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    Default sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    so i am single now, so all i do is work and don't really have time to socialize and somewhat insecure to have a regular boyfriend since i had bad experiences.. I would like to have someone to hang out with on a somewhat consistent basis and it would be nice to be taken care of too. I haven't done this before but have had offers. before i make my decision of course I have to consult with my stripperweb friends ... so what are your thoughts on this? i can't wait to read your input, and please don't be mean.. =)

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    Well..the odds that you'd find someone willing to take care of you financially that you actually like, want to hang out with and dont find repulsive to sleep with are pretty slim.

    But if you do...what the hell. Go for it.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I agree with cam- if you can find all of the above, then by all means.

    That's not what you are likely to find, however. I don't think you are really going to enjoy hanging out with them; it's going to feel like work. And they are probably going to treat you like it's work, too; you have to earn what they give you.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    ok, so now the sensitive issue: money. How can i talk about that gracefully and what is a fair amount? He offered to give me a monthly allowance and take care of my bills up to a certain amount. should i ask for a deposit upfront like in the vip room?...lol. i am so lost here...

    he is cute, educated, rich, but married... I like him but do not like the feeling of being taken advantaged of since me and him have no future together. a dilemma of having sex for free and feeling used or having sex for money and being labeled a whore is what i am dealing with.. I am very confused. you can shoot me an email at my yahoo account: petitegirlxoxo if you have advice you'd like to share privately. thanks again

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Hmm... if you don't like the label of "whore," then you probably shouldn't have sex with anyone for money. IMO, these sort of relationships are rarely worth the time and effort for the amount of money you'd be getting, but I've never had one.. I've never even had a custy pay for anything specific. I just make my money and get out of there.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I used to have a sugar daddy, it was awesome. I didn't care about being labeled a whore because it was my business. However, I don't think it's a good idea with a married man. I'm not saying this makes me a better person than you or even a good person but I wouldn't ever get in the middle of somebody else's marriage. I don't think I would sleep with a married man even if I was madly in love with him. I'd just think about how bad his wife would feel if she found out.

    That's just my 2 cents, and I hope you didn't take it as degrading you because that's not at all what I was trying to do

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    whoa wait... he'd give you an allowance?

    if you're going to do this, do it for all your bills a month plus. that way the $ you make is all bankable.

    i had a guy who i could only hold off on sex for so long, then i had to let it go. i kinda miss having a credit card to buy whatever i wanted, whenever i wanted, but i surely didn't want to fuck him, i only wanted to fuck him out of his cash.

    be sure you know what you want to do.

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    ^ um, you didn't fuck him, but did you do other things for him. like oral? hand jobs? heavy makeout sessions? let him go down on you?

    i'm only asking cos i'm considering giving it a go myself. and if i'm not willing to have sex, i don't think i'd be able to do the rest either.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I have a sugardaddy Although our sugarbabe/sugardaddy "friendship" is alot different then most. Dont settle for chump change a month. PM me with any questions you have

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    If and when given the chance, go for it because they don't last.


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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I've seen it work and then go HORRIBLY wrong. They really want to own you and tend to get very jealous and demanding. Plus, as everyone says they generally (not always) expect some sort of sexual payment sooner rather than later.
    Think it out and decide for yourself, it going to be different for everyone.
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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Okay the advice I give every girl in this situation - just work for your money. It is always better that way. This is not a moral judgment - like if you wanted to escort or work in that field, I fully support. But expecting a rich, handsome and incredibly interesting man to start handing you money no strings attached - does this sound like real life to you? Just work for your money.
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    ^ Very True. I work & put everything I get from my SD into a savings account. Sugardaddys are hard to find(the good ones) and even harder to keep. Never quit your job!

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I don't recommend it. Perhaps you can just have a few pay-dates with him per month? Keep your job and independance.

    At the beginning of your date, he should give you some money in an envelope. The amount depends on the length of time, and whether sex is involved or not.

    Ok, I've tried this before, and I'm not willing to string along a PL. I preferred to include sex in the equation. Not for everyone. For one individual, it worked out marvelously, and he paid very well. We are still in contact to this day. The other one was a total douche and I ended up crying until he gave me more money. You don't want to be in that position.

