I need some advice on this. I along with many of you other girls on here believe in "unwritten rules of ettiquette" in all areas of the club. Lately there's been a problem in my row in the DR. My row is the only row in the DR that's Non-smoking. And it seems more and more new b*tches (new meaning less 0-3 months working there) are flocking to the Non-smoking row and taking up all the room. The problem with that being is, these girls already have lockers somewhere else in the DR but camp out and put all their sh*t there and us girls who do have a locker there are having to fight for our spots! Although nobody owns a spot anywhere, it's pretty much known who sits where and it's kind of according to where your locker is and seniority.
Every time a new girl puts all her crap in a place where one of us gets ready at, we are always very nice about explaining things to only get major attitude. Last Saturday this girl who's always cluttering up the row (who has a locker somewhere else) got into it with me. The way we've been handling her and a few other girls that either won't take the hint or are just extreme bitches, we move their stuff over. When she come back to see her stuff is moved she puts on the ultra attitude "Ughhhh, who moved my stuff!!!!" Dancer M, said she did it and explained very nicely that we're trying to make room for everyone. Well, she went off on her so I of course stepped in because dancer M is my friend and this girl is totally in the wrong and she's been pissing me off for a long time!!! I asked her if she had a locker, she said yes. Then why do you get ready & put your stuff back here? Because this is the only non-smoking area and I don't like smoke and besides, I got here first! Ughh, no you didn't get here first. Maybe you walked in 30 min before we did but you didn't get here first! I told her that we have a locker back here, that these are the spots we've been getting ready at since the beginning and we need this area to get ready at. She had the nerve to tell me and the other girls that we should move!!!!! I said "No, you need to move where your locker is, period!"
Dancer K has been getting ready at that same spot for like 10 yrs, Dancer E like 4 yrs, Dancer M like 2 yrs and me almost 2. We never had any problems until the past 8 wks maybe at the most!
Then she got up and huffed & puffed away. I pretty much then ignored her because she's been pissing me off for a looooong time now with this and I was so ready to just clock the crap out of her. I thought it was an unwritten rule that you earn your place on the DR table, you don't just invade! WHen I first started I asked every girl around me if it was ok if I put my things there, if it wasn't, I moved. If a girl came in that normally got ready there, I moved! I was sooo respectful of the other girls spaces who had more seniority, wtf is up with these new bitches thinking they own the place? The problem we're facing is our club is on a firing spree and everyone's afraid to say anything or complain to the managers about anyone. How do we (me and the other girls around me sick of this problem) deal with this? Do we just keep doing what we're doing by moving her crap over and out of the way? She thinks because she gets there at 8pm she has seniority on where who's stuff goes where. What dingbatt obviously doesn't get is that doesn't matter!!!! Either get a locker back here when one opens up or go back to your own locker. If everyone keeps doing this, the entire club is going to be getting ready on our row!Help, before I tear her head off!!!!!



Help, before I tear her head off!!!!!
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Yes, our DR is very big and it's just irritating that a few girls, one in particular doesn't think about how others feel. All the girls get ready where their locker is, it's a matter of convenience. I'm not going to get ready on the other side of the DR to have to constantly walk back & forth to get into my locker. If it was a matter of this is the only area that has a mirror and table, then I'd understand her getting ready there. But she has a locker, I've explained to her that I get ready in such in such area because my locker is here. Her answer/attitude is "So what!!!! You should move!" And I'm not a space hog, I get ready and when I'm finished I put most of my stuff away expect for what I might need to touch up with like lipstick, blush, hairspray, etc. It's most common for girls to bring a lot of their own stuff and not use the house mom's like they do in some clubs.

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