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    While I have what I could possibly consider favorite dancers (who will approach me so I don't really have to and give LDs), sometimes they are not in the club when I visit for whatever reason.

    Then I seem to sit around for a little while waiting for a dancer to approach (or they just seem to hang back not quite knowing what to do).

    There may be a few non-regular dancers I find interesting so here's my questions:

    (1) When there are a group of girls just sitting around is it cool to just go up to one you don't know and say that you'd like a dance and to follow me?

    (2) What if a girl is just sitting with some dude but not really doing anything. Is it cool to just go up to the girl and say you want a LD?

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    If the girls are sitting together....yes its fine to ask one for a dance

    If shes sitting with a customer...you can tell her, or even ask a waitress to tell her, that you would like a dance from her when she is free. Then she can leave if the ustie shes sitting with isnt doing anything...or know that you are waiting when she is done.

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    I think that most girls would love it if the guy asked her for a dance. I know I do! It saves me the emotional stress of rejection. At least when you come up to us we know you're definitely interested.

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    i wouldnt go up to her when shes with a customer. i'd tell a waitress, or if the club doesnt have them like mine, catch her when she gets up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ironmaidern View Post
    There may be a few non-regular dancers I find interesting so here's my questions:

    (1) When there are a group of girls just sitting around is it cool to just go up to one you don't know and say that you'd like a dance and to follow me?
    Sure, in fact, you may have to do the asking. If they have seen you with another dancer regularly they may not want to cut-in on her territory. Of course, I'd rather follow then as I do enjoy looking at their cute little scantily clad bums as they lead me to the PD area...


    Quote Originally Posted by ironmaidern View Post
    (2) What if a girl is just sitting with some dude but not really doing anything. Is it cool to just go up to the girl and say you want a LD?
    Not really cool to interrupt at this point. Unless you have Spidey senses you have no way of knowing what's going on. While she could be sitting with the ultimate time-waster she may also be working this guy and trying to close the deal. Tip a waitress a few bucks to let the lady know that you are interested when she is free.
    Dancers are not shy abut making money. If she knows someone is interested in spending on her she will either get the guy she is with to pony-up or extricate herself and head over to you.
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    Yeah I would def. not directly approach the girl if she's with a guy. Again, tip the waitress to do so or wait for her to get on stage or to the bathroom or something and then ask...
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    Actually the OP's comment about approaching a dancer that's hanging with another PL brings up a question that I have.

    A few times I've gone in and seen my ATF with another customer. I was walking to the restroom and she waved to say "hi".

    I'm actually wondering if it's cool to wave and get her attention. In fact one time I walked past her and she didn't see me because she was facing another direction and I didn't wave or do anything to get her attention.

    What do you ladies say? Should I at least wave and say "hi" or just keep walking and not ruin her hustle and wait until she's done with her current custy.

    I guess the difference is that she is my ATF and I know her vs. a unfamiliar dancer. I don't feel the need to tip a waitress to get her attention for me, not that I haven't tipped waitresses, bouncers or dancers to get another dancer that I'm interested in for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CalifSCVisitor65 View Post
    Actually the OP's comment about approaching a dancer that's hanging with another PL brings up a question that I have.

    A few times I've gone in and seen my ATF with another customer. I was walking to the restroom and she waved to say "hi".

    I'm actually wondering if it's cool to wave and get her attention. In fact one time I walked past her and she didn't see me because she was facing another direction and I didn't wave or do anything to get her attention.

    What do you ladies say? Should I at least wave and say "hi" or just keep walking and not ruin her hustle and wait until she's done with her current custy.

    I guess the difference is that she is my ATF and I know her vs. a unfamiliar dancer. I don't feel the need to tip a waitress to get her attention for me, not that I haven't tipped waitresses, bouncers or dancers to get another dancer that I'm interested in for me.
    Its fine to wave or even stop and say hi for a second. Move right on in case shes in the middle of a sale, but let her know you are there so she can wrap up what shes doing quickly if she wants to.

    When one of my regs comes in, but is sitting with someone else when I see him. I stop, place my hand on his shoulder or give hima quick hug...say "great to see you again..have fun and let me know if you want to chat later". Lets him know I am there and happy to see him without taking him away from the girl he is with in case he wants to spend on her right then. then he can make the choice what he wants. It gives him an out if he doesnt want to spend any more time with that girl "Oh..Camerons here...I promised I'd see her when I came in today" but doesnt make him feel obligated if for some reason he isnt in the mood for me that day.

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    To follow up on a few of the responses, I am a day shift customer. The one place I usually frequent has a barmaid but not a waitress that walks around.

    Therefore, if a dancer is just sitting with another dude (and not really doing anything) I don't see many options other than to go right up to her.


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    well, like i, and others, said.. wait. you need to wait til shes going on stage or getting up for something. if you were sitting with a girl and some other guy came over, would that bug you?

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    If theres no other way...just stop for a second as you walk paast and say "Tiffany...I'm glad you are here..hope you have some time to chat later"..then keep walking. She'll know you are interested and will come over when she has a chance.

