Okay ladies, I need your help here...
I've had this pretty decent reg for about a year. Let's call him P. He is a very laid back guy who lives in another state and comes to see me @ the club every few months to get away from work. We email every few weeks, too.
These past few visits, I've been letting P take me out to dinner near by before we go to the club. (BTW, it is very safe: I meet him @ the restaurant and then we walk around the corner to the club afterwards). After dinner, he always gets one hour in the CR with me, no more.
***I get paid for the CR portion of the "date" (obviously), but I would really like to be paid for the dinner portion, too.
I've had a reg before that has paid me for the dinner in addition to ITC, but he just offered, so I don't know how to approach this one.
I would really like to know how I can bring this up to P, and also if anyone else does anything similar with their regs.
I've thought about just saying something like "I've been so busy with school and I haven't had time to work... and my bills are piling up..." but I can't think of what to say after that! And I don't really want to make it seem like I'm a charity case or anything; I want him to feel like he ought to pay me, if that makes sense...
ETA: Some background on our relationship-
98% of the time, I don't dance for him. He just wants conversation( i.e him talking and me listening).* I DO NOT offer him anything else*
He has said before that he wouldn't mind just giving me th $ for the CR and just going out on the town instead of being ITC.... And that he is glad he can "help me out" because I'm a college student, blah blah blah... This is why I think I could probably get more $ out of him if I tried.![]()
Thanks for all the input, ladies!



).* I DO NOT offer him anything else*
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