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    Angry Waitress chased away $1500

    When I was working last night, some low tier NASCAR driver and his brothers were at my club. I saw his ID, it was him. He and his brothers were pretty tipsy, but anxious to go back to VIP. They picked me and a pretty friend of mine to go to VIP, and asked us to find another. We did, and we were ready to go.

    We got back to the room, and the guy who was paying had left his ID and card at one of the bars in the club. Instead of going and getting it, the waitress dragged the guy out of the room to go get it. It was at the bar, but for some reason, the waitress LEFT him there to go serve someone else drinks!

    Finally, we're back on the room, and the waitress ran his card. It was declined. Sometimes the machine at our club declines perfectly good cards for no reason. The waitress was SO NASTY in explaining what happened that she chased away three guys willing to spend $500 each! One of the other brothers would have happily given over his card to pay if she had been nicer to them.

    This is a direct quote:
    Younger brother "You know, for as much money as we've spent, you'd think you'd treat us a little better"
    Bitchy Waitress "You haven't spent a dime!"
    YB "We've been spending all night!"
    BW "Yea, well, your card was declined. I haven't seen any of it"

    They were a lost cause after that. The waitress offended them so much that they left. She treated them incredibly poorly, talked to them like they were stupid, and basically took $500 each from 3 girls. Who knows? Maybe they would have stayed 2 or 3 hours.

    OMFG!!! At my club, dancers have to put pressure on the guys to tip the bouncers, waitresses, funny money girl - everybody. We look less attractive to these guys because we have to squeeze so much money out of them. Not only that, but our tip out can be as high as $90 and we are expected to tip 10% of that to the DJ. Even if he never puts us onstage and we're busting our asses in VIP all night, he expects 10%. We lose so much of earnings to keep these people paid, and they don't give a shit. If we weren't there, they wouldn't have jobs! The waitresses EXPECT to be tipped 20% of what the guys spend in VIP. So if he pays me $500 for an hour, $60 for the room, and $40 on drinks, she expects $120, just for bringing drinks! If you want to make stripper money, take your clothes off and shake your ass like we do.

    I'm just so blown away that she forgot that even though this is a strip club, you have to treat customers with respect if they're acting respectfully. These guys were perfectly nice. Maybe they were a little drunk and loud, so what? Guys can be boisterous when they're having fun. Maybe they didn't understand what was going on so someone needed to nicely explain it to them.

    I calmly told her later that I didn't think she handled the situation well and that she was unprofessional. She didn't agree.

    UGH! Just had to rant.

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    ugh. That sucks. It never ceases to amaze me by the lack of customer service skills people have these days.
    Would have been so hard for that waitress to say, " I'm so sorry, your card was declined. Our machines can act up, so I'll try to run it a second time, but do you have annother I could try to run?"

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    i know where i WONT be working when i move to atlanta. no way will i work at a place where everyone is so greedy and rude. if i have to work second tier club so be it.
    that really sucks sorry.

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    Well, at least now you won't be tipping her ever again, right?

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    I hope you told management. Most would never stand for such behavior.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    The waitresses EXPECT to be tipped 20% of what the guys spend in VIP. So if he pays me $500 for an hour, $60 for the room, and $40 on drinks, she expects $120, just for bringing drinks! If you want to make stripper money, take your clothes off and shake your ass like we do.
    I recently posted about this too - and the waitress didnt bring drinks to VIP. The host gets VIP drinks. She got 4 drinks before we went to VIP and wanted a huge tip on the VIP tab. Excuse me?! Even if she did bring drinks no way shes getting that much - I dont even have the guys tip that much to the host! I have the custy tip host 10% and Ill tip another 10% - waitress gets 20% OF DRINK TAB not my freakin VIP tab. Get real.....

