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    Darcy Foxx
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    Last night, after a discussion at work, it was brought to my attention that I am an EXTREMELY calm and mellow person.

    One of my workmates was screaming abuse at her boyfriend over the phone. Another was talking about how she had kicked a hole in her boyfriend's kitchen wall during an argument. A few nights ago, another girl was screaming into her phone at her boyfriend and throwing chairs around the room. At some point or another, I have seen almost all of my close workmates throwing a huge tantrum, complete with screaming and kicking and throwing things.

    I've never thrown a tantrum in my life. I've never thrown something in anger, I've never even really yelled at anyone, let alone screamed at them. I've never kicked or punched or broken anything during an argument, I've never even really had a heated argument with anyone. I've never yelled at a boyfriend or even had a fight with one at all. I've never been in a physical fight.

    When people yell at me or try to start shit, I either just go silent or talk rationally and calmly. If it's really upset me, I will cry about it privately afterwards. But I'm just not an angry person.

    What about you? Are you an angry person, or are you completely calm, or somewhere in between?

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    Very calm most of the time ......

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    Exceedingly calm too, however I can stand up for myself very well and there have been rare occasions where I am 10 feet tall, six feet wide and very scarey! Generally though there is no need for scenes and drama, I dont get it.

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    angry. Im the girl throwing chairs and breaking her own shit lol. you've never had a physical fight ever?!

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    I'm so angry on the inside but sickeningly calm on the outside.

    Ask Blade.



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    i'm more angry than calm.

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    Im a very heated person.... but I keep it private. In public if im pissed i'll just storm away or if its on the phone hang up.

    Once im in private though i'll throw shit around, but never at anyone.

    I just get so pissed off my stomach starts to turn and my chest gets tight and I just want to explode.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post
    angry. Im the girl throwing chairs and breaking her own shit lol. you've never had a physical fight ever?!
    No... nothing even close to a physical fight.

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    I've never been in a physical fight either.

    I'm a very calm person, with an extremly long fuse...but once it reaches the end, I blow up and it is spectacular.
    It is very very rare for me to get pushed that far tho.

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    Angry. But I save it for private,

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    im angry, and i know it.

    heh even today, i wanted to buy a beauty product from myers, i walked around the beaity department looking for a counter to pay at, nothing, all the staff were standing there looking vacant or busy cutting up random bit of paper. i had to go to the shoe department to pay for my item. there was only 3 people in front of me in the que, fuck knows what the bitchs were doing, but it took well over 15 monutes of standing there to get served...i was getting livid. once it was my turn i started screaming how shit they are for service....lol... i was *this* close to throwing the stupid product on the floor and walking out...except it was the last one and i really wanted it.

    i always scream and make a drama to retail people,it makes me look like a bitch in public, but they fustrate the hell out of me with their slowness...same with fucktards who walk slowly on the pavement or in malls, while walking 3or more abrest. argh!!

    lol

    yep. im an angry fighter. havent thrown anything, or broken anything, but wanted to...many times.

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    I have a really bad temper. I've gotten a lot better at controlling it, though, thanks to the help of modern medicine.



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    im an angry person i suppose.....i yell a lot but never throw anything (except my phone) never gotten into a physical fight in my life though!

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    Essentially mellow.

    In fact, my license plate is "CALMER"...

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    I'm angry, I guess. I can't say that I have never yelled at someone in the store or on the phone(customer service for credit cards!!!). I am not a fighter but for some reason in High School I did get into a few fights, they all started them with me! HMM

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    Quote Originally Posted by hardkandee View Post
    I'm so angry on the inside but sickeningly calm on the outside.
    Same here.

    Then there are those occasional moments where I can no longer bottle up my pent-up anger and all hell breaks loose. And then it's back to being calm again...


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    I am so calm and mellow. I am totally zen most of the time. I don't really get into arguments, and I never get into fights. If I do anything aggressive, its definitely passive aggressive!

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    In my personal life, I guess I'm an angry person, but I prefer to call it passionate. It's not like I go around starting fights for no reason, I have to feel abused or slighted in some way. I think just feel too much.

    But in my professional life, I am the calm troubleshooter. Oh well, at least I have some balance!

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    Calm. I'm one of those people that makes everyone around me calm in a crisis too.

    It takes a lot to make me really mad, but when I do... well, I don't throw things, but I don't ever forget. People also sometimes say they're afraid what would happen if I got mad, which I don't get, cause I'm really un-mad.



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    I would say I am an angry person too. But I do have a long fuse so there is plenty of warning before the big explosion LOL
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    Calm, although on occasion I have let loose.

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    I am a calm person but i am also a blunt person




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    Angry no physical fights but have kicked a few holes in the wall or broken some shit. But I haven't did anything to anyone too scared of what I might do if I got physical I am pretty strong chick.

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    I have a VERY hot quick Irish temper...it's taken me years to get it under control.

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    Both. But with being calm dominating my emotions. I will let lose at times, and i think that's healthy. I don't throw things or fight people.

    Someone always has to start on me first/piss me off. I never start with anyone.

    Wasn't that way years ago! I have come along way

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