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    This is starting to really aggravate me! We have one bouncer that tends to watch the girls dance, I don't mean glance over or happen to look, I mean, will stand and stare like a customer! He usually does it when it's slow, which makes it even more annoying because it's very noticeable. He does it to plenty of girls. Don't get me wrong, he's a nice guy and I don't feel threatened or anything, but it's uncomfortable and annoying! You're not a customer, I'm not dancing for you to watch, stop watching!!! I don't mind when other dancers watch or anything, but when a guy does it, he's doing it to check us out and it's so annoying! He's not there to take in the scenery. Maybe I'm just overly sensitive lol.

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    Is he new? If so he'll probably get over it once he's seen everyone dance a million times. I think they get desensitized after a short while. And I'd say, as long as he's not harassing you guys or trying to tip you, date you, etc., he's doing no harm. He is, after all, just a simple creature.

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    Lol I forgot about the others. We have another bouncer that flirts with EVERYONE. I don't mean like the cute, playful meaningless crap that practically everybody does with everybody, I mean like, he's the kind that wants to make plans and hang out and crap. And he constantly does this during work! And he's another one that totally gets off on watching us dance and will make sexual comments about us when we get on stage and crap. Again, he's nice, he's not ultra-pervy or just plain nasty, but he's ANNOYING! And he gives the same treatment to a lot of girls. One of them mentioned to me how he was so in love with her and how she didn't feel the same, and I laughed because he does the same stuff with everyone! When he stops a customer from touching us, he'll say to them: "Hey buddy, if I can't do it you can't do it!" UGH! And he's gotten in trouble for being overly flirtatious before.

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    This kind of thing is why I'm glad my club has a "no fraternization" rule. The male staff is not allowed to date the female staff, no matter what. It really prevents them from flirting or harassing us. I think every club should have this rule.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Is he new? If so he'll probably get over it once he's seen everyone dance a million times. I think they get desensitized after a short while. And I'd say, as long as he's not harassing you guys or trying to tip you, date you, etc., he's doing no harm. He is, after all, just a simple creature.
    He's not new! That's what I don't understand. We have a pretty new guy, new to bouncing completely. He couldn't care less about watching us lol, or at least he fakes it good. But this guy has been doing this for years. Simple simple creatures.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    The male staff is not allowed to date the female staff, no matter what.
    We have that too lmao. I never thought about the fact that he tries to make plans in spite of knowing that. People have been fired for that. He'll get in trouble again I'm sure.

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    Ok..playing around joke flirting is one thing. Watching like Mr Creepy and harrassing the girls is BS. Dancers put up with enough of this shit from custies...you shouldnt have staff making your skin crawl too

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    There's one more bouncer that thank God only works one night a week who is always grabbing my ass telling me how much he wants and is going to get a piece. Yeah right! Should I try to get him in trouble?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    There's one more bouncer that thank God only works one night a week who is always grabbing my ass telling me how much he wants and is going to get a piece. Yeah right! Should I try to get him in trouble?
    YES. Of course, being the bitch I am I'd smack his hand away and tell him off myself...but you dont want to deal with him on your own..tell the manager. If people have gotten in trouble for this before...you need to bring ALL of it to his attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Watching like Mr Creepy and harrassing the girls is BS. Dancers put up with enough of this shit from custies...you shouldnt have staff making your skin crawl too
    That's how I feel. The thing about bouncer #2 that made me the maddest though was this: Customers aren't allowed to rest their feet on the stage, and this bouncer is definitely an enforcer of that. Well one day I was sitting by our stage #2, which is pretty small, and a girl was dancing on it and this bouncer put his leg up and rested it on that stage and sort of leaned over it while he 'kept watch' (there's always a bouncer at every stage). It was just so presumptuous!! I prayed and prayed that he was still doing it by the time I got on that stage so I could rudely tell him to get the hell off of it, unfortunately he moved before I could.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    There's one more bouncer that thank God only works one night a week who is always grabbing my ass telling me how much he wants and is going to get a piece. Yeah right! Should I try to get him in trouble?

    Uh, yeah, I think you should say something. Why haven't you told him to fuck off?

    I must have the unapproachable bitch vibe that I give off to our male staff because I have never had a problem with this. Seriously, you have to have a zero tolerance policy for bullshit or people will constantly try to get over on you. You aren't doing yourself any favors by being Miss Nice Girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    YES. Of course, being the bitch I am I'd smack his hand away and tell him off myself...but you dont want to deal with him on your own..tell the manager. If people have gotten in trouble for this before...you need to bring ALL of it to his attention.
    I think I made a mistake of brushing it off early on, so now he does it more and more and I'd feel weird flipping out on him after all of this time having not. But hey, I like a good flip-out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    I think I made a mistake of brushing it off early on, so now he does it more and more and I'd feel weird flipping out on him after all of this time having not. But hey, I like a good flip-out.
    It;s just time to say "ok...this was funny when I thought you were joking around and I let it go...but you arent joking and it is NOT funny anymore. Touch me again and I'll go to ____(fill in managers name here)'

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    There was a bouncer in Montana who used to do that when I was onstage and it was slow. I hate dancing onstage when there's no one at the tip rail, so if there was an empty tip rail and only a couple of customers in the club, he'd come stand by the stage and grin and watch me dance. He didn't do it until we were already friendly though. At first it bugged me, but eh, he was a great bouncer and a cool guy, and I'd rather dance for him than some jerk sitting way at the back of the room so he won't have to tip.

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    when i first started, i was on dayshift, and we had one bouncer...and he had his creepy moments. nice guy, but it got annoying as fuck. if he's still in the industry, he's hopefully mellowed out.

    i've worked with a lot of good bouncers, though. and a couple really great ones.

    bathroom attendants, though...*ugh*

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    bathroom attendants, though...*ugh*
    Ugh....I forgot about them.... They're just as bad!

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    man, after posting that, i had an icky experience with one of the bouncers at my club. he's one that i don't usually talk to, so i forgot how he can get. oh well.

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    UGH i feel you!! My bouncer has been working at the club im at for about 10 years, and he still STARES standing at the stage. He is about 5'6 and 150 pounds. He doesnt help any of the girls when someone is messing with us, etc. and we still have to pay him no matter what.

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    while we are simple creatures and i blame you gals for being so beautiful, he should be watching the crowd/door no matter how slow it is. and yes it usually takes a week or so to become desensitized. as for bouncers getting touchy-feely, thats a NFZ(no fly zone) at all the clubs/originations i have been employed at, and i've worked for some shady outfits. all working relationships should be just that, strictly work. id definitely tell the bouncer tactfully first to either stop staring or start tipping, or to stop making physical contact. if that doesn't work make a scene or go to management/house mom.
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    Yeah, I only make the "bored" expression when I'm facing away from the guy.

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    "take a picture why don't you?"
    "(shaking head, sad face)you must really need to get laid, huh? poor guy."
    "(pointing) THIS is called a VA-GI-NA"

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