Alright, there is one girl, and only one that I work with that has a problem with me. We clashed in the past over something, one of my reg.'s decided to tell her off (which I had nothing to do with, he apolagized to me and her for doing it) and shes hated me ever since. She makes snide remarks when she passes by, has flipped out on me about shit and had the managers telling her she was beng totally unreasonable, this bitch HATES me. Honestly I think she does feel kind of threatened by me. Shes really pretty, and I'm not that bad myself, shes a hard hustler and most of the time I am. Shes also supporting a habit.
No matter how much I don't like this girl, the only time I've ever said anything to her was when she flipped out on me. I don't say a word to her or a word about her. Come to find out she's been saying negative things about me to customers of mine (possibly others).
I gave a guy a dance last night, and he'd come watch me at my stages. At one point he came up to my stage and said if I had a minute after he wanted to tell me something. He says something about "knowing who my friends are, and he just wanted to let me know". Apparantly he was talking to her and said that he had had a great dance with me and I was a really sweet girl, to which she said something like "Oh be careful don't let her fool you. Thats just a front, shes not sweet, shes superficial and fake." (obviously we are all a little fake to custies, but anybody that knows me knows I am the least superficial and fake person you'll ever meet.) She also told him that I stole her customers, and she was only stripping because of something she was saving for *cough*heroin*cough*.
It just really ticks me off because A)this girl says I am immature and superficial, whoes being immature here? and B) I don't care if the girl tries to kill me, this is my JOB, not fucking highschool. I would NEVER say a negative thing about any dancer to a customer. If I have nothing nice to say I say "I don't really know her" if asked. Its petty and most of the time just makes you look bad. It made her look bad to him, he thought that was really low of her and that she must be really jealous.
What also bothers me is that she sits with a lot of my regulars, one of whom gave me an attitude last time after he sat with her, and I haven't seen since. He's a very sweet, very sensitve man. Part of me (ok a lot of me) thinks he prob. said "Oh I'm waiting for Sydney", and she started spewing shit about me. He's had girls in the club use him hard before, so I have a feeling her saying something like what she said to the other guy about me would have some affect on him.
I just don't know if I should do anything about this. Do I just say fuck it and let it go, or do I say something to her? The managment doesn't care fior her, but I don't wanna be the whiney drama queen either. Girls talking shit doesn't bother me, but when it starts to affect my money, thats when it pisses me off. any advice?





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. I almost said something to her last night when it happened. She left and then came back, so I got up to go say something, and then she was standing with a customer. I almost want to send her nast myspace message but that seems silly to me for some reason.
Custy's will think you are a doll, while she spits venom. It's the perfect plan!

And now she is not around anymore, thank God.

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