hey guys i feel a little wierd for asking this; but anyways
my girlfriend and i have sex. not your regular 20-30 minute love making session, we have amazing/incredible/wild/passionate sex. we easily have sex for an hour or three with minimal breaks in between,and as i have a "problem" ejaculating (it takes me forever to cum), and it takes her quite a while aswell.. i maintain an erection for the entire duration btw
so here's the problem that IM having. the only time she orgasms is if SHE is on top of me, and she wouldn't even ride me, she would grind me instead.
she doesnt like me putting my fingers in her, or stimulating her clit directly. instead, she gets off on me rubbing around it...
i was wondering what advice i could get , because if she doesn't cum, i won't cum because i get more pleasure watching her orgasm, than physically orgasming myself.
i guess i kind of feel bas about myself, because the only way she orgasms is when she's doing the work. i want to do the work. all of it. we spoke about this , it doesn't bother her one bit, but it does bother me.
thanks for the help ladies



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