    And if you are concerned about being labeled a whore....well you are a stripper, right? Its unfortunately already assumed.

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    ^ um, you didn't fuck him, but did you do other things for him. like oral? hand jobs? heavy makeout sessions? let him go down on you?

    i'm only asking cos i'm considering giving it a go myself. and if i'm not willing to have sex, i don't think i'd be able to do the rest either.

    i did nothing for him. i was seen in public with him, his friends were jealous of him, that's apparently what he wanted, so i obliged.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Scroll down to the bottom of the page for similar threads. This has been discussed plenty before.

    I think if you're unsure of how to bring up money, you have a lot to learn before entering into this sort of relationship. If you are timid and unsure, you are pretty much giving him all the control. No bueno.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    thanks for all your responses.. and for being real! =). i am going to read more related threads but keep your advice coming, it's very helpful to me. i guess my moral standard have down graded since i started dancing...lol. stripclubs have a bunch of married guys coming in and whom i made most of my income from. He haven't brought up the sex topic, but of course i am assuming that's the requirement eventually.

    plus i have needs too..lol. it gets lonely being alone you know. but i don't want to be taken because i am inexperience.

    any advice, past experiences, or just tips about this would be realllly helpful to me.

    what is considered a good sugardad? do i collect my monthly allowances upfront? that would be impersonable, wouldn't it?

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I looooove you girls! i can always count on you guys for advices!

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i did nothing for him. i was seen in public with him, his friends were jealous of him, that's apparently what he wanted, so i obliged.
    that sounds wonderful.

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Oh and another thing - although it might already be a given - don't get too attached. Work towards a goal, and don't lose sight of that. EVER. Or you'll end up as the one being screwed over instead.


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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    I thought about one...but chickened out and didn't call him.
    He was really into me at the club and gave me $1000.00 just to sit with him for an hour and have lunch. He didn't even come up to the stage when I danced because he didn't want to be the creepy old guy. Instead when I came and sat back down he'd hand me a $100 bill.
    He wanted to see me OTC and for the first time I really thought about it. He was basically offering me $3000.00 in cash per month to go on outings where his friends would be. There would be no sex or sexual favors of any kind. He just wanted a sexy girl(s) around. I say girls because he would invite several girls to be with him. One other girl at the club was in with him and said she always had a blast. The only thing "Sexual" she did was dance on his pole at his place with some other girls and did lapdances for him and his friends...but still there was limited touching.
    I didn't call because I was scared something would go wrong, and because I have a fiance I love, and he showed no interest in that scenario. I don't feel comfortable hiding that from him either.
    I hope you make a good choice for yourself. Sorry for the long-winded post

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    thanks so much for sharing! any info is so greatly appreciated..really. damn...i hate myself, I get attached so easily, so i definitely needs to keep myself in check on that regard. Our meeting is approaching, i'll keep you guys informed. lol..hopefully i don't chicken out. lol!

    I am going to keep working, so thanks for the reminder =)

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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Say, "my phone bill's due tomorrow, can I have $150? Thanks." Or, "can I get a little sugar, daddy?" Then do fun stuff. Repeat. Then slip in some new furniture or a car or something.



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    Default Re: sugardaddy: i've been thinking..

    Sugarbabe by Holly Hill --- whilst it is an Australian chick, I'm guessing what happens is generally universal plus she was not a stripper who got into the whole "Sugar Daddy" thing too!

    If you have troubles being with married men, then don't bother with the whole Sugar Daddy - Sugar Babe relationship.

    I can't say that I havn't considered it nor had my opportunities. Just that when it comes to sex for money I just can't cross that boundary for myself. Just that once I do cross that line there is NO going back and therefore I don't cross it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    Sugarbabe by Holly Hill --- whilst it is an Australian chick, I'm guessing what happens is generally universal plus she was not a stripper who got into the whole "Sugar Daddy" thing too!
    Her story's a little cliche, but it's still an engaging read. It's even got a few sex tips included haha.


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