Last night, after a discussion at work, it was brought to my attention that I am an EXTREMELY calm and mellow person.
One of my workmates was screaming abuse at her boyfriend over the phone. Another was talking about how she had kicked a hole in her boyfriend's kitchen wall during an argument. A few nights ago, another girl was screaming into her phone at her boyfriend and throwing chairs around the room. At some point or another, I have seen almost all of my close workmates throwing a huge tantrum, complete with screaming and kicking and throwing things.
I've never thrown a tantrum in my life. I've never thrown something in anger, I've never even really yelled at anyone, let alone screamed at them. I've never kicked or punched or broken anything during an argument, I've never even really had a heated argument with anyone. I've never yelled at a boyfriend or even had a fight with one at all. I've never been in a physical fight.
When people yell at me or try to start shit, I either just go silent or talk rationally and calmly. If it's really upset me, I will cry about it privately afterwards. But I'm just not an angry person.
What about you? Are you an angry person, or are you completely calm, or somewhere in between?


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