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    I'm thinking of getting breast implants, I'm a 34C and I just want that perfect shape so it's not that too much of a difference, However my man is constantly on my ass saying "Oh if you get I won't respect you as much...I"m going to look at you like an object..."

    So here's the hypocritical part all the fucken porn he looks at are all bitches with implants WTF??? So you can look and jack off to fake tits but I can't get them? His excuse...I don't care about them but I love you.

    Oh please...

    Besides this is something for me, just hurts that he's not supportive.

    Don't you guys hate it when men do that double standard they'll drool and ogle at a woman but when you want to dress that way all of a sudden they have a stick up their ass.

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    yeah sux. I think most of the time, they're scared that you'll be too hot (not that you're not hot now) for them.

    They feel insecure, and are worried that you'll leave them in the dust once you've upgraded your boobs.

    Can't say I haven't seen that happen though, lol

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    He sounds like an asshole. If he loves and respects you that shouldn't change because you get breast augmentation. If he disrespects you for that I'd wonder if I ever had his respect in the first place. Sounds like he has his own insecurities.

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    Maybe he is trying to say he is in love with you just the way you are and getting an enlargment would change the person he knows and loves !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dusterpilot View Post
    Maybe he is trying to say he is in love with you just the way you are and getting an enlargment would change the person he knows and loves !

    Now there is a close-minded way of thinking. "Don't ever change. I'll lose all respect for you."

    That's called entrapment.

    People grow, and part of that vicious reality is the fact that they may grow completely different from what their partners are familiar with. Some (myself) look at it as a guarantee that the relationship stays fresh and always offering a chase, others look at it as the first sign of being left behind.

    Anyways, granted, there are a million and one ways he could go about this. I can definitely respect the fact that he doesn't want you to get the job. He can register his complaint and still be supportive about it. This supports your individuality. However, he's acting like he's challenged which generally means he's growing comfortable (familiarity breeds contempt) and doesn't want things to change.

    I say, be playful. Ask him why he doesn't look at you like an object already? Hell, I'm all for being treated like a man, but one thing is for certain, at times... I want to be an object. The only thing a person hates more than being a sex object, is NOT being a sex object.

    If you meet this playfully, and cannot provide some comfort that you're doing this or you and not him, then take it how you want from there.

    Hell if there where pec implants, I'd be allllll over em.
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    [quote=Mastridonicus;1261607] Hell, I'm all for being treated like a man, but one thing is for certain, at times... I want to be an object. The only thing a person hates more than being a sex object, is NOT being a sex object. quote]

    Jeez , man that is one hell of a quote ! I like the shit out of that......

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    I think you are seeing something which is a reality about men... sometimes the women they perceive as good long-term relationship partners (e.g., potentially good mothers, long term lovers, financial mates, etc.) don't always align with women they perceive as short-term sex partners.

    But really, I see women do this too sometimes, at least I think so. I'm just being honest, but it does seem to me that women are commonly attracted to the bad-boy type sexually, but a much more safe/kind type for long term relationships. No? Well I think so anyway. Anyway, maybe he associates the fake boobs with one type while he sees you more as the long-term type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    I think you are seeing something which is a reality about men... sometimes the women they perceive as good long-term relationship partners (e.g., potentially good mothers, long term lovers, financial mates, etc.) don't always align with women they perceive as short-term sex partners.

    But really, I see women do this too sometimes, at least I think so. I'm just being honest, but it does seem to me that women are commonly attracted to the bad-boy type sexually, but a much more safe/kind type for long term relationships. No? Well I think so anyway. Anyway, maybe he associates the fake boobs with one type while he sees you more as the long-term type.
    All this is true. But once you commit, it's about whether you can grow with the person or not while maintaining respect for their choices.

    Anyway, maybe he associates the fake boobs with one type while he sees you more as the long-term type.
    Though this says he's challenged by change, (it is the same thing) it's not necessarily bad. She just has to approach the rudeness of how he got the fact that he was challenged by it across with some humor and alleviate it. Then future occurrences wont be as detrimental.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    All this is true. But once you commit, it's about whether you can grow with the person or not while maintaining respect for their choices.


    Though this says he's challenged by change, (it is the same thing) it's not necessarily bad. She just has to approach the rudeness of how he got the fact that he was challenged by it across with some humor and alleviate it. Then future occurrences wont be as detrimental.
    I agree with what you are saying Mat. I was just pointing out that the apparent hypocritical behavior is fairly common, and women do it too in their own way. There is a method behind the apparent madness.

