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    Ok, so I get told this ALOT by customers. They say things like "I noticed your breasts are real, I like that" One guy that I spent an extended amount of time with in the CR last weekend said to me out of nowhere, "You don't ever plan on getting implants, do you? Cause your breasts are sooooo perfect just how they are"
    Most of the guys that say this tend to be older, but a few young guys have said it too. The point is I get it ALOT. I am really wondering if it is some sort of pickup line/reverse psychology thing, or if they really mean it?
    I am going to be very blunt here....I am FLAT. Around a 34 A. I have been considering a boob job almost my whole life it seems, but have never had the $$. Another factor is that I am absolutely terrified of general anesthesia.
    But really, I can honestly say I am happy with myself. I mean yeah, bigger boobs would be fantastic, but the financial issues and my phobias will probaly never allow it to happen. So I figure why waste my time trying to change something I can't and just be happy with me the way I am. And I am!
    But back to the main question here...I am dying to know what is behind these comments. Maybe they assume I must be self concious cause my breats are so small? And by making me feel good about myself I'll think "Wow what a nice guy" and then I might sleep with them? or maybe they do really mean it? I don't know.
    So if any other ladies have been in a similar situation and have an opinion on this I'd love for you to share. Or if anyone has any thoughts on this at all...I am just trying to get an outsiders opinion.
    I asked my friend and she said "There you go thinking too much and over analyzing everything again...just take the compliments and shut up!"
    I'm sorry, I just think the fact that I have such a flat chest and get told this constantly is weird. And the fact that I have one of the smokin' hottest pair of legs I know of, but no one ever says a thing about.

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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    I get this a lot too.

    I know a lot of guys have at least heard about those 'pick up a stripper' ploys and they usually advise using some kind of backhanded compliment like that.
    Also, it could be that guys truly enjoy your breasts! That's not unthinkable right?

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    I get this a lot too, and I have implants! (Shhh, don't tell anyone, lol) Guys are weirdos. They like to say that they hate implants, when the truth is that they don't hate implants, they just hate bad ones. Aaaanyway.. I think it's just their way of telling you they like your boobies. Not very tactful, but that's what they're trying to say. It's totally annoying to me -- like, are they trying to imply that logically you MUST be unhappy with them, so they therefore must reassure you? Iunno, really. This isn't making as much sense as I'd hoped. I'm going to bed now, lol

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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    I get it a lot too.

    It always makes me feel inadequate.Custie 101 - don't say it, in the alternative just tell the dancer you like her tits.

    "DOn't get implants" = "you have small tits" - in my mind at least.
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    I get that all the time too. I honestly think men just like women and breasts no matter big or small or real or fake..I think men just really enjoy complimenting women and seeing the woman's reaction.

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    I just don't try to over-think it: take it for what it might be even if you think it isn't a compliment. Say "THANKS! I love them too and play with them often!"

    Personally, it is all in the WAY they say it. If their tone and body language suggests that they are trying to be a smart ass then yes they are trying to offend you ... otherwise, if their tone and body language seems to suggest it is their weird way of complimenting you then take it for what it seems to be (a compliment).

    If they are being a jerk and saying this as a way of trying to be jerk then you can always use it back to them: "I love your small dick, don't ever get a penis enlargement!"


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    I get this all the time too, and I'm a small B. It sucks to because I'm looking into surgeons right now and sometimes I get all self conscious and think "OMG noones gonna like me with my fake titties" then I see all the girls with fake titties making bank (and girls that arent even super pretty, just have big boobs) and realize that guys just like boobs, period.


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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    Ya, I have heard that as well. They say they dont like girls with "fake" ones, but then they turn around and go get tons of dances with a girl that has implants. Go figure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cherie View Post
    Ya, I have heard that as well. They say they dont like girls with "fake" ones, but then they turn around and go get tons of dances with a girl that has implants. Go figure.

    Half the time they can't even tell the difference. Most guys are mildly delusional.

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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    i hear that at least once or twice a day.

    usually i get more attention from the "ass men"... so i work with that.


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    I've got full C's and I get this too. I think they really just think all strippers want breast implants, and they're trying to compliment us. We all know guys aren't at their most eloquent when in the presence of a naked woman.

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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    I totally understand what you mean, the bacjhanded compliment thing....

    I get "I'm so glad you're not one of those skinny girls!"

    Uhm.....really....I think "Nice body" would have sufficed. Yup.

    But they're guys....they're sitting in a strip club with booze, loud music and lots of sexy women in their underwear....it's easy to say they are most likely not thinking very clearly.




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    I get the opposite... I've had men turn down or tell other girls they didn't like me because I have implants and they dislike implants...

    ...I DO NOT HAVE IMPLANTS. So like, do my real boobs look like a bad boob job or what is going on!?

