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    So about a month ago, we get this new chick. Nineteen, never danced before in her life, scared as hell. Cute little blond. So the first night she is there, a lot of the girls show her how to do a stage set, some basic tricks and moves, etc. She does well for a couple days with very few hitches.

    As time goes on, she's wormed her way into everyone's shitlist, even mine, which is tough to get on. Her lies about her family, her love life, her drama, her 'privilege'. She pissed off the DJ by demanding a song he didn't have, and when he didn't play it, not tipping him. Taking forever to get off stage because she takes her money out of her garter and throws it in a pile at the back to the stage, then a couple times expected another dancer to count and face it. (Dancer told her she'd skim a service charge off of it, so Newb did it herself. Horrors!) But her offenses have ramped up considerably.

    She's started dropping in on tables that already have a dancer or two sitting at them and redirection conversation to herself. She has asked customers to buy her alcoholic drinks (even though she's underage). She has talked yards of drama about her excessive drinking at home and thoughts of suicide but she doesn't want help because she doesn't need it. (Bullshit.) Calling girls with seniority bitches to their face and in private. Refusing to get naked (in a nude club) because she didn't feel like it. And to top it off...

    A coworker of mine was on stage on a slow day, and a couple guys from the table Newb was sitting at get up and walk over to watch, and Coworker's stage show is pretty impressive. As Coworker starts dancing for these guys, Newb walks up to the guys and asks, as if Coworker's ears were made of cloth, "Why are you tipping HER?" She then takes them away from the stage back to the table, even though she never did get lapdances from them. Coworker was about to kill her, and this reason alone would have been grounds to fire her on the spot, but it turns out she's fucking the owner, and the GM is hesitant to do something about her right away.

    Owner finds out about this shit and is PISSED. He gave a couple of our senior girls to go-ahead to beat some common sense into her if she doesn't wise up. I'm not sure what to do about her in the meantime. Verbal threats are lost on her.

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    If words are lost on her, and management doesn't want to do anything about it surely there is some sort of club justice that can be doled out rather than getting violent with this girl....getting caught flushing her makeup down the toilet won't get you into the trouble that beating the shit out of her will.
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    Do people actually beat the shit out of people IRL? It's something you hear talked about hypothetically, but I can't really envision it actually happening. And I've worked in a lot of clubs.

    Edited to say: If anyone laid a finger on me I would have them arrested so fast their head would spin. And then I'd press charges. Of course, I'm not an annoying co-worker, but that is how I would handle violence. I was taught that a lady doesn't fight, and I believe that still.
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    ^^^I've only ever seen it happen in this sort of context once, and it was well deserved by the recipient. That being said, it isn't necessarily the best way to solve the problem regardless of how great the thought of it might make everyone else in the club feel. It sucks to be petty and juvenile (i.e. pouring super glue on her things, etc.) but it's a common occurence in this business....crappy though it may sound, some girls just need to be run out in order to keep the rest of the club flowing along smoothly and without incident.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Do people actually beat the shit out of people IRL? It's something you hear talked about hypothetically, but I can't really envision it actually happening. And I've worked in a lot of clubs.
    Hell yes they do!!! Ive seen a few girl fights - Oh man - some MEAN fights. I was in one but it wasnt too bad... she grabbed a curling iron

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Hell yes they do!!! Ive seen a few girl fights - Oh man - some MEAN fights. I was in one but it wasnt too bad... she grabbed a curling iron

    I've seen girls get into scuffles, but never anything that I would characterize as "beating the shit" out of someone. Again, I can't imagine participating in something like that, it's such a stereotypical stripper-trash way to behave. And I just hate when strippers have to act stereotypical, it gives the rest of us a bad name.

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    it happens IRL. Not a mu club but at another in town recently. A regular at the local bars, this guy with MS is in and a dancer asks him for a LD. When he declines she calls, I've heard it was either retard o fag, and another dancer proceeds to beat her ass. She deserved it IMO.

    As to the OP, if the owner gave the go ahead to the senior girls, have it at. But it may not work since the guy fucking her has left it up to the girls to take care if. If anything it'll make ya'll feel better to see her get her ass handed to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I've seen girls get into scuffles, but never anything that I would characterize as "beating the shit" out of someone. Again, I can't imagine participating in something like that, it's such a stereotypical stripper-trash way to behave.
    Seen many a scuffle over the years - screaming chasing whatever. Saw a few real FIGHTS - I mean punching, blood the whole 9 yards. They never last long, a minute or 2 but I worked at Clue De Ghetto in sacramento And Body Shop is the only place Ive seen real fights...