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    What a dumb skank. Please tell mgmt. she needs to be punished for being so rude.
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    Lame. I don't get why waitresses should get any more than 5% of my earnings... Their job is EASY. Their job is way easier than working in a regular restaurant, and they earn more! They get tips from the customers and don't have to take their shit. I hate this whole tipping out everyone who works in the damn club -- I'm the one taking off my clothes and seducing the customers, not them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    ugh. That sucks. It never ceases to amaze me by the lack of customer service skills people have these days.
    Would have been so hard for that waitress to say, " I'm so sorry, your card was declined. Our machines can act up, so I'll try to run it a second time, but do you have annother I could try to run?"

    I couldn't agree with you more..It's too bad, she didn't use her mouth to make herself a nice tip instead of running them out the door.

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    What really sucks is that a part of your earnings are in the hands of twats like this. You could be totally gorgeous, gracious and accommodating and WHAM, Ms. Cunty McDouchebag ruins it for you.

    I hope you get to return the favor someday.

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    thats a shame... sorry to hear that... wud def tell management...i wouldnt tip her SHIT from now on, is their other waitress's?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Not only that, but our tip out can be as high as $90 and we are expected to tip 10% of that to the DJ. Even if he never puts us onstage and we're busting our asses in VIP all night, he expects 10%. We lose so much of earnings to keep these people paid, and they don't give a shit. If we weren't there, they wouldn't have jobs! The waitresses EXPECT to be tipped 20% of what the guys spend in VIP. So if he pays me $500 for an hour, $60 for the room, and $40 on drinks, she expects $120, just for bringing drinks! If you want to make stripper money, take your clothes off and shake your ass like we do.
    At my club, the waitresses are also allowed to give floor dances, and don't have to tip out on it! (one of the things I hate most about my club) I can't tell you how many times I have lost money because I've been turned down for a dance (or sometimes two, or three, or four....), all to see the guy getting one from a waitress. There have also been times I have been turned down for VIP for a waitress as well. It BITES! Talk about being in a shitty mood! I am sitting there making nothing while the girl who was serving drinks to my customer has him in the VIP getting 20$ a dance...and not having to tip out on it.
    I hate the fact they are able to give dances. This is the first club I have ever heard of that does it.
    And don't even get me started on the DJ thing. I have had nights where, yes, I spent almost the whole night back in VIP and only did one or two stages. Then I get an attitude and dirty looks when I don't tip out a shit load to them. It's like they think just cause I made so much I'm obligated, even though I wasn't on the floor the whole night.
    I am sorry your potentially funny-money night was ruined by a waitress. I have had it happen too, only in another type of situation. Either way it SUCKS! Hope you have a good week to make up for it

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    calendargirl, why would one not just be a waitress at your club, then? it seems like better money opportunity (charging more for dances and vip, etc).

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    I would make a huge point to ensure that waitress never saw a penny from anyone I was with again.

    And its not an easy job, but its an easy job to make a reasonably living from if you are simply polite and do your job.

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    Damn what an idiot. Our machine does the same thing and acts up sometimes, but the waitress or CR hostess' or whoever want their share so they always make sure to be nice and go through every possible option.
    I'd say something about it. She didn't just cost you money, she cost the club money.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lolagetz View Post
    Lame. I don't get why waitresses should get any more than 5% of my earnings... Their job is EASY. Their job is way easier than working in a regular restaurant, and they earn more! They get tips from the customers and don't have to take their shit. I hate this whole tipping out everyone who works in the damn club -- I'm the one taking off my clothes and seducing the customers, not them.
    I totally agree about everyone having their hand out for our money as dancers, and it's ridiculous the amounts they expect from us. IMHO tipping the house mom is the worst--I pay someone to sit on her fat ass, talk on her cell phone and bitch at me every time I set foot in the dressing room?

    But having been on both sides (dancer and SC waitress/bartender)...you're quite wrong about waitresses and other staff members not having to put up with bullshit from customers. Bar staff gets just as much shit, only a different kind (i.e. cheap people tipping $1 for a whole round of drinks instead of cheap people drooling over you onstage without coughing up a single dollar)...AND unlike dancing, as a bartender or waitress you can't just walk away or tell a customer off--you just have to stand there and take it.

