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    I've had my cat for over 10 years-Hes my baby-But im THISCLOSE to giving his ass away! I cannot freaking take this anymore!!! About a year & a half ago, My sister had to move in with me and she brought her two cats. Both of them had been around my cat and everything was good until they left. He started this HORRIBLE meowing- and i do mean f'n HORRIBLE loud, sounds like someone is freaking MURDERING him meows. Ok, i thought because they left he was sad or something. This went on for weeks. I lived in an apartment and I have had neighbors coming to my door because my cat meowing had kept them up alllll night. he would meow for hours upon hours straight.



    NOONE can sleep. noone can listen to music or watch tv or a movie. There is NO peace. Think of a baby screaming at the top of his lungs 24/7. thats my apartment. Ok, so. I moved into a house with a screened back pool & huge backyard with a fence(Even though hes declawed) just for him. It costs me alot more money monthly-but I wanted my baby to be happy. Before we moved into that apartment-we lived in a huge house. I thought maybe he needed more space...He walks around the house in circles. Bored. He meows and meows to be outside. I let him out in the backyard. still meowing. I brought him to the vet thinking maybe something is wrong with him. Hes in perfect health.


    He isnt happy inside, Isnt happy outside. HATES being away from me. I cannot even shower in peace. he HAS to be INSIDE the shower with me. I cant even shower alone... I cant take it. I dont want to give him away but what else can i do? I give him TONS of attention. I play with him, give him treats, brush him daily for about 30 mins. Oh and I have another cat also-he treats her like a child. They get along well and play a little bit each day but thats it.

    Ummm lets see and my sisters cats cant come over for play dates for him or anything either because she lives in philly and im in FL. he also started pooping everywhere but the litter box- even though I have tried over 10 different brands of kitty litter and paper cut up. WHATS HIS DEAL! Im so over this BS, really. Im going freaking insane from the lack of sleep.

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    Is he Siamese?

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    Nope! Just a regular tabby. ever since he has been getting older hes been getting weirder and weirder..

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    It might be worth trying an animal communicator?



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    that sounds a bit random...maybe you could go into a vets and just ask if there'e anything they can recomend....i've heard of dog behaviour experts so maybe there's cat behavior expers too? its worth looking into-hope things get better!

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    Get another cat to keep your kitty company?

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    ^^^^I was logging in and you beat me to it! Thats what i was gonna say, get another cat to keep him company....He sounds like he is bored and lonely, he got used to your sisters cats and now they are gone. Pop on down to your local shelter and adopt your kitty a playmate!
    Also just a quick fact, some cats are just very vocal. Certain breeds, certain stimuli and wierd random stuff. One of my cats talks all the time, not in an annoying way like you described but still he is a talker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post
    Both of them had been around my cat and everything was good until they left. He started this HORRIBLE meowing- and i do mean f'n HORRIBLE loud, sounds like someone is freaking MURDERING him meows.
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    Yeah is he fixed?

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    hehe wake up you guys! Yeah it says in there i have another cat They love each other, but i cannot get any more animals. I rent a house and am limited to two. Yes hes fixed. He was fixed before i got him when i was 9.

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    Oh sorry, I have a bad head ache. Must of missed it lol

    Well then go talk to the vet. Sorry your kitty is driving you mad. Mine does these weird urrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmoewwwwwwwww kinda meow's like at 1 am and she's fixed but our neighbors are far and we have gotten used to them.

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    I don't know what to tell you...he sounds so annyoing, but so very lovable at the same time. He just wants to be with his mommy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    It might be worth trying an animal communicator?
    "Animal communicator"? Cool, Lena! (scurries to Google & looks up "cat whisperer")...

    We have 2 cats who seem pretty self-contained but still crave attention when we're around...

    Have you tried new toys or catnip?

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    I know his habbits can be bothering you but i actually thinks its sad that you are considering giving him away. Especially that he just wants you attention, thats a sign of love.

    Usually when animals are acting out they are trying to tell you some thing.

    I think the animals communicator is a great idea.

    I am not trying to flame you or anything but.... animals hear people go blah blah blah all day, but they are not allowed to talk coz its annoying? kinda seems unfair.




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    Here's a good cat forum with tons of advice/ info.
    http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/

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    Right now my kitty is also howling. But just look at your kitty's face. Would you really give him away? Something tells me no, you are just frustrated.

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    My Charlie was the same way and he'd have the craziest temper tantrums..He peed on my f-ing Natuzzi grey leather chair because he was mad that I kissed someone, he sat on the chair glaring at me and I had no idea why until I walked over and saw the stream of urine making it's way into the seams. That was the last straw..I got rid of him..I don't want a controlling man in my life let alone a controlling cat. I knew I had to get rid of him for a while but, I kept giving him chances. Sounds like you're in the same boat.
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    Wow Farrah, that's just a bit creepy....

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrunetteGoddess View Post
    Wow Farrah, that's just a bit creepy....
    Oh, yeah..I didn't tell you about him shitting on my bed when I'd have company. Animals are a trip esp. when it's one of the opposite sex. They get confussed and think you're in a relationship with THEM.
    That's what it sounds like in Miss Marina's case to me.

    (That was my last cat by the way, I only do dogs now )
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    I wonder if it's a male cat thing. Mine drives me nuts too and he hates when guys come over.

    Mine looks for attention every night and makes a bunch of noise,howls ... until I lock him in the bathroom. It feels mean but it's the only way I can get to sleep. Last night he was actually cool. Hopefully he's over his episodes.

    I'm not sure what to do about your cat. I would consult an animal communicator too.

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    I am not trying to flame you or anything but.... animals hear people go blah blah blah all day, but they are not allowed to talk coz its annoying? kinda seems unfair.

    I didnt say he wasnt allowed to meow. Meowing for hours straight like he is being murdered would drive anyone crazy. I cant do anything in my own home. If i want to even watch tv i have to go to a friends. That is not fair to me.




    I'll look into the animal communicator although i have to say sometimes i feel like that kinda stuff is a scam. I had a bad experience with one years ago. No, i dont think i would ever really go through with giving him away. but im seriously on my LAST nerve with this. Im soooo fed up.

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    ^^^ My friend had a great animal communicator. The saw a pic of her cat and said exactly what was wrong with the kitty, and there was not even one mistake. Would you like me to find out who it is?




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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post

    I'll look into the animal communicator although i have to say sometimes i feel like that kinda stuff is a scam. I had a bad experience with one years ago. No, i dont think i would ever really go through with giving him away. but im seriously on my LAST nerve with this. Im soooo fed up.
    Please post on your experience..I've seen shows on animal communicators but, never heard anyone's first hand experience..I hope it does help your cat.
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