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    The laws in my area allow nudity and lap dances that involve touching the breasts of the girls but nothing below the waist. The club I am going to allows touching but I've been told that many of the girls have a no touching approach to dancing. I want to do the same. How can I make sure guys don't touch me without seeming like a prude or undesirable? I still wanna do dances and make money.

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    Search the Hustle Hut for lots of advice on this -- but if a lot of the other dancers don't allow touching it won't be as difficult as you think.

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    Default Re: No Touching

    ^ i agree.

    but if the girls did the opposite, it would be harder for you to get away with no touching.

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    Very true. It's better to find a club where the contact level is in your comfort zone than try to enforce a different standard than the norm.

    Also, it's good for you to decide in advance what you are and aren't comfortable with. Then, practice what you'd say with a handsy customer. Be nice but firm, and really mean what you're saying. If you have this in your head already it will be more natural to say it at work and be taken seriously. Or be obeyed, heh.

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    I used to think that if I enforced my boundaries ALL customers would AUTOMATICALLY stop buying dances from me. Certainly, that does happen some of the time. (Good riddance, honestly.) But over time, I've learned that not all customers mind being told no, if you do it right.

    Say no BEFORE you get mad. Different clubs have different rules and some customers are honestly confused. Remind them what the club rules are, in a nice way, as soon as they get out of line. Don't let them keep going to point where you get upset. If you sound angry or upset, they're more likely to take what you say in a negative way, or may be too embarrassed to keep buying dances.

    If they KNOW the club rules but are breaking them, or do something I have told them not to do, I take their hands and make eye contact with them and say "You know you're not allowed to do that." This usually stops them dead because it's true...they do know.

    The stickiest situation for me is if a guy has bought a block of time in one of the rooms and once we get back there he's clearly expecting more than I want to give him. I say: "Listen, I want you to have a good time and I'm going to give you good dances. But there are some things I don't do." And say what those are. I think it does reassure guys if I tell them that I want to give them a good time. Most guys will accept my limits at that point. (If you say it in an especially sweet and sincere way, you may even get a guilt-tip from them later.)

    Some customers are looking for high mileage and nothing will deter them. Others may actually respect you for having personal limits. I have at least one regular customer who totally fell for me AFTER I told him he couldn't touch my kitty.

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    I think you should be straight up. Sometimes the bitch approach is not so bad, you could tell them to behave or to pay A LOT of money where you can feel it was worth it, or if you're too uncomfortable switch clubs. If you want to stick to this one club, try to find customers that won't make you feel weird if you let them touch you (It would be easier for me if it was a girl or a super super hot guy-rather than a fat old fart, hehe).

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    The laws in my area allow nudity and lap dances that involve touching the breasts of the girls but nothing below the waist. The club I am going to allows touching but I've been told that many of the girls have a no touching approach to dancing. I want to do the same. How can I make sure guys don't touch me without seeming like a prude or undesirable? I still wanna do dances and make money.
    Hahahahhaha. Such a long way I have come since then =oD

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