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    When I was breastfeeding and had big round boobs guys would never comment on them. I did once get a guy who asked if they were real.

    But now that they are back to their tiny size I get the "don't get then done" line all the time.

    I have to agree with Jaizaine here:
    "DOn't get implants" = "you have small tits" - in my mind at least.
    BUT, I definitely don't think it's a bad thing. I know girls on here say that their money goes up after getting a boob job, but I can say that working with an extremely full C cup, and now working back with my deflated Bs, had absolutely zero effect on my money.
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    Some guys prefer small breasts, and do not like implants.

    I hear don't get implants all the time to. I take it to mean " your breasts are very nice, don't ruin them with implants" Because they prefer smaller breasts, they feel large implants would ruin it.
    And face it..a LOT of girls who get implants do ruin their breasts. Nipples end up pointing different directions, terrible rippling, capsular contracture, breadloafing.....a lot of shit can go wrong.

    I have small breasts, barely fill out a B cup. But they are perky and firm, and get compliments all the time. I don't think compliments on smaller breasts are backhanded at all. It's just a preference. Not everyone likes large breasts or implants.

    Girls say their money goes up with implants, but I think 90% of that increase is due to their confidance level going up..not the breasts themselves.

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    Eh, just another stupid customer thing. Before I got my boobs I heard "don't ever get boobs, don't fuck them up! they're so much better like that!" Now I hear "wow you have the nicest boobies ever, are they real???"

    Guys just don't know how to give a compliment, and they'll focus on whatever they can focus on first, typically tits or ass, and then shit starts spewing out of their mouth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    "DOn't get implants" = "you have small tits" - in my mind at least.
    That's how I feel about any type of "don't change your body" comment...it's like they're choosing something that you're self conscious about it and bringing it up. It's not like the OP is bringing up the subject. IMO, it's very rude for guys to make comments like this. Before any of you flame me, I am aware that men are sometimes oblivious to how stuff like this can be perceived by women. It's best to just ignore and change the subject if it bothers you. Or better yet, ask the guy, "What makes you think I'd want implants?"

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    Most guys say this shit bc they fear thier fav. stripper may get a fucked up boob job. And he rather see her small and natural, than have Tara Reid fuck ups. Understandable if they're in a club with a bunch of bad boob jobs.

    I say if you ever plan on getting breast implants, don't tell anyone that you are. Most girls tits look fucked up after bc they don't search on a good Dr. and don't follow his orders after surgery.

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    i get this too. i had one guy come up to the stage and tip more than usual while he said "alright! a girl with natural tits." but guys can't tell either way.

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    I hear this one too.
    But I just take it as a compliment....no point in analyzing it and letting it ruin my day.
    They may be small, but they are perky, damn it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brendita View Post
    I hear this one too.
    But I just take it as a compliment....no point in analyzing it and letting it ruin my day.
    They may be small, but they are perky, damn it!
    Yup...this is my perspective too. My first night out, a group of truckers told me they had a shirt with "Itty Bitty Titty Committee" on it and they'd give it to me. I just laughed. I mean, in high school I was called every mean name you can think of for girls with no tits (my fave was "pirate's treasure--sunken chest") and now I have a B/C cup which may be small by SC standards but make me pretty damn happy. So I can take it all with a grain of salt.


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    Default Re: "Don't ever get breast implants"

    Yeah, I'm a 34B and i get a lot of guys who comment that they love my boobs because they are real. I dont get many guys tell me not to get implants (I get that from my friends outside of the club, lol).

    I think whatever size your boobs are, guys just like ones that look nice, and most guys equate nice with real.

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    i also get this all the time. im a small 32B and they fit my body perfect, however sometimes i want implants but im afraid they wont look good on me. the other thing that comes to mind is what Taylorlila said about being afraid that customers wont like you any more... but then again theres always the ones that do like big ones. sometimes im just really confussed about what i want, lol.

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    I was a 32AA and 5'8" and got it ALL THE TIME.

    Then after I got them guys would say theyre glad I didnt go too big.

    I still get guys telling me not to get implants (uh, i have them)

    I hated having no boobs and the best thing I ever did was get them done. It boosted my self esteem and I could care less about the guys who hate fake boobs. I make way more money now.

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    Wow, thanks for all the insight guys. Too many great things said to quote them all. I think this is just another one of those weird things I am going to deal with as a dancer. I mean my boobs are small, but they sure as hell aren't ugly. They are actually pretty nice looking and I have great nipples, haha. I will never understand why I get more compliments on the the most inadequate part of my body though. My ass and legs are a much better feature, I feel (I am a SLAVE to the gym) but somehow never get complimented. Oh well, as long as the dollar$ don't stop!!!

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