My maybe-ex has a problem with erectile dysfunction, as most of you know. He also does something that I don't know is normal for guys.
If he's not getting constant stimulation, he goes limp pretty quick. He'll start out hard when he gets turned on, but foreplay tends to be a cock-softener. If he's going down on me, he'll go soft. If he's fingering me without getting blown or rubbed, he'll go soft. If we're kissing without grinding or anything, he'll go soft. To keep him hard, I had to constantly rub or suck him. If we went soft, I'd have to get him hard again, which sometimes took awhile.
He said that things had always been like that, even before he started having problems with erectile dysfunction. He says that he's still turned on even though he doesn't have a boner. He also says that if he has to start thinking about anything, then he loses his erection. Uh, I get SOAKED and HORNY when I'm sucking him off.
Do all guys really lose it that easily?
I know that you're all thinking "Dump the fucker already." We're not seeing each other until December because we both need space, and I don't have the energy to deal with a breakup or fights right now. I just want to know if I have to expect this for the rest of my life.



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