said sure because I need some work. The thing I need help with is that it is going to be me and another girl and the guys want a girl/girl show with toys, and this is my first show being back into private dancing and I have never done a toy show with another girl. I bring my own toys and she brings her own toys, my boyfriend says just do to her like I like being done to me and to talk to her when I get there and explain that I haven't done a show like this before. I just don't want to be nervous or look stupid in front of all these guys cause this is my first time doing a show like this, any advice with me not being nervous about this?
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damn!! why don't i come across opportunities like these?...
No don't tell them its your first time, because that will kind of spoil the mood. They'll have it in their heads that she's an amateur at it. Just let the girl you'll be doing it with know that you are nervous and its your first time. I'm sure she'd understand. But i'm wondering, are you sure the guys aren't gonna want more? I mean girl-on-girl action is enough to drive these men sexually crazed.
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LadySoft
damn!! why don't i come across opportunities like these?...
No don't tell them its your first time, because that will kind of spoil the mood. They'll have it in their heads that she's an amateur at it. Just let the girl you'll be doing it with know that you are nervous and its your first time. I'm sure she'd understand. But i'm wondering, are you sure the guys aren't gonna want more? I mean girl-on-girl action is enough to drive these men sexually crazed.
The woman I work for used to be a private dancer and she worked for these guys years ago so she says they're really cool and legit. Plus I wouldn't do anything with them anyways and my boyfriend is going to come with me as security.
Thanks for your input, I won't tell the guys and hopefully she will understand and work with me.
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Here in Australia girl girl (duo) shows involving toys are simple!
I would also invest in a strap on or a double ender if possible plus some condoms. As you would put the condom on the strap on or double ender.
You start out as a normal duo would dancing with each other and for the 'victim(s)'. Slowly undressing each other. Then use the 'victim'.. write on him, do body slides on him, etc etc. Then go into the use of toys.
Start off with 'masturbation' .. you each are separate using your own toys on yourselves. Then as you go along, kiss, fondle each other's breasts etc. From there you go into getting the other girl to use your own toys on you and vice versa. From there you use the strap on or double ender.
As for making the guys sexually crazed. Nope, you're perfectly safe as long as you have your security present near-by .... I've done plenty of duo shows with no one (in the audience/crowd) becoming too "sexually aroused" by it.
Girl girl shows are easy, fun and you'll be surprised at how fast the time goes by! ;D
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GoldCoastGirl
Here in Australia girl girl (duo) shows involving toys are simple!
I would also invest in a strap on or a double ender if possible plus some condoms. As you would put the condom on the strap on or double ender.
You start out as a normal duo would dancing with each other and for the 'victim(s)'. Slowly undressing each other. Then use the 'victim'.. write on him, do body slides on him, etc etc. Then go into the use of toys.
Start off with 'masturbation' .. you each are separate using your own toys on yourselves. Then as you go along, kiss, fondle each other's breasts etc. From there you go into getting the other girl to use your own toys on you and vice versa. From there you use the strap on or double ender.
As for making the guys sexually crazed. Nope, you're perfectly safe as long as you have your security present near-by .... I've done plenty of duo shows with no one (in the audience/crowd) becoming too "sexually aroused" by it.
Girl girl shows are easy, fun and you'll be surprised at how fast the time goes by! ;D
Thanks so much :D this really helps me. I don't want to walk in there clueless and have her explain what I should do when the show is only for an hour, that would take up time so you really helped me.
Re: I'm getting back into private parties and am nervous
yea first start with the dancing, then the touching, then the kissing, then the heavy petting and stroking, and then the toys come in... just pace yourself and you'll be fine...
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Update on the party!! I want everyone to know how it went and for the most part it was great. Me and her met, she was cool and she was hot too. We started out regular, first dancing for the bachelor, taking off his clothes, whipping him with the belt, etc... The thing she did I have never seen, she asked for a quarter and stuck it on his nose and picked it up with her pussy and she kept on doing it with dollar bills too. I actually think thats kinda gross, you know how many germs are on money, I don't even like picking up money with my mouth, let alone my coochie :no:. So then we just gave the rest of the guys dances and they were tipping like $20, they didn't have many 1s so we were like hell yea, the $20 tips ;D
Back on topic, it came time for the toy show, we were able to upsale them to do 2 toys with a strap on and made an extra $150 for that. I loved it, it was really fun, she was great to work with and I did the work with the strap on :D. I think the inner bi me is coming out more cause I really enjoyed it.
The only bad thing was the guys were being loud so we had to tell them to shut the fuck up. And they getting their phones so we both had to tell them if we hear a phone, see a phone, a camera or anything then they are out with no refund of the part they paid, other than that it was awesome.
So I ended up making over $400 for an hour of work compared to making that in 6-8 hours.
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Congrats michele !!! ;D See they can be awfully great fun. I am finding I'm having more enjoyment of it all by doing private parties "on the side" than doing it full time.