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    Okay. So I'm a poly girl. No big deal. I'm quite happy. I've been in poly relationships for 98% of the ones I've had, it's how I'm happiest. I don't swing, don't swap - just two girls who love one boy and each other. (That's what seems to work best for me, though I know there are other setups).

    In the past it's never been a problem for me and a Boy to find a third girl. Ever. Living in shitty apartments, financially unstable, not on appropriate meds so my OCD was TERRIBLE, and still always had a girl.

    Now? Got a great big new house, doing WONDERFULLY financially, on my meds, super happy, looking great, and all of a sudden the market just . . . dries up. Poof. Best time in my life and I can't find a girl, but when I'm living on ramen and counting carpet lint I've got two or three lined up.

    Fuck me, dude. I hate being in a mono relationship. I mean, I love the Boy, and won't leave him, but I gotta find a girl soon. This mono crap - man. I don't know how the rest of the world does it.

    Anyhoo, just my vent.

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    The rant of a poly relationship. I had a hard time before finding much wrong with them for people who are in them.

    Maybe if you lay ramen crumbs out and cook up a big batch some hot subbie girl will come running.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    LOL. Seriously.

    Or just get down with the tweezers and organize my carpet lint. That seemed to work before.

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    Confused..I thought you got married to a guy and a girl?
    Did that not work out?

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    what happened to the last girl? The last updates before this seemed so happy!




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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    Okay. So I'm a poly girl. No big deal. I'm quite happy. I've been in poly relationships for 98% of the ones I've had, it's how I'm happiest. I don't swing, don't swap - just two girls who love one boy and each other. (That's what seems to work best for me, though I know there are other setups).

    In the past it's never been a problem for me and a Boy to find a third girl. Ever. Living in shitty apartments, financially unstable, not on appropriate meds so my OCD was TERRIBLE, and still always had a girl.

    Now? Got a great big new house, doing WONDERFULLY financially, on my meds, super happy, looking great, and all of a sudden the market just . . . dries up. Poof. Best time in my life and I can't find a girl, but when I'm living on ramen and counting carpet lint I've got two or three lined up.

    Fuck me, dude. I hate being in a mono relationship. I mean, I love the Boy, and won't leave him, but I gotta find a girl soon. This mono crap - man. I don't know how the rest of the world does it.

    Anyhoo, just my vent.
    Man I feel your pain. the wife and I had no problem years ago finding another woman, but in the last few years it seems no one shares our lifestyle anymore.

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    My wife lives with her husband. I can't be with him anymore. I moved in with my boyfriend and still see my wife daily. The boyfriend and I want a girl to live with us. I need it. I'm not built for mono.

    We should start a disgruntled poly club, blade.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    My wife lives with her husband. I can't be with him anymore. I moved in with my boyfriend and still see my wife daily. The boyfriend and I want a girl to live with us. I need it. I'm not built for mono.

    We should start a disgruntled poly club, blade.
    I'm so down! Of course we would have to all move into a HUGE commune and there would have to be enough women and men to go around, but damn that would be fun!

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    Relationships between two people can be so complicated I can't imagine adding a few more people into the mix.

    Are you finding girls to bring home, but not live with you?
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    Communes are kickass.

    Yeah, girls to bring home abound. But to live with - well, that's harder. I admit I'm picky - we're both very intelligent, we take care of ourselves, stay in shape, etc, and want a significnt other to do the same. So it narrows down.

    We've done it successfully before, but for some reason it all dried up lately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    Communes are kickass.

    Yeah, girls to bring home abound. But to live with - well, that's harder. I admit I'm picky - we're both very intelligent, we take care of ourselves, stay in shape, etc, and want a significnt other to do the same. So it narrows down.

    We've done it successfully before, but for some reason it all dried up lately.
    Ha ha you misspelled significant!I want a girl/woman who can spell significant.
    Actually I'm teasing you cuz of the fact that I are jealous.

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    Might it have something to do with your current relationship's flavor of kink?

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    My friend who was head of Planned Parenthood in Arizona knew a girl and two guys who were in a poly relationship. They went through grad school by having two of them work to pay tuition for the third until they all had graduate degrees. She said the only reason there was never a marriage in this relationship was because the girl could not marry both of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    My friend who was head of Planned Parenthood in Arizona knew a girl and two guys who were in a poly relationship. They went through grad school by having two of them work to pay tuition for the third until they all had graduate degrees. She said the only reason there was never a marriage in this relationship was because the girl could not marry both of them.
    UM:

    That's a touching account of selfless love that is worthy of a book, film or both...

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    How freaking sweet is that?

    And yeah, SS, my kink flavor is a BIIIIGGGG obstacle. However, I'm not sure if you found the other thread, we found one! Hurrah!

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