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    Holey crap. I just wrote this all out and hit submit and it didn't post.
    One more time...
    I worked in a small club.(4-7)girls on a shift. I don't drink or do drugs and am always dependable to be there. Not to mention one of the better girls at the club.
    Had a customer go bad about 2 months ago and the manager told him he couldn't come in on days I'm there. ( he grabbed me and slammed a "gift" box down on the bar and called me a bitch. and cursed me all the way out the door) months before that he decided I wasn't paying him enough attention and tossed all the barstools on the way out.
    I don't lead my customers on and have never met him otc. or called him. it got to the point that i wouldn't give him my schedule and stopped talking to him or looking at him or taking stage $ from him.
    So all was good except he was bad mouthing me and telling the girls on the other shifts that I didn't like them ect.
    So then the owner finds out he was banned and tells him she didn't know and he can come in whenever. So now he thinks he is king shit. He can do whatever and get away with it and no consequences. He is a lowly ex- co that got fired for stealing gov't cheese. Now he is a drunk pill popping bus driver. I keep waiting for him to get a DWI.
    Anyway I didn't want to burn any bridges, but i told the owner i need some time away. ( If i can help it I will never be back) Because I think that's fucked up. She would rather keep a 30$ custie than one of her top girls. I guess she was afraid of a lawsuit.( as if he'd want his wife to know he was banned from a stripclub)But he was allowed in there. Just not when i was there.
    I am not afraid of him. Pissed he is allowed to think he is anything but a peon. But I am afraid I might try to hurt him or have someone else do it. so I left. Owner said if i got a restraining order against him she could keep him out. Tempting to do just to fuck him. But then he would have my name and address to pass out to everyone.
    any thoughts?

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    I would leave and have done this in the past. When the club chooses bad customers over the dancers it just ruins it for everyone, not just the dancer he was messing with.
    I had to deal with a guy that kept trying stuff on the dancers and bragging about who he had paid for sex with (a few were the truth and this just made the problem worse.) He finally burned the owner who banned him for life (no idea what he did exactly).
    Take your break, these guys tend to dig their own hole and the club has to see the light and do something about it. Hopefulyy it will be sooner than later.
    You could also tell your story to all the girls to see if you can rally together to ignore him at the club. This happened once with a scary guy and he quickly decided he wasn't wanted there.
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    There's a guy who jacks off at the stages at my club. He gets kicked out every time, but still is able to come in. Seems like customers have to do something to majorly offend the whole club or the owner to get permanatly banned.

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    A lawsuit for being barred from a stripclub? That's ridiculous. Didn't think you needed a reason to bar someone from private property. Anywho...

    If you can take a break do so, and I like the idea of getting other girls to ignore him, this could work. Just yesterday I watched two asshole custies get ignored by girls so bad they left, these are guys that usually plant themselves in the club for hours at a time.

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    ^^^Exactly. Any business reserves the right to refuse service to anyone, right? Rally the girls and refuse some service! But be safe first and foremost, this guy sounds like he could really get scary.


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    If there is any other club you can go to in your town, go. Unless there's something you're not telling us, it's ridiculous to choose a shitty customer over a good dancer. How short-sighted, penny-wise-and-dollar-stupid can you get?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    it's ridiculous to choose a shitty customer over a good dancer. How short-sighted, penny-wise-and-dollar-stupid can you get?
    You have obviously never met anyone in strip club management.

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    Default Re: What do you think about this?

    Mare I would have done the same thing and took the time away from that club.

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    Default Re: What do you think about this?

    No. There is nothing I'm not telling you.
    Unfortunately the girls in this club really have no place else to go so they won't get together to ignore this guy. And I really just go in and work- I don't make friends with the other girls. If you throw a dollar around that place - for most girls there it's good currency.
    I am just staying away and letting this dude screw himself- which he will. I don't plan on going back if I don't have to b/c I think that was an asshole move on the part of the owner.
    I used to just go there b/c it was comfortable. But I have a feeling out of the comfort zone I will make more $$.

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    I hate this situation and it's all too common. Owners and most managers are short-sighted that way. They think that money in the hand is better than keeping a valued employee who would ultimately bring in and keep another customer to replace the asshole.

    When I managed, I banned anyone who stalked, started fights, or generally got in the way of EVERYONE'S good time. And not only for my dancers but for my other employees as well.

    I understand how pissed and frustrated you must feel to not have the support of the owner. It really boils down to what you want and how you feel, so go with your gut instinct.

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    I'm feeling better already. Just reading the last post made me realize THERE WAS NO FUN in that club. There were soooo many rules you couldn't even make $$. The only comprimise was it was relatively clean( if you don't count the chicks meeting the custies otc).
    So now I am FREE. And I plan on making some $$.

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    Default Re: What do you think about this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mare View Post
    She would rather keep a 30$ custie than one of her top girls. I guess she was afraid of a lawsuit.( as if he'd want his wife to know he was banned from a stripclub)
    A lawsuit? Theres something called "Right to Refuse Customers" that ANY and ALL store/clubs/whatever can follow. They dont HAVE to let him in. A lawsuit. Thats funny. What a stupid manager. Id love to see that in court.

    Forget that - Id never go back...

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