hah. now i can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not
hah. now i can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not
Be polite, but not extend...but this is why I don't get a dance until I have been in the club for a while. I want to see them dance on stage, maybe see how touchy they are while asking for a dance, to get an idea of what the dancer is like.
Too many dancers want us to start spending dollars as soon as we walk in the door (and I understand this, its their job) but I want results for my money, so a little research helps.
D when it's practical, A when D isn't practical.




I don't favor high-mileage dances. I feel awkward, both figuring out what the dancer's motive is and wondering what happens if a bouncer walks in on it. In addition, I really do worry about offending even extras dancers, so the whole thing is weird for me. Still, I like to have some contact. On the occasions where this has come up, I've given it a couple of additional dances, to see how it would go. If I go back to her, I may ask her for more contact, but then again, I don't like to even ask at all. Also, I am willing to see how things change over time.
Keep in mind, too, that some instances of this sort of thing are interpersonally based. There's one dancer about whom I'm thinking who had no contact with me at all, and that's not how she dances for other people. I don't hold it against her, but clearly, it's because she has some issue with me. That factors into things, as well.
ED E’ SUBITO SERA
Ognuno sta solo sul cuor della terra
trafitto da un raggio di sole:
ed è subito sera
--Salvatore Quasimodo--
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