    I personally wouldnt want to hit someone (even if they hit me first) Id call cops and press charges (like someone else mentioned) Im a lover not a fighter.

    But back to the OP - just ignore her. If everyone ignores her she'll either shape up or ship out. Dont get violent - has anyone talked to her about this yet. You can try to be the nice guy and explain the problem. If THAT doesnt work get all the veterans to gang up on her and MAKE her listen. <--- Ive seen this work wonders with girls. Thing with girls is typically if they feel threatened theres no need for actual violence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Do people actually beat the shit out of people IRL? It's something you hear talked about hypothetically, but I can't really envision it actually happening. And I've worked in a lot of clubs.

    Edited to say: If anyone laid a finger on me I would have them arrested so fast their head would spin. And then I'd press charges. Of course, I'm not an annoying co-worker, but that is how I would handle violence. I was taught that a lady doesn't fight, and I believe that still.

    Your serious about the no fighting? Amusing - I hate to use this example but it's like the military, when one screws up over something stupid - we all pay.

    Some individuals are so dense the only way they get it is with a good beating.

    I'm glad that you have never had to witness such events, but to think it doesn't happen is naive at best.

    There are a lot of old school ladies out there that believe "chatting" in the bathroom is the best way to handle a difficult co-worker.

    ( sorry for the thread jack )

    To the OP: Have you tried talking to this young girl? Yes she's new and all, but if she does not know her behavior is unacceptable - your not giving her the chance to make it right.

    If you talk to her first and management is still unwilling to take action, your vindicated. I've talked to my manager about difficult to work with individuals and told them " If you wont handle this. I will."

    Then again I have no idea of your club situation and how that would work.

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    Yeah i've seen quite a few knock-down-drag-out-bouncers-have-to-pull-them-apart cat fights in the dressing room o ver the years.

    I've never actually been IN one..but if someone laid a finger on me...you'd better believe they'd be DAMN bloody by the time I was done with them. I believe anyone has the right to defend themselves as necessary...lady or not.

    OP..if the owner has ordered her ass beat...feel free to do what needs to be done. Not necessarily that, but if her stuff were to disappear every night or get destroyed..maybe she'll take the hint and go.

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    Oh it happens! No person however has the right to lay hands on another, ever.

    The owner of the club gave very bad advice....just starve her ass out, that can be done, if you ladies gang up onher that way....Don't touch her, you will go to jail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow2 View Post
    I'm glad that you have never had to witness such events, but to think it doesn't happen is naive at best.
    Like I said, I've seen scuffles, but never a bloody beatdown. And I'm not denying that it happens, nor am I naive. But I will never get my head around sacrificing your job and risking going to jail just to beat up on someone, not to mention risking getting your own ass beaten.

    Any club I've worked in, fighting is grounds for termination. There have been many times at my current club that I think girls would have gotten physical if not for fear of losing their job. And that's how it should be.

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    ok, either beat her ass in the parking lot....or destroy her stuff....one is easier....

    i know it's childish, but she is a child, and will receive what she dishes out.....then talk down to her and treat her like a child.....

    ....my advice, set her clothes and shoes on fire....it always gets the point across.....or leave a horse's head in the bed while she's sleeping....but maybe that's just for gangsters!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hippiegirl View Post
    ....or leave a horse's head in the bed while she's sleeping....but maybe that's just for gangsters!

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    This biatch sounds just like the one I had a thread in about the one taking up space in the row I get ready in. Who the f*ck do these newbies think they are coming in and thinking they effin rule the roost? When I was new and wasn't young (30) I was and still am very considerate of others. Something needs to be done, just what it is, I don't know but something has to be done to her! Now, beating her ass sounds great, however, you can get into serious trouble w/ the law and frankly, she's not worth going to jail over! I saw be catty bitches and take her shit, throw it away, soak her panties in a shit filled toilet or better yet, her head in a shit filled toilet!!!! Ok, maybe that's excessive, but something needs to be done. Maybe if all you ladies just gang up on her and talk trash to her that'll get the point across! She can't keep getting away with this!!!!
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    beat her ass, its what we do in my club.

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    I've tried talking to her in a very ABC's way. "What you just did there to that girl and her customer is called cut-throating. It is when you are deliberately deceitful in order to take a customer from a dancer so you may get dances. It is not allowed. If you are to approach a customer, go ahead if he is alone. But do not approach customers that have, say, a dancer's drink and bag, or if he is at the stage." She nods her head, but got caught doing it again not an hour later.