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    If breast augmentation will cause him to lose his respect for you, then you never had his respect in the first place. I hope your surgery gives you the confidence you need to demand better and move on.

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    Gah. He needs to get over his madonna/whore complex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    He sounds like an asshole. If he loves and respects you that shouldn't change because you get breast augmentation. If he disrespects you for that I'd wonder if I ever had his respect in the first place. Sounds like he has his own insecurities.
    I think this is a perfect response.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    The only thing a person hates more than being a sex object, is NOT being a sex object.
    Stealin' it.

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    If breast augmentation will cause him to lose his respect for you, then you never had his respect in the first place. I hope your surgery gives you the confidence you need to demand better and move on.
    Another perfect response.
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    He sounds a little insecure. Maybe reassure him it's something YOU want to do... for YOURSELF, and that it's a physical change of one aspect of your body, not a complete inside-and-out makeover. Oh, and that as soon as you have them, no matter how many more guys drool over you, you won't be swayed away because suddenly you're too hot for him. Though I'd guess that if you got them, he'd end up loving them anyway.

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    Reminds me of my friend who won't let his wife suck his dick("That's beneath a wife") but cheats on her to get blown.

    If this is how he reacts to you getting breast implants, imagine how he would react if you were getting a sex change.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Reminds me of my friend who won't let his wife suck his dick("That's beneath a wife") but cheats on her to get blown.
    Funny you mentioned that. I was just talking to one of my friends and he was saying that alot guys cheat on their ladies because they assume she's a nice girl and won't be into anything outside of missionary.

    Dumbasses.
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    A lot of women are like that, unfortunately.

    And sadly, the cliche about sex dying after the wedding cake is sliced is a cliche for a reason.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    And sadly, the cliche about sex dying after the wedding cake is sliced is a cliche for a reason.

    ^^^That's material for a thread of it's own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Reminds me of my friend who won't let his wife suck his dick("That's beneath a wife") but cheats on her to get blown.

    If this is how he reacts to you getting breast implants, imagine how he would react if you were getting a sex change.
    I remember Tony Soprano saying that in one of the earlier seasons, it was something along the lines of "she kisses my children goodnight with that mouth" LOL.

    To the OP:

    Seriously the reason he doesn't want u to get them (in my humble opinion) is because he is insecure and worried that if you get them you will get hit on by other guys more and he will worry that you will leave him.

    If he is serious that he will view you as an object just because your breasts are bigger then you need to leave him because that's incredibly shallow and immature.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    Gah. He needs to get over his madonna/whore complex.
    Here here! Healthy women like sex! Being sexier should be a plus. And respect should be based on far richer things than breast size. Pretty dumb.
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    [quote=Dusterpilot;1261610]
    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    Hell, I'm all for being treated like a man, but one thing is for certain, at times... I want to be an object. The only thing a person hates more than being a sex object, is NOT being a sex object. quote]

    Jeez , man that is one hell of a quote ! I like the shit out of that......
    Ditto I like that one

    To the OP: bloody dumb ass narrow minded men, they annoy me too
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t View Post
    Reminds me of my friend who won't let his wife suck his dick("That's beneath a wife") but cheats on her to get blown.
    OMFG people like this exist? Wait and your friends with him? Why do men think sex is dirty? they are getting worse than girls!
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    Thanks you guys for all your support and many of you are right if he doesn't respect me after then the respect wasn't there in the first place, if he can't accept me for me...

    I'll simply move on


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    Hell if there where pec implants, I'd be allllll over em.
    By the way there are pec implants I believe the wrestler "The Rock" got them

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    Madonna/whore complexes are gross in men or women, and very common in men.

    I loved when my ex got implants. I even played nursemaid. If you do decide to get them hopefully he'll come around.

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    Umm... maybe it's just me, but if a boyfriend/s.o. EVER said anything along the lines of "do _____ this physical alteration and i'll lose respect for you" I'd dump his ass right away. No posting, no thinking, just dumping. I honestly don't see why you're even giving it thought. Are you truly willing to be with a man that shallow, that insecure, and that much of a dickhead? A man who'll put YOU down when he needs to confirm his own masculinity through his girl's physicality and how much of it she portrays towards he rest of the world vs. keeps for him only? It's not saudi fucking arabia, you can show off the fact that you're an attractive female without repercussions.

    Deep-rooted insecurity issues, especially those that manifest themselves in a chaivinistic "property management complex" are WAY too hard to change... unless this guy actually sees why his viewpoint is super-problematic, he needs to go.

    (you know, IMHO and all...)
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    I'd tell him to go fuck himself.

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