I'll make this as short as possible.
So this is basically it- I met my new boyfriend at my club.
He came in alot and mostly we sat at the bar, talked, smoked and drank. He never watched the girls onstage, never wanted dances. (But he tipped me well because I think he felt guilty).
We went to IHOP 2 weeks later after I got off work. To my surprise he was still a gentleman, opened doors and paid, didn't even use curse words in my presence.
We exchanged numbers, and I drove away.
He texted me 30 minutes later, asking if I got home okay & if tomorrow I'd like lunch on the beach. I went & we've been dating ever since.
And my hustle has sucked more than ever! I can't get myself to work two days in a row. When I am there I have to sit at the bar for at least 30 minutes with two drinks and I'm FINALLY ready (And I've HAD to drink before).
I don't know if it's just my time to move on, or if it's because he's so cool with it. I've only been dancing for two years, and I've always been comfortable with the mileage at my club (super low, no extras). But lately I'll catch myself giving a dance and I can't help but want to puke all over the guy. (I get that disgusted!)
I mean he never tells me to go or not go to work. He respects me and my choice to work there, and he doesn't take advantage of me. I've talked to him about it and he suggested asking the GM if I could be doorgirl or cocktail waitress. My only concern is that I won't be able to support myself (not like I'm making a killing dancing now anyway).







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