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    So, I met this other guy off match.com. We chatted a few times on yahoo messenger and talked on the phone. He was very handsome and nice until he started talking about beastility and having sex with dead people. He then told me to visit this site called rotten.com which is pretty sick. He had marks all over his arms. I asked him about it and he said he carved some words in his arms then burned them off.

    So, I've been on five dates. Two of the guys had to be gay and this one obviously pretty messed up. I met one decent guy and have another date with him next week. I've tried to screen them well. I mean, orginally I had over 100 messages. I have had over 4500 hits since I signed up a couple of months ago. So, down to five isn't bad but how the hell did I misjudge this one, geez.....

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    Wow, thats not a winner. Beastiality? What a sick MF!! Was he joking or did he really like that sorta thing?

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    He tried to say he was joking. I love animals so much. I told him this. He said well, I love them too in a different way, then said just joking again. It's like he would be serious when he joked so I couldn't tell if he was joking but then he'd keep bringing it up. Then the dead people thing and rotten.com really freaked me out.

    If I knew him and he was joking I might not have minded as much. But geez, on a first date? WTF..

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    he started talking about beastility and having sex with dead people.
    Folks, I think we have a winner. God, that's horrible. This supports my theory that the majority of people on dating sites are dangerous lunatics.

    But where else to meet people? Green, do have a look at meetup.com. It's not a dating site per se but I've been to a few meetups and they've been well-attended, drama free, and best of all the people seem to reside on the normal end of the spectrum.

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    Ahh, thanks for that info chicago, it's nice to be able to find where people might hang out with similar interests.

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    well, looking at the bright side of things, at least he was honest up front. That might have not come out until you had invested more time and energy.

    what about speed dating? Have you ever considered that? I've never tried it but always wondered how that worked.


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    Guys say that kind of stuff when they dont like the chick and just want to seem weird so she leaves her alone
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    Wow that really sucks. Match.com is the site I've actually thought about paying for too. huh

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Guys say that kind of stuff when they dont like the chick and just want to seem weird so she leaves her alone

    No, he sent me an email telling me "I hurt his feelings" for leaving and made him feel bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Danielle_ View Post
    Wow that really sucks. Match.com is the site I've actually thought about paying for too. huh
    I know eharmony charges more but I thought it might be worth it to go with them next time. Eharmony trys to match by personality types as well.

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    ^^^ keep in mind that E-Harmony has a bit of an 'attitude', and can refuse personality types that they don't consider 'acceptable'.

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    Once again I have to recommend

    Hot or Not's meetme thing is another interesting free one.

    I can't speak for the quality of guys on any site except for craig list's casual encounter page, but I have been very surprised at the women on the above two sites.

    You might have hurt his feelings, but I dunno. We can be weird sometimes. You'd think any guy would be savvy enough to realize being upfront about his beastiality lifestyle would turn off a good chunk of people...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Guys say that kind of stuff when they dont like the chick and just want to seem weird so she leaves her alone
    Sh0T:

    IMO, there's more to life than guys and their formulas for attracting or repelling women. While some of your posts are accurate and/or wildly entertaining, I beg to differ with your above assessment, which seems dangerously general. Unfortunately, guys may also say "that kind of stuff" when they're genuinely afflicted with a profound mental illness...

    I once heard a gentleman conversationally inform a lady: "When you cook pinto beans with chicken, you'll get the sudden smell of a woman's vagina. Oh, did you know that I cut off my mother's nipples and fried them with butter?""

    At the time, he was speaking to our receptionist in the waiting room of an outpatient mental health clinic where I used to work. Although neither of his statements were factual, he did have a long history of mental illness, substance abuse, assaultive behavior and one spectacular episode of arson (he burned down his own large, successful business)...

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    If a guy shows up to a date with a girl he met online and she turns out to be 300+ pounds, I guarantee you MOST GUYS are not going to act as cool as they would normally, because they usually aren't interested in that type of woman.

    Yes, there are genuinely weird people out there, but they are a lot more rare than a normal guy just being obnoxious on purpose.

    I might be inclined to agree to the former in Green's case because she's pretty hot, so I can't see guys acting weird to her on purpose, but ya never know.

    I think sites where people actually pay for the membership are probably containing a higher ratio of weirdos. I advise my hotter friends to put up NO pictures or put up a really bad one, because they will tend to get higher quality bites that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    I advise my hotter friends to put up NO pictures or put up a really bad one, because they will tend to get higher quality bites that way.

    Hint hint swers!
    . . . So are you saying that's why you haven't posted any?

    He was very handsome and nice until he started talking about beastility and having sex with dead people.
    I just had to repeat that very quotable quote.
    "Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins

    "I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    I advise my hotter friends to put up NO pictures or put up a really bad one, because they will tend to get higher quality bites that way.

    Hint hint swers!
    Quote Originally Posted by RoseWhite View Post
    . . . So are you saying that's why you haven't posted any?
    Sh0t probably couldn't locate a bad picture of himself...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Once again I have to recommend www.plentyoffish.com

    Hot or Not's meetme thing is another interesting free one.

    I can't speak for the quality of guys on any site except for craig list's casual encounter page, but I have been very surprised at the women on the above two sites.

    You might have hurt his feelings, but I dunno. We can be weird sometimes. You'd think any guy would be savvy enough to realize being upfront about his beastiality lifestyle would turn off a good chunk of people...
    I'm also a member of plentyoffish.com , lol. People are pretty vague in their profiles on there. But I like all the features the site offers and best of all it is free. I have chatted a little with two men on there. Everybody wants to meet after chatting once though. I am trying to avoid guys like the one orginally mentioned.

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    I have a lot of pictures on here

    Yea PoF is a bit vague.

    Did you know if you wanted to be cruel, you could check the "Intimate Encounter" thing and then if guys msg you, they can't msg most other women. Most women on there have the filter so that guys who have msged for an intimate encounter can't msg them.
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    Run, don't look back just run!

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    Hey, at least you have a lot of interesting stories to tell. That's what I keep saying anyway. I always find the freaks and weirdos. I had some guy in a Volvo pull up next to me at 6 am last week at a light and blow the horn. He was hot as hell. then after asking me where I was headed he just asks me if I wanted to smoke a blunt with him. wtf? At least he didn't ask me for heroin, which I've had happen.

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    ^ do you know how many girls think that's a dream come true??? Although who the hell smokes a blunt at 6:00am? Yeah, I guess that is a little weird!


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    I'm really glad that you are able to recognize some red flags greenid. Sometimes people deserve chances, but there are sometimes when your gut instinct is telling you something for a GOOD reason. Good for you for having that intuitive thought.
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    I'd have to have a "4 simease twin strippers gave me head and then lite themselves on fire" story to blow anybody's mind here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney View Post
    ^ do you know how many girls think that's a dream come true??? Although who the hell smokes a blunt at 6:00am? Yeah, I guess that is a little weird!
    yeah, but at 6 a.m. when it's dark am I really going to just pull off with some guy and smoke? That's just not the kind of come on I'm looking for from a guy.

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    i luvv rotten.com

    i wish i had a membership so i could look at nasty diseases. like, pics of people with worms coming out of thier bums.

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    ^Well, I'll just past his phone number right along to you then Maybe you can experience them actually coming out of your own ass when some fuck like him puts you in an early grave

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