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    So, one day out of boredom and frustration I posted an add on CL about a sugardaddy. I know, lame but I got a LOT (probably 30) of responses and narrowed them down and picked one. Then I got sick. Ive been emailing back and forth with this man. Older - 50s, married - lives a bit over an hour away.

    He wants to meet over coffee or lunch to talk in person and see how this can go. Im a little hesitant - but mostly intrugued on whether I can work a good situation. Im not going to go to someones house or anything - safety is my #1 factor in why I havent met him yet (well, that and being sick)

    Its been a month now and he sent me an email asking if i was blowing him off. He seems like a nice guy.. I dont know the point in this email.

    Should I just go meet him and see what happens or forget about the whole idea?!

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    Default Re: Another Sugardaddy post

    It seems like most men who are looking to be a sugar daddy are looking for sex, eventually.

    Personally, I would just let it go.

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    As long as you are careful it should be OK. Don't go directly back home after the date so he can't follow you and park a ways from the door so he can't write down your licence plate. Or you can cab it there. I broke off emails with a guy because after three weeks of pleasant emailing he insisted on MAILING me a gift! Wouldn't take no for an answer.
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    Sugardaddy situations make me nervous. They shell out cash/gifts in hopes of getting sex in return, and if they don't get it...the consequences are often disastrous.

    Don't do it.
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    Default Re: Another Sugardaddy post

    ^ she may be offering sex, though!

    i don't see anything wrong with this, but be safe by all means AL!

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    as long as you're willing to provide what he's going to want for the $$, go for it.

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    Sometimes it's less about sex and more about control.

    A guy wanting sex in exchange for money = no big deal. You know what he wants, he knows what you want, it's not very complicated.

    A guy wanting to control your real life in exchange for money = BIG problem. If you sense this is what he wants, and you're not interested, I'd say it should be NO deal. If you think you can put up with it for awhile, proceed with caution. Understand that it will probably blow up in your face as soon as he realizes that you have a will of your own.

    So...make sure you're pretty clear on what the terms of the agreement might be. Don't take him at his word; read between the lines.
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    I think Im going to pass on the whole thing... just seems like another complicated mess that I really dont have the patience and time to deal with.

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    Go with your gut.

    Anytime I hear the word "Sugardaddy" I get this nervous feeling , like there is trouble ahead..

    Whether or not you give him sex for money, it usually-not always, but usually- turns out to be a complicated situation.
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    Not to be judgmental...
    but take the fact that he's married into consideration

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    ^ If hes Married & Looking for a Sugarbabe, hes going to do it anyways with her or not.

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    AudreyLeigh
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    ^ It says it in the first paragraph. For some reason I see him being married as a positive. Maybe Im odd.... but I decided not to meet up with him.

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    ^ Oh wow- I dont know how I missed that..i even went over it a couple times

    Sorry- SashaVice..even though I still believe even if hes married hes still going to do it

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