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    This is soo silly! I've been dancing on and off for 10 years now. So I want to go back to it and have been putting off seriously making the comeback for 2 years now. I'll plan it out get ready and then just lose it. I've danced a total of 10 times in 2 years. I keep getting frustrated because I don't know why I unconsciously hold myself back, I just want to get on with it already!!
    When I get to the club and it all comes back to me, I think 'what the heck was the problem'. Then it's hard to get back again.

    Anyone else go through this? Anyone got any motivational tips?

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    I guess just try to remind yourself how it feels once you're there. I do this when I feel like I hate my job, or don't feel in the mood, I try to remember that most of the time I end up really enjoying my job.

    Oh and it's weird, but I've been dancing for 2 years and no matter what when I'm about 3 blocks from work I get nervous. I'm fine once I pull into the parking lot, but it's always strange how I get butterflies.
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    Yeah, it's the strangest thing, like what am I so nervous about? I boost myself up, ya know the I'm so sexy in the mirror thing, get all pumped for work thinking about all the money I'll make an when it's time to go I hear my ego deflate like a balloon. I get all scared like it's dangerous (I don't really think it's dangerous) or what if I get fired for being too fat or something (if that really happened, I probably wouldn't even be phased). Look at me, I'm doing it right now! I'm gonna make some tea...

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    I know for me, if I feel like I might back out of something I really want to do I'll tell everyone that I was going to do it, and it kind of forces me to actually follow through. With stripping I tell my boyfriend and yall that i'm going to do it and it mentally "obligates" me to do it. Although I have allot of pride...ahah so that is probably why that method works for me.

    Just turn those bad nerves into excited "omg what am i doing!! " nerves and just do it. Like you said once your in there it will all come back! I actually love getting nervous b/c it provides for a natural "pre-work high". Gets me awake, in the mood and ready to make money!

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