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    last night was REALLY dead @ work. even when we did get a tiny amount of people, no one was sitting at the stage to tip. they were all sitting @ the bar. ugh!
    anyway, this 1 guy who's about 35 came in, tipped me 10 on stage then walked back to the bar. so i go to sit with him when i get off stage. after sitting with him for a while i can tell he's not into dances or anything; he buys me a few drinks, but says if you want to go make money you can, i won't be offended. so i take that as a sign he's not going to spend much in terms of rooms or anything, even tho he has the money. i move on, but always come back to check on him.

    well after a stage set later i go over, he buys me another drink, we talk a bit more. this new girl, whos not cute, kinda trashy and not classy sits down and flat out asks him for a beer!! she then said she owed him a dance (i guess they did 1 1/2 before when i was on stage) so away they go; he says he'll be back for another dance from me.

    WELL they didn't come back; i guess he did a room or 2 with her! ARGH! he tips me 20 next time i'm on stage at the end of the night, and leaves. he said i didn't mention dances or anything, so he went with her.

    in the dressing room, said girl is like 'man i banked tonight! ya know that guy you were sitting with? he tipped me really well!"

    HELLOOOO!! did you really just say that and brag?! you kind of stole him, i had sat with him for a while, and because of this i had a bad night, danced a million times on stage and didn't make much. BITCH! i said nothing to her. ugh.

    shame on me for assuming he wouldn't get dances, and not asking.
    but shame on you for bragging about $, and knowing i had sat with him first.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    Her approach might be a bit rough around the edges, but, hey--it worked.

    You really should have gone in for the kill and you're just regretting it, I think. I've done the same.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    This is very confusing situ.

    It has happened with me that the guy got me dances - and only me- then took me to the cr because I didnt ask and I wasn't pushy.

    Sometimes you regret that you don't ask because they have the vibe that won't do nothing. They either go with someone else or they ask you to dance. Or maybe they just like the pushy girls with fake tits or the one with blond hair..



    I would and I am confused too what to do. We are not mindreaders.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    Quote Originally Posted by betterthaneden View Post
    he said i didn't mention dances or anything, so he went with her.
    I think it was a mindfuck. If he wanted to go he wouldn't have sat and lolligagged. He had you for free then had the one he wanted. Maybe next time if you get resistence you can switch up your personality to fish around and find the approach he really likes.
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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    Dont be mad at the chick- she did her job well-
    be mad at the dude for wasting your time, water under the bridge, one day you will have a slammin night and "steal" her customer and she will walk out with $20 lol

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    I don't see how she stole your customer. Actually, it sounds like he was her customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I don't see how she stole your customer. Actually, it sounds like he was her customer.
    thats what i was thinking too.

    you snooze, you lose!

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    Yeah, I don't see how he was your customer either. He obviously had dances with her before you sat down and you said yourself that it sounded like they had made plans for her to come back. It's really not cool to block out the girl he was actually buying from.

    As for the bragging - if it was intentional at all and not just babbling - it might have been her way of subtly saying "please don't cockblock me in the future. We are both professionals, and it just makes you look bad."
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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    I think you got the vibe that he didn't want to buy dances because he didn't want to buy them from you specifically. When a customer says "go make money" it's his way of saying you won't make money with him.

    But it's always good to pop the question before you have to leave your seat for stage anyway.

    and I hate this whole nonsense of "my customer." Customers aren't parking spaces. They are not yours because you were there first. They are your customer because they are paying you for your services.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    Her approach might be a bit rough around the edges, but, hey--it worked.

    You really should have gone in for the kill and you're just regretting it, I think. I've done the same.
    Quote Originally Posted by Victoryx0x0 View Post
    Dont be mad at the chick- she did her job well-
    be mad at the dude for wasting your time, water under the bridge, one day you will have a slammin night and "steal" her customer and she will walk out with $20 lol
    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I don't see how she stole your customer. Actually, it sounds like he was her customer.
    um. guys. this girl sat down when bte was sitting with him, if i read it right. and that is not ok.

    see?
    well after a stage set later i go over, he buys me another drink, we talk a bit more. this new girl, whos not cute, kinda trashy and not classy sits down and flat out asks him for a beer!! she then said she owed him a dance (i guess they did 1 1/2 before when i was on stage) so away they go; he says he'll be back for another dance from me.
    that is stealing a customer away and that is wrong.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    Yeah, it doesn't really sound like she "stole" him, or like he was "your customer" to begin with. But you know that already. Chalk it up to experience. If you're planning on asking for a dance, ask within the first ten minutes, at least. Many girls would say within the first five minutes. Then at least you know if you're wasting your time. More time does NOT generally improve your chances of making a sale, and that rule doesn't change on a slow night. Remember, it's not a "slow night" for the customer. If there are no other guys in the place, then he's got a lot of girls competing for his attention; if you can't sell him quickly, some other girls may catch his eye. Sounds like that's what happened in your case.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    I still think it was very uncool what she did! If anything, she could've handled it in a more tactful manner! I'd be f*cking pissed too, but, now you know how she plays her game so, next time, she's fair game as far I'm concerned. I do agree with the other girls there's no such thing as "my customer, her customer, etc." because a customer will spend on who he wants, however, the way she handled wasn't cool at all!

