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    When I took on the Lounge as it's mod, I really wanted to be laid back and NOT a Nazi Mod. I really, really did. I'd much rather comment a lil hint about chilling out, or getting back onto topic or whatever the case may be. It just seems to me that I have to do it EVERY time because some folks just cant quit permanently on the drama. If a thread is about everyone's opinions on something, feel free to post your opinion... but DON'T go and judge someone else based on theirs. It isn't your place to do so. If the OP doesn't blatantly state that they want 21531521852815281 opinions, then don't toss yours into the ring. Really. If someone is being rude to you in a post, report the post. There is no need to help a thread dissolve into dramafest '07.

    I'm really not going to post hints at ceasing in threads anymore. I'm going to start sending warnings. Then it's straight to points. I don't care if you're a mod, a long time member, a platinum member, or Miss Popularity. I really don't care. This crap needs to stop. I'm really sick of seeing people leave this forum due to drama. This place is supposed to be a great, warm, helpful place for dancers and the like. I know the net = drama, but we CAN try to keep it to a minimum, folks.
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    This is a good idea Paige. I know its a pain to do but a lot of us really appreciate your efforts to keep this community peaceful.


    Something funny for you... i am on another forum and i just recently posted stuff and had received unwanted comment and i had accidentally reported myself




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    I agree 100%!!!!

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    *coughs*

    It wasn't me... I didn't do it... okay maybe I did... spank me Paige? *devilish grin*

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    ^^^^can't we all have our turn!??!!




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    Sure!!!

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    I think alot of threads turn so catty is because everyone likes drama. Admit it. It's just a shame that alot of good threads have to get closed because of that, but oh well! I love you as a mod, Paige!

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    Paige, your not a Nazi, your just doing your job, and doing a great job at it! I am sure we all agree with you.

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    Whoa......is another thread turning into a dramafest??? That's only like number 137687287621761234.

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    I posted my resignation more privately. But then that's me.

    But it's so much better when everyone else knows!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm View Post
    I think alot of threads turn so catty is because everyone likes drama. Admit it. It's just a shame that alot of good threads have to get closed because of that, but oh well! I love you as a mod, Paige!
    There have been several people who admitted they have nothing better to do when they get catty. Me? I like a healthy dose of drama every now and then, but when threads turn into flame wars, it's gone too far.

    And Paige you're not a mod nazi, you're just doing you're job and we love you for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    Paige, your not a Nazi, your just doing your job, and doing a great job at it! I am sure we all agree with you.
    Agreed.

    I think that maybe spending so much time together online, has everybody on their period at the same damn time, just like IRL.

    The cat-claws here are really sharp lately.
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    I do not think your a mod nazi Paige. Just wanted to say that.

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    Nah you're no mod nazi, however had Pman taken me up on my offer of making me co mod of the lounge...I sure as fuck would have been super mod nazi.

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    Even I don't think you're a Mod Nazi. And I'm the biggest fucking misanthrope on this site. I've long said the Lounge needs more help solely because there is just too much posted on here for one person.

    I mean, for fuck's sake, Body Business is mostly threads about Tonalin and Boob Jobs! And we have TWO mods!

    Something's rotten in the state of Denmark if that's the case!
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    Question...how do you get to be a mod anyway? Do you ask or just wait to be offered? I mean..hell, I have no life and I'm always on here anyway,so if one is needed I'd be more then happy to help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    exactly, this is about to turn into part#2.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy View Post
    Even I don't think you're a Mod Nazi. And I'm the biggest fucking misanthrope on this site. I've long said the Lounge needs more help solely because there is just too much posted on here for one person.

    I mean, for fuck's sake, Body Business is mostly threads about Tonalin and Boob Jobs! And we have TWO mods!

    Something's rotten in the state of Denmark if that's the case!
    and a section like music mix had 3...go figure

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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJayda View Post
    Agreed.

    I think that maybe spending so much time together online, has everybody on their period at the same damn time, just like IRL.

    The cat-claws here are really sharp lately.
    ahah awesome. ^

    I do admit I like to see some drama sometimes, but I don't make it worse. Although I'm not personally invested in anybody on here so it would be hard for me to become so adamant on a topic directed at a single person. Thats not an excuse when your defense/bash is making a bad situation worse. obviously, Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but everyone is also entitled to others use of self control.

    I respect your decision to take charge and close the thread, I'm sorry it made you feel like a Nazi mod though

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Question...how do you get to be a mod anyway? Do you ask or just wait to be offered? I mean..hell, I have no life and I'm always on here anyway,so if one is needed I'd be more then happy to help.
    A long long time ago in a galaxy far away we had a vote, and everything was good. Fast forward to today... now the mods can suggest someone to be a mod and if Pryce agrees then BAM moderator.
    thats it in a nutshell anyhow.

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    People will create drama intentionally or unintentionally. They'll misconstrue a post and react inappropriately. They'll stir the pot for shits and giggles. It's frustrating b/c sometimes you feel like you're herding cats, or losing in a perpetual game of "whack-a-mole".

    One thing's for sure - you can't control everyone and you can't make everyone happy. Keep a perspective on the big picture - you're doing this because you believe what you do is of value - and that is to keep this forum thriving and healthy.

    Keep that main objective in mind, and please don't sweat the small stuff. Drama is going to happen, no matter what. Some drama is good - it just needs to be moderated enough so that the forum stays healthy.
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    Drama is part of every internet forum, just as much as the useful stuff. It reflects real life. You can control it here more than real life, but I wouldn't worry so much.

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    ^^^What she said! You're doing great MissHottie!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade View Post
    A long long time ago in a galaxy far away we had a vote, and everything was good. Fast forward to today... now the mods can suggest someone to be a mod and if Pryce agrees then BAM moderator.
    thats it in a nutshell anyhow.
    Basically it's a sorority now.

    But the clothes aren't as nice.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

    Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham


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