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    Default I'm in love with a stripper

    Well, not really - just interested in a girl who happens to be a stripper. I'm a regular strip club goer and found out about this forum from a stripper friend of mine who mentioned it in passing. I know this forum is for strippers, but from reading a few threads, I think this is great for guys who don't appreciate stripping as a business and at the very least, they get some basic education about do's and don'ts and proper etiquette.

    Anyways, last week I finally gathered the courage to ask a stripper I've spent some time with for her number - not something I usually do, but I felt she was special and sensed she felt the same way. We went out for coffee. It felt strange seeing each other outside of the club, but we connected and strolled around a bit hand in hand and it was great. She's a great girl.

    This week I've been out of town travelling, but we've been texting. In one of the texts, she vents about this guy she met at a bar one night that she slept with, but he never called her again. She was really into him, but maybe she should forget about it and move on. WTF?

    I am lost as to her intentions or what she is trying to get across to me here. Normally I would think she's trying to say she's not interested, but we made plans to meet up when I get back to LA. Any comments would be appreciated - my ego prevents me from asking my real-life female friends.

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    1.) She's completely insensitive and really doesn't care about your feelings.
    2.) She's completely oblivious and thought, OMG, A Nw Txt FRNd! not understanding the depth of your emotion for her.
    3.) She was using this as a 'test' situation to see how you'd react. (Is he a jealous guy, is he sympathetic, is he a good listener, is he comforting, etc.)
    4.) She really WAs super-hurt, needed to vent, and unfortunately you happened to be the man of the hour.
    5.) She'd given her number purely in a custie/dancer relationship (i.e. wanting to foster the relationship to encourage the $$$ flow)but is really bad at distinguishing the boundaries and happened to overstep one.

    welcome to SW, fellow so-callie. just a tip- usually, places where customers ask questions... or, post at all... are in "customer conversation."

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    It sounds like she sees you as a customerfriend. It's the weird zone betweeen being a customer (and completely separate from her "real" life) and being a friend (with whom there is complete honesty). She may feel fairly physically comfortable with you, hence the holding hands... no harm in doing that once you've already given 6 hours of lapdances to a guy. The fact that she is telling you the details of her sex life is pretty indicative of her uninterest in a sexual relationship with you (I mean, unless she's just wacky. I don't talk about humping others with a prospective humpee; I think most girls would agree with me).

    On the bright side, the fact that she's letting you into her personal life at all is pretty positive, at least from my perspective, though perhaps you'll disagree. She may actually like you and actually want you to listen. This does not mean, however, that she wants to do the horizontal mambo with you.

    Oh, and there's a chance that she's just being casual and basically telling you whatever comes to mind at the moment she's sending you a text to create a false sense of intimacy so you continue to spend. Just to, you know, keep you on your toes.
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    Just be careful with your feelings, it's always a weird situation when you meet that way. IMHO, I think she sees you as more of a friend that she's comfortable with, like a good buddy because if she felt otherwise, she wouldn't tell you about her sex life. I mean, would you tell a girl that you were really interested in about this chick you met at a bar that you just banged?

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    Default Re: I'm in love with a stripper

    wow usually all these threads are the same but this is a weird one.
    I really dont know what this one's motivations are about, maybe she doesn't either.
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    Default Re: I'm in love with a stripper

    Goodtipper,
    I think Embyr summed it up nicely, that being this could mean one of several things. For now, I'd think it's important for you to continue being there for her in a friend-like supportive role, and if she's looking for more, you'll know soon enough. Obviously, she's not shy.

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