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    i never want to go out. like, ever. i work every fri/sat night and i dont feel like being social when the chance comes up. i'd rather sit at home and do nothing since i rarely have the chance to do so.

    the girls from my internship are all around my age and i really like them. they asked me to go out friday night. there is no reason why i shouldnt take off ONE friday to go out and have fun but i just dont feel like it.

    i NEED to be social with people, i used to be and now i just dont feel like it.

    so talk me into it

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    Go out. I have a game you can play in a bar. It's a fun mental exercise.

    Everyone gets 10 minutes to look around the room. Then, you go around the table, asking questions like: "How many women with red hair are standing at the bar?" "Is there an "exit" sign visible?" "Is there a cop in here?" In other words, you all try and observe EVERYTHING in detail in the place. The winner is the best observer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i never want to go out. like, ever. i work every fri/sat night and i dont feel like being social when the chance comes up. i'd rather sit at home and do nothing since i rarely have the chance to do so.

    the girls from my internship are all around my age and i really like them. they asked me to go out friday night. there is no reason why i shouldnt take off ONE friday to go out and have fun but i just dont feel like it.

    i NEED to be social with people, i used to be and now i just dont feel like it.

    so talk me into it
    OMG Im just like you - I want to WANT TO go out and meet people and have fun but i always have some excuse not to go.
    At least you get some social contact at work... i dont even get that!

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    Oh man, me too. When I was dancing I never wanted to go out and do social stuff because it always involved a bar or drinking or whatever and I was so sick of that shit from work.

    I have to go to my man's company christmas party and I wish I wanted to go and be stoked about it....but I'm dreading it. The booze and the socializing reminds me too much of work without getting paid for it.

    We should form a club....The Association of Anti-Social Strippers.
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    Girl, you know if I was there, I'd be dragging you out, no excuses. And you know you would go. So just do it, you'll have fun. You can't spend your entire youth working and going to school, ya gotta have some fun too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitty260 View Post

    We should form a club....The Association of Anti-Social Strippers.
    Seriously - but when I do manage to drag my ass out of the house I am always the life of the party. I have such a good time... thats why I dont get why I dont just GO!

    Just GO Britt - go and have a great time - flirt and play and be coy and make it a game to see who can get the most phone numbers and take $0 and make the guys buy you drinks.

    I would go up to a guy out of the blue and ask him to buy me a drink. Whats funny is if he says no (which some jerks do) some other guy would ALWAYS offer - they use it as a pick up line. "That guys an ass - Ill get you a drink." Then id say thanks and just walk away

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    Ahaha im the same. I am the most anti social stripper.

    Lately i've been working at clubs where the staff like to go out after work and they've had to drag me... like seriously drag me. At one club my room mate actually dragged my ass into our room, threw me down and dressed me then drug me out by my wrist lol.

    I mean I wanted to go but I just hate going out. I would rather sit in my room and read SW and take a bubble bath and read a book and talk to my boy and just relax.

    Im slowly coming around though and using my sat night after work or sun to go out and have fun.

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    I shall use your thread for inspiration, as I have no social life outside of the club. But I don't have any excuses, like school or kids or anything. The most social activity I have OTC are lunch dates and then I go home. Then I work. Then that's all. Occasionally a shopping trip or dinner/movie with my boyfriend, but no girls nights out... So to conclude my threadjack, thanks for starting this, I hope it will get me motivated to go out with my friends!

    ETA: Also, I'm just so pathetic, there are after-hours clubs in my town, and tons of girls I work with go, and used to invite me, but I never went, so everyone's stopped trying. It's kind of sad. I really want a social life now..

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Seriously - but when I do manage to drag my ass out of the house I am always the life of the party. I have such a good time... thats why I dont get why I dont just GO!
    That's me to a T. I don't know if I'm just shy or actually AM antisocial. My man doesn't get it; he has to plead with me to go somewhere, like literally DRAG me to a party or something while I'm kicking and screaming, but once I'm there I always have a killer time. I know I'll end up having fun, so why I can't just be stoked about it? It's so frustrating. I've probably missed out on a lot of awesome events because of this crap.

    Britt: Go out. Seriously. Don't be a crappy loser like me.
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    Go out!!! Have fun! You can make money another day.

    I really should do it too.
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    i guess i'll go.. though i have until friday to change my mind.. well really thursday because i have to let them know..

    another thing is im really into routines right now for some reason. i dont know why, i never really used to be that stuck on it.. but i work tues/fri/sat and thats that. i have certain days for certain things and it throws me off when that changes.

    oh, and i forgot to add.. they obviously dont know i dance. and CANT know. theyre really fun girls, but theres no way in hell i'd ever tell them. so thats another thing.. i'd have to make sure to keep it in check. i already avoid questions about work, because when i said i bartend they said they wanted to come see me. so i had to say i dont have a steady job, i just work some weekends at different places to fill in. i totally stumbled over that one, and i'm afraid it might come out somehow. or someone else might see me out.. that could be a mess.
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    yeah, i decided to go. im taking off work.. plus im not driving so im not even going out out.. just dinner and drinks and then prob home because the girl driving me wont want to stay out late.

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    Go out. THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Go out. THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU!!

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    too bad you don't live near me... (err, maybe not now while CA is burning to hell and all... but... you know) 'cause I'd take you drunk bowling and we'd pick up cute boys. it'd be great.

    why don't you suggest a more fun/out of the ordinary activity for the group?

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    ^ i cant, we're going out because one of the girls at my internship is leaving the school. friday is her last day. so she picked the restaurant. its downtown, so the girls wil prob stay out. not me, though, because if i drive no drinking, so another girl is driving me. shes pregnant, haha. so she obviously wont be drinking and prob won't stay past dinner. i'll probably want to stay out but i wont have a way to get home!

    and duh i wish i lived near you.. well really that you lived near me because then you would be safer.. because we would have fun!

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    oh... hmm... OHH!! OH!H!H well then you can smudge ethics just a bit and tell the waitstaff it's Leaving Girl's B-day.... and see what embarrassing routine the restaurant pulls! hehhee that's always fun, right??? You KNOW that'll give you something to look forward to if she's gonna have a look of surprise like none other!!!

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    Well, if it isn't a matter of working and you'd really just be sitting at home, ask yourself what you'd REALLY be doing that evening... Drinking alone and falling asleep in front of the TV? Usually, if I picture what I'd be doing otherwise, it's enough to get me out of the house.
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    ^ i would be working, its a friday.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnie View Post
    Go out!!! Have fun! You can make money another day...
    That's a good point. You get to work for the rest of your life (unless you become a trophy wife ), no need to bog yourself down with that right now. Not to say you should avoid your responsibilities altogether, but while you're still young, do it! I'm gonna do it, too.

    Maybe--I'm just so tired!

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