    I don't agree with waitresses getting a cut of a dancer's earnings though. The tips should come from the customers, not the dancers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    i know where i WONT be working when i move to atlanta. no way will i work at a place where everyone is so greedy and rude. if i have to work second tier club so be it.
    that really sucks sorry.
    Unfortunately, I can't say it's any better anywhere else! The same ole crap goes on at my club too with everyone with their hands out. I think it's the nature of this business, stripclubs=greedy people!
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    Unfortunately, I can't say it's any better anywhere else! The same ole crap goes on at my club too with everyone with their hands out. I think it's the nature of this business, stripclubs=greedy people!
    well of course i know it's the nature of the business as long as i've been in it.
    however, i understand besides your and viola's club the others arent as bad.

    where i am in fla . the custy tips the host and waitress and there is no expectation that the dancer does also or a percentage. we sell our own rooms. no one helps us. which is fine with me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    ugh. That sucks. It never ceases to amaze me by the lack of customer service skills people have these days.
    Would have been so hard for that waitress to say, " I'm so sorry, your card was declined. Our machines can act up, so I'll try to run it a second time, but do you have annother I could try to run?"
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    I couldn't agree with you more..It's too bad, she didn't use her mouth to make herself a nice tip instead of running them out the door.

    A good waitress makes a world of difference in the strip club scene. and everywhere else for that matter.

    I know! Would that have been SO FUCKING HARD?
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    i know where i WONT be working when i move to atlanta. no way will i work at a place where everyone is so greedy and rude. if i have to work second tier club so be it.
    that really sucks sorry.
    It sucks walking away with 2/3 of your total earnings

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Well, at least now you won't be tipping her ever again, right?
    Quote Originally Posted by Victoryx0x0 View Post
    thats a shame... sorry to hear that... wud def tell management...i wouldnt tip her SHIT from now on, is their other waitress's?
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    I would make a huge point to ensure that waitress never saw a penny from anyone I was with again.

    And its not an easy job, but its an easy job to make a reasonably living from if you are simply polite and do your job.
    I will never let her be the waitress for my VIP rooms, or any VIP rooms I'm in. I make money for them - why must they screw me over?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    I hope you told management. Most would never stand for such behavior.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    What a dumb skank. Please tell mgmt. she needs to be punished for being so rude.
    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    Damn what an idiot. Our machine does the same thing and acts up sometimes, but the waitress or CR hostess' or whoever want their share so they always make sure to be nice and go through every possible option.
    I'd say something about it. She didn't just cost you money, she cost the club money.
    I should have thought of that at the moment, and yes, you're all correct. I should have.
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    wtf? I would be livid

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    I recently posted about this too - and the waitress didnt bring drinks to VIP. The host gets VIP drinks. She got 4 drinks before we went to VIP and wanted a huge tip on the VIP tab. Excuse me?! Even if she did bring drinks no way shes getting that much - I dont even have the guys tip that much to the host! I have the custy tip host 10% and Ill tip another 10% - waitress gets 20% OF DRINK TAB not my freakin VIP tab. Get real.....
    I agree it should be 20% of the drink tab, not the total VIP tab. Try to sell some champagne to increase the tab.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lolagetz View Post
    Lame. I don't get why waitresses should get any more than 5% of my earnings... Their job is EASY. Their job is way easier than working in a regular restaurant, and they earn more! They get tips from the customers and don't have to take their shit. I hate this whole tipping out everyone who works in the damn club -- I'm the one taking off my clothes and seducing the customers, not them.
    They do have to put up with shit, but a different kind of shit. On their worst night, someone stiffs their tab, only tips them a dollar, smarts off to them, etc. On a stripper's worst night, someone tries to finger us, sucks our tits when we're not looking, or could hit us if they get mad at us - it's happened to me.

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