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    this happened to me so many times...same scenario...its because we're not pushy enough. i'm torn, he was kind of your customer, but also kind of not, because you didnt push it, and she did.

    guys don't always want classy, either... so that kills it for many of us right off te bat. they are there LOOKING for the trashy, unempt, rude girl in the torn bikini with her nipples hanging out and drink spilling all over.
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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    um. guys. this girl sat down when bte was sitting with him, if i read it right. and that is not ok.

    see?


    that is stealing a customer away and that is wrong.
    If she had danced 1 1/2 songs for the guy prior to her set she was justified in sitting back down with him. For all we know he wanted her to be there, I mean, he obviously liked her.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    she didn't steal him.

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    she didn't steal him. But, if you would have got a dance you might have stole her custumer... unless you believe "all is fair in love and war"...

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    ACTUALLY she did. i had been sitting with him a long time prior to her coming up. he'd been buying me drinks, and tipping me while i was sitting with him. when we were together he asked me which girls we should go tip @ the stage.

    i was ALREADY sitting there when this girl came up, and flat out asked for a beer. they had not already been talking. i think her approach was very rude, i don't come and interrupt a customer that is already clearly sitting with someone. i HAD to get up to go dance on stage and that's when she got him to do dances. i told him that after i got off stage i'd come back and we could spend some more time 2gether.

    i get that it's the customers choice, and that i didn't ask for lapdances right away. but i was not 'cockblocking'. if you read my original post you can see that i said I had ALREADY been sitting with him for a while. (thanks britt for noticing that!)

    i had spent time with him for a while and was mid conversation when she sat down. that to me is 'stealing/cockblocking.' when i got off stage i could have very well gone in for the kill and gotten dances, etc. yes i prob waited to long; but she knew i had been sitting with him- she said 'the guy you were sitting with...' so she knew.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    the point of my original post was just to point out that i think it's rude and against stripper etiquette to come and interrupt a customer who is already sitting with a dancer, like she did to me. and i think it's rude to brag about all the money you made, especially when you don't even know or are not friends with who you're telling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by betterthaneden View Post
    i get that it's the customers choice, and that i didn't ask for lapdances right away. but i was not 'cockblocking'. if you read my original post you can see that i said I had ALREADY been sitting with him for a while. (thanks britt for noticing that!)
    of course!

    i dont know why im the only person seeing this.. she not only sat down with a customer that was sitting with another girl, she also bragged about money. in ANY other thread you guys would be all over that.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    But you said yourself that you thought they had arranged for her to return (e.g. - "I still owe you a dance."). And really - you can't legitimately ask her to put off dancing for a customer so you can hang out with him for free.

    So yes, it is ultimately rude to interrupt. But, technically, it's also rude to cockblock the other girls from making money by sitting with their paying customers for free or for drinks (and it is kind of hard to see it as anything but "blocking" when he would be buying dances from her except for the fact that you are sitting with him NOT doing or asking for dances). And when a customer is expecting you to come back - well, we can't generally expect customer to 1) know that they have to keep a clear table for you to come back to and 2) to actually say to a girl "Look, you have to go so she'll sit with me." So in such circumstances we interrupt as politely as we can. I would agree with you if there was no prior arrangement, but there was.
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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    I think it's rude to not hustle a guy but sit there so no one else can hustle him either. She obviously waited "a long time" before she came and did the dance she owed him, which is exactly what I would do too - give you a chance to make your sale and move on, but if you aren't going to do either... well, what do you expect?



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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    ^ ooo you guys didnt know.. i forgot.. at that club you have to sell drinks. so it isnt really sitting for free. its sitting for drinks or else you pay out $50.

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    Meh. There's still a cost benefit. He is, at best, here then a "shared" customer. And again - no sane person is going to put off selling blocks of time so someone else can sit for drinks.

    I mean - it sucks. I can see how it would feel sucky and you might be thinking "dammit, if I had made the move - why, why,why didn't I make the move! That is rightfully my money." But I can't really see that the other girl did anything really wrong.
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    well.. not to be argumentative because this isnt my issue, but recently there was a thread started by someone else about this same club and girls coming up to sit with guys that she was sitting with. and everyone said how rude and awful that was and they would never work there. and now everyone is saying the girl did nothing wrong..

    at this club, it is typical for girls to sit for long periods of time. thats just how it is. most girls dont only sit for 5-10 mins. they'll sit and drink since they have to sell drinks, and thats just how it is there.

    i understand that he might not have wanted to spend on her, and thats fine, but i still think it is rude for another girl to come up if someone is sitting with him. if she owed him a dance and had to come over, she should have at least apologized to bte and explained that she needed to finish a dance.

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    Default Re: b*tch stole my customer, then bragged!

    2 sides to every coin.

    WHo kows if this girl knew that bte had been sitting with him for a very long time. She may have thought bte was moving in on "her" customer. Or she may have seen an opportunity and decided to grab it. But obviously they had some history with dances having been done.

    And who knows if this guy told the other girl to come back. I can't count how many times a guy has asked me to come back so some other girl would move on...not saying that's what he did here, but you never know!

    Coming up to him while you were sitting with him, yah, that's pretty brazen. If a custy tells me to come back, and some girl is sitting with him I do the walk by. Make sure he sees me, smile and wave then keep on walking (slowly!). I give him a chance to finish up what they are doing, I try to figure out if they are going to do a dance or not, etc... then I know if I should move on or wait for a minute. That'd be the polite way to do it, I think. But some girls choose a higher income over manners, and I can't say I see anything wrong with that all the time.




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