    My boss didn't say "Beat her ass." He told a couple of the senior girls to take her case into their hands. To straighten her out. The managers have fined her multiple times but she's willing to eat the losses if it brings in a better cash flow. I apologize I did not word my OP better.

    Delyla, my club is in Morgantown...I wonder if it's a DubV thing? x.x;

    I went in the other night on my off night to knock back a couple drinks with a good friends of mine, and I caught wind of a gang-up on Newbie in the dressing room. There were a lot of 'on no uncertain terms' and 'heart to hearts' that if she honestly ignores, I can't say I have sympathy for her.

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    Sounds like she's pissing off a lot of girls. If so, she'll get what's coming to her and sounds like she rightfully deserves it! Tell us in another thread when she comes down, I HATE bitches like that!!! Yes, we're all there to make money but there's a right way & a wrong way to do it. The way she's doing it is so uncool! Sounds like too that she's such an idiot that she knows no other way how to make money except to cut throat in the worst way!!! Can't wait till she comes down hard!!!
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    I've tried talking to her in a very ABC's way. "What you just did there to that girl and her customer is called cut-throating. It is when you are deliberately deceitful in order to take a customer from a dancer so you may get dances. It is not allowed. If you are to approach a customer, go ahead if he is alone. But do not approach customers that have, say, a dancer's drink and bag, or if he is at the stage." She nods her head, but got caught doing it again not an hour later.

    My boss didn't say "Beat her ass." He told a couple of the senior girls to take her case into their hands. To straighten her out. The managers have fined her multiple times but she's willing to eat the losses if it brings in a better cash flow. I apologize I did not word my OP better.

    Delyla, my club is in Morgantown...I wonder if it's a DubV thing? x.x;

    I went in the other night on my off night to knock back a couple drinks with a good friends of mine, and I caught wind of a gang-up on Newbie in the dressing room. There were a lot of 'on no uncertain terms' and 'heart to hearts' that if she honestly ignores, I can't say I have sympathy for her.

    Well then, it's time for some other sort of action - super gluing her lock shut, cutting off the heels on her shoes. Cat pee in the locker.. Dead bugs.

    I've seen this and more.. so.

    Some strippers or so called strippers are just plain out stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Do people actually beat the shit out of people IRL? It's something you hear talked about hypothetically, but I can't really envision it actually happening. And I've worked in a lot of clubs.

    Edited to say: If anyone laid a finger on me I would have them arrested so fast their head would spin. And then I'd press charges. Of course, I'm not an annoying co-worker, but that is how I would handle violence. I was taught that a lady doesn't fight, and I believe that still.
    I had a girl on meth beat me up once when I was trying to get her to stop picking on a girl much smaller than her. She broke my nose. When the cops showed up, they wouldn't arrest her, and they never followed up on me trying to press charges. Cops don't care about strippers

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    Id have to refrain myself from beating her ass every night.... i dont think she is ever going to learn nicely, and wow shes banging the owner, thats wonderful business ethics for you, sounds like this young buck that lasted 2 months at my club but my manager fired her with the swiftness. She actually had the AUDACITY to slap a customer across his face while I was talking to him, and this was because he was talking to ME. lol

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    Guess i'm kinda confuesd about all this talk. You ladies seem like excellent dancers....just knock her out of game, with your game.

    A customer can not be taken unless he choses to be taken!!! She's hustling alright....Hustle back.

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    Nah it sounds like the way she actin can chase away good customers... talking about suicidal thoughts to customers is not cool. then being disrespectful to the dj,. she sounds like an annoying nuisance. And to top it all off she is Fkn the owner which is job security to her- she knows this and will continue to act how she wants- thats not game- thats trifiling and bad for business. I would have got her face because she needs to be put her in her place. just how i did with the young buck at my spot (who started STEALING stuff from other dancers). Your being too nice Strawberry - mention to management that she is drinking underage and that is a NICE lil fine they will have to pay if she gets caught. Ha, let her do that cuthroat shit to the wrong dancer... she will learn one day

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Do people actually beat the shit out of people IRL?
    i've never taken part in a dressing room beating, but they happen. the lights get turned out and the girls take thier turn with the girl in trouble, usually an extras girl. what's gross is seeing the girl's face after a few stilettos have smashed into it.

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    new girls seem to be coming in with more and more attitude these days. it's up to us to set the bar, keep it raised and don't allow the shit to infiltrate the club. step on this attitude as soon as you can with all the girls together and make sure an example is set of her as a warning to others.
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