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    Hi! I've been nosing around the site for awhile and finally decided to post! I'm considering stripping PT and have a Q for the PTer's with another FT job: Does your FT job mind that you strip? I know that some people don't really "admire" strippers and I'm just curious if anyone has had any problems with an employer b/c of this.

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    I think most people who work elsewhere FT do not say anything about stripping PT. Why bother?

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    Yeah, I just didn't say anything to the higher-ups at my FT job. They didn't need to know!

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    I'm planning on working FT and stripping, and there's no way I'd tell anyone except in an extreme situation. Unless your full time job happens to be at the porn store or something, chances are it'll only cause drama and disrespect.
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    It's up to you weather you want to tell or not. i danced PT for 4 years before i got laid off. All my immediate coworkers and manager knew. You need to find out if where you are working has any kind of clause about having another job and what type of job you can have. Some larger companies have these.

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    I work a full time job at a hospital and I wouldnt tell anyone I work with. All my coworkers no is that I go out of town some weekends of the month. I havent found a job at a club close to home yet.

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    It really depends on what your full time job is too. Like if its teaching and you like your career and want to do it the rest of your life, I'd say stripping part time's not worth it. Also, it depends on how conservative the area you live in is and how cool your bosses/coworkers are. But definitely don't tell anyone in your ft job and if they do find out be prepared to deal with getting fired/being hated/gossiped about.
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    my boss and manager know what i do but they don't say anything about it. i had to put it down on the application (i'm a full time dog groomer) to take the groomer who taught me how to groom's spot when she went in for surgery. they don't care just as long as i get my groom dogs done and get to work at a decent time. oddly enough one of my client just happens to be the head manager of the dancer clothes/adult novelty stores that's right up the street from my work. none of my other clients know what i do though. my coworkers who do know think it's cool.

    i also help coach our learn to skate classes. my coach knows and thinks its so cool and one of the other girls i trust knows but i dont let anyone else know. i remember years ago before i got back into competing, some little learn to skate kid's dad swore up and down he knew me from somewhere but couldn't remember where and it just so happened to be at the club! that weekend that dad came in and said "i thought i knew you from somewhere" and i told him that i had heard that a lot and that i had no clue who he was and that i must have a "twin" running around somewhere

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    99.99% of the time it is best not to tell. You'd be surprised at what a can of worms this job opens for people you thought you knew. Telling is almost always going to result in negative consequences, coworkers won't respect you, male colleges will hit on you, it will be used against you at every opportunity. Employers and co-workers do not need to know, save yourself the drama!

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    Sounds like you kind of answered your own question snow white.

    Everything in life should be on a need to know basis.

    Why would any job you have need to know about the other?

    As long as one job doesn't interfere with the other.
    It shouldn't matter, but by all means keep it private.
    Unless, you're trying to be another crusader for strippers everywhere.
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    ^ i agree.

    i got a job at a deparment store (a custy of mine managed the store and offered me a day job in cosmetics when business was slow) and i eventually quit because it wasn't my style. however, one of the workers saw me at my club, and went and told EVERYONE... and my custy got serious shit for it from the other managers. be careful who you tell, or who sees you for that matter.

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    So, people can actually fire you just because they don't like your stripping job?

    Sorry I'm clueless about this.....Does anybody know if colleges/graduate clubs can expel you if they find out you're stripping?

    IMO, I think that's unethical on their part since you wouldn't be causing any trouble during your day job/atmosphere and it's not their business about what you do outside of that realm, but I guess that's how society is when it comes to stripping.

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    Well, there is no way your company would find out unless they went into the club and saw you. And if they did, it's not like they would brag the next day "I went to a strip club and saw Cindy!!" To bust you out they have to bust themselves for going.

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    Cinnamon: I used to work in a department store and the manager found out about it because my co-workers saw me at my club. The manager asked me to quit

    To OP:
    I have a full time job and I never or will never mention about me being a stripper. There are some things that are better left unsaid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hikaru View Post
    Cinnamon: I used to work in a department store and the manager found out about it because my co-workers saw me at my club. The manager asked me to quit

    To OP:
    I have a full time job and I never or will never mention about me being a stripper. There are some things that are better left unsaid.

    Can you file a complaint in cases like that, or is it not taken seriously?

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    I know plenty of women who moonlight as strippers outside of their regular jobs. Personally, I don't think its anyone's biz.

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    ^I really didn't care about that before since I really don't like that job.

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    I work 2 part time jobs besides stripping. My retail job is laid back, so they all know. Hell, half of em have dropped by the club to hang. My gov't job isn't so laid back so 99.999% of them don't know.
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    depending on the college they can expell you for exotic dancing. one of the girls i used to work with was expelled from her school for dancing but in her case she was going to a religious based school and for them it was "bad for their image". a normal college that is not religion based should not be able to expell you for dancing that i know of.

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