    And just because it doesnt seem like they are doing anything...he may very well be paying her for her time to sit there with him. You never know

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    See, I actually don't mind being approached when I'm sitting with someone. It makes me look more in demand, especially when it's busy and I might not see you otherwise... it sort of adds to the "party" atmosphere, which is conducive to my personal hustle. It's important, of course, to keep it polite and expedient. It also doesn't hurt if you want to mention how beautiful and hot I am to urge my current customer to shit or get off the pot, as it were. *shrug* I might be very different than other girls in this way, though. I don't often get paid to sit and chat, and it's certainly never what I'm trying to accomplish with a customer, so the chances you're interrupting something intense or personal is pretty slim.
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    TOTH..I'm with you actually. It helps my hustle to have guys approach me when i'm with someone else. As long as the guy arent being pervy or insistant that I go to him NOW or anything like that. It gives me a reason to leave if the guy is hemming and hawing about getting a dance.."ok..well, that guy wants a dance now so I'll go dance for him while you think about it" or it prompts the guy to get a dance now or go to the champagne room so we wont get bothered anymore and he wont lose me to all the other guys who are dying for my attention...lol!

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    I would never approach a dancer when she was sitting at another customer's table. Even if it was OK with her, it very well might not be OK with him. I've seen more than one fight start over this sort of thing, and I'd just as soon not be in one myself.

    I would tip a waitress to take a message, then come back and tell me how long it was likely to be. That's safer and more courteous, IMHO.

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    Yes....now that I think about it a little bit I recall one time when I asked a dancer if she could dance for me when she was sitting with a couple of dudes. She came over and was sweet (in fact one of the best dances I remember) but she did say the dude was very mad.

    Anyway, I'm not too old yet so I suppose I could have taken him. Anyway, I probably wouldn't approach the girl if the guy looked like a Hell's Angel biker. Most of the guys though I see in strip clubs don't seem like the fighting type. If there are a lot of dudes and one girl, I probably would not approach.

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    Nothing like a little alcohol to make a fighter out of a person who would normally just let stuff go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ironmaidern View Post
    Yes....now that I think about it a little bit I recall one time when I asked a dancer if she could dance for me when she was sitting with a couple of dudes. She came over and was sweet (in fact one of the best dances I remember) but she did say the dude was very mad.

    Anyway, I'm not too old yet so I suppose I could have taken him. Anyway, I probably wouldn't approach the girl if the guy looked like a Hell's Angel biker. Most of the guys though I see in strip clubs don't seem like the fighting type. If there are a lot of dudes and one girl, I probably would not approach.
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    Nothing like a little alcohol to make a fighter out of a person who would normally just let stuff go.
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    "I'm not TOOOOOOO old yet, so I suppose I could have taken him"

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    I'm such a pussy, I lick myself for personal acceptance.

    Anyways, Cameron...

    I know on this board, the mentality is different as in respect the stripper with her customer as you would want her customer to respect you,

    but what about those occasions when you're really interested in a single dancer and you have a decent amount to spend? I remember being patient and seeing wait staff fail over and over again to explain the interest in her time only to have her disappear into the dressing room after a few dances...

    This is not a problem, however, in the meantime, you have to deal with the ever-increasing dancer-dance request...

    So I ask, would YOU consider it offensive, (again, this is an extreme) if while you were with a customer, I came up, whispered in your ear of my interest, than as a token of the apology to the custy, buy him a dance?

    This has worked in the past.
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    If I'm sitting with a group of girls, its because I've already done my rounds and haven't had good luck making money, so hell yes I'd be thrilled if you came to me.

    I wouldn't mind being approached while I'm with a customer already, because like the girls said, it makes me look better. Just do it politley. If your not comfortable doing that odds are if this guy isn't spending, I'm getting up soon, or might have to go onstage. When you see me onstage, come sit at the tip rail, and tell me you'd like a dnace when I'm done.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    Anyways, Cameron...

    I know on this board, the mentality is different as in respect the stripper with her customer as you would want her customer to respect you,

    but what about those occasions when you're really interested in a single dancer and you have a decent amount to spend? I remember being patient and seeing wait staff fail over and over again to explain the interest in her time only to have her disappear into the dressing room after a few dances...

    This is not a problem, however, in the meantime, you have to deal with the ever-increasing dancer-dance request...

    So I ask, would YOU consider it offensive, (again, this is an extreme) if while you were with a customer, I came up, whispered in your ear of my interest, than as a token of the apology to the custy, buy him a dance?

    This has worked in the past.
    I would not find it offensive...I would be very flattered.

    Of course in the first scenario...maybe you could position yourself outside the dressing room so you can get her attentoin as soon as she comes out...

    I've had many MANY custieswaste my time over the years by talking a blue streak...so having someone else come over and express interest would be a perfect getaway for me!!

    And honestly...if the customer I was sitting with was a big spender, I would just tell you that I'd get to you as soon as I had a moment. If he wasnt spending...I could care less if he is offended by someone who DOES want to spend on me!!

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