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    hey guys i feel a little wierd for asking this; but anyways

    my girlfriend and i have sex. not your regular 20-30 minute love making session, we have amazing/incredible/wild/passionate sex. we easily have sex for an hour or three with minimal breaks in between,and as i have a "problem" ejaculating (it takes me forever to cum), and it takes her quite a while aswell.. i maintain an erection for the entire duration btw

    so here's the problem that IM having. the only time she orgasms is if SHE is on top of me, and she wouldn't even ride me, she would grind me instead.

    she doesnt like me putting my fingers in her, or stimulating her clit directly. instead, she gets off on me rubbing around it...


    i was wondering what advice i could get , because if she doesn't cum, i won't cum because i get more pleasure watching her orgasm, than physically orgasming myself.

    i guess i kind of feel bas about myself, because the only way she orgasms is when she's doing the work. i want to do the work. all of it. we spoke about this , it doesn't bother her one bit, but it does bother me.

    thanks for the help ladies

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    that's the only way I can come from sex too. It's how some of us are wired and it doesn't make you any less of a man.

    And she's probably enjoying it when you're doing all the work (maybe even more than when she's on top), just not having orgasms from it.

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    Be grateful that she communicates her needs to you... don't try to circumvent them to make yourself feel more 'manly.' If she gets off in a certain way- then cater to it and encourage it... don't try to change how she works. There's nothing 'wrong' with this... and if you're both happy and getting pleasure out of sex, then move past the self-doubt and accept this.

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    My friend can only orgasm if she is on top, and the guy is stimulating her nipples. Like Emily said...it's just how some girls are wired.
    Other girls can only come from clit stimulation, penetration alone just doesn't do it.
    I think I'm one of the rare few who can come easily, in any position.

    A lot of girls can't orgasm at all...so if I were you, I'd concider it good that she can orgasm during sex, no matter how she has to get there.

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    haha the old clitoral vs vaginal orgasm. I am a clitoral orgasmer too. It doesn't mean that penetration is not good, quite the contrary. It's just that that particular grinding on you or rubbing is how she gets off. I am exactly the same.
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    Listen to everyone here, you can't change how she gets off. She obviously knows what works for her, just be glad it includes you!

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