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    Is it just me or it it INCREDIBLY FUCKING RUDE to go up to a guy who has a girl on his lap, start talking to him, flirting with him, and then whisper to him "would you like a dance?" um hello. Then try to introduce him to your friend also? (at least friend was polite, stood back, tried not to be introduced and kept mouthing "i'm so sorry").
    You've been at the damn club for ages, you're far older than I am, so I'd hope at some point you cultivated some manners and etiquiette, but no, you didn't. He may have wanted nothing to do with you, but I really wanted to trip your ass.


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    I hate morons.

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    It is incredibly rude. Hopefully, guys will see that also.
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    I just dont get it. I really dont. And I dont think I ever will.

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    What a dumbass.

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    i think its wrong. but there was JUST a thread on a girl who came to a guy that was sitting with betterthaneden and everyone seemed to say well you snooze you lose because she didnt ask for a dance and this girl did.

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    That sux! I never approach guys who have a woman sitting with them. Even more handsoff if the chick is sitting in his lap.







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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i think its wrong. but there was JUST a thread on a girl who came to a guy that was sitting with betterthaneden and everyone seemed to say well you snooze you lose because she didnt ask for a dance and this girl did.
    Well he always goes to the CR with me, but usually I sit with him for a minute, then we do a couple dances, then go up. But I had to be onstage in a song so I couldn't really ask him for a dance right at the moment.
    That surprises me that people would have the "you snooze you lose attitude". Not everybody does the "wanna dance" hustle.


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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    That sux! I never approach guys who have a woman sitting with them. Even more handsoff if the chick is sitting in his lap.
    exactly! And its one thing if its a regular of yours and you just stop bye and say a quick hello, but to ask for a dnace while I'm on his friggen lap lol.


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    It's actually a rule in our club that if a girl is sitting with a custy YOU DO NOT APPROACH HIM! However, if a girl has a drink there and she has to go on stage and another girl sits down while you're on stage, she's supposed to excuse herself as soon as you come back. AND, if there's only one guy in the club and he's at the stage, you aren't suppose to ask him for dances. And if you want to talk to him you can't sit on his lap with your back to to the girl on stage either. I think this is why I've stayed at this club, because we have rules of etiquette. If a girl did what that girl did to you, she'd be fined.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    Well he always goes to the CR with me, but usually I sit with him for a minute, then we do a couple dances, then go up. But I had to be onstage in a song so I couldn't really ask him for a dance right at the moment.
    That surprises me that people would have the "you snooze you lose attitude". Not everybody does the "wanna dance" hustle.
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=100920

    i was a little confused too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i think its wrong. but there was JUST a thread on a girl who came to a guy that was sitting with betterthaneden and everyone seemed to say well you snooze you lose because she didnt ask for a dance and this girl did.
    K, let's not stir the pot again. That was a different situation, and we all agreed that yes, the girl was rude to BTE, but again, different situation.

    Should we not take this as a case by case basis and let sleeping dogs lie?




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    Yeah..if the guy hadnt specifically asked the other girl to come by she had no business doing that. Even if he had..tehres better ways.

    I start patting myself and waving my hands around yelling "oh no...did I become invisible AGAIN?" when girls do that. Then as soon as they look at me...I breath a HEAVY sigh "Oh whew....you CAN see me....thought I'd faded out since you ust walked on up and started talking like I wasnt here" The guys usually laugh and the bitch walks away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Yeah..if the guy hadnt specifically asked the other girl to come by she had no business doing that. Even if he had..tehres better ways.

    I start patting myself and waving my hands around yelling "oh no...did I become invisible AGAIN?" when girls do that. Then as soon as they look at me...I breath a HEAVY sigh "Oh whew....you CAN see me....thought I'd faded out since you ust walked on up and started talking like I wasnt here" The guys usually laugh and the bitch walks away.
    LOL!!! Cameron, you always have the best fucking comebacks!! I love it!! Is there a thread, besides "Ask Cameron Keys," with some of your comebacks or stories in them?! *end thread jack*

    I agree that it's rude to just approch a custie with a dancer already on his lap (unless of course he specifically asked for you). Some guys are into double dances, girl-on-girl action, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahSynn View Post
    LOL!!! Cameron, you always have the best fucking comebacks!! I love it!! Is there a thread, besides "Ask Cameron Keys," with some of your comebacks or stories in them?! *end thread jack*
    LOL....I'm just a smartass bitch from Jersey..it comes naturally!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    LOL....I'm just a smartass bitch from Jersey..it comes naturally!
    LoL! It is quite the gift!

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    Cameron...I am stealing that. For sure.

    But I will be sure to give you the credit!




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    Whatta cunt-rag!



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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Yeah..if the guy hadnt specifically asked the other girl to come by she had no business doing that. Even if he had..tehres better ways.

    I start patting myself and waving my hands around yelling "oh no...did I become invisible AGAIN?" when girls do that. Then as soon as they look at me...I breath a HEAVY sigh "Oh whew....you CAN see me....thought I'd faded out since you ust walked on up and started talking like I wasnt here" The guys usually laugh and the bitch walks away.
    haha I like that.


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    First thing I'd wonder was if she was possibly drunk or high. If she's a regular girl of his I would just defer to that. If none of the above I think she has a hardon out for messing your game up.
    Sounds like the other girl mouthing "sorry" knew she was sauced in some way. No excuse.
    I think 9 times outta 10 it's rude. But if you politely excuse yourself and say you'll come back he's going to remember that over cattiness. If he has any class. If it's not that kinda place you can be agressive or passive-agressive as you feel. Plus if the bitch gets shot down hehehe.
    Did he get dances with her? I hope not- nothing like a customer rewarding fucktard behavior.

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    This happened to me two months ago. I was sitting with this guy, and this girl comes up for a tip (we are allowed to interupt a girl and guy together for a tip but HAVE to leave right after.)
    This girl did not leave after taking her tip...instead she whispered "wanna dance" in his ear.
    He told her to come back later because he was busy with me. He told me what she asked and said he is not rude like that.
    We ended up in the court so HA!

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i think its wrong. but there was JUST a thread on a girl who came to a guy that was sitting with betterthaneden and everyone seemed to say well you snooze you lose because she didnt ask for a dance and this girl did.
    I think most of the girls responded with this attitude because they did not know that the girl was sitting there next to him when the cockblocker walked up and asked him for a dance. They thought the other girl was dancing onstage when the other girl approached him, and not sitting beside him. That was not made completely clear until later in the thread, so I think a lot of girls that responded would not have had the "snooze and lose" attitude if that were a bit more clear in the beginning.

    Anyway, I think it is incredibly fucking rude to do this to someone. Even when my own husband comes in, I WILL NOT approach the table if a dancer (not when it is one of my "homies", but a newbie or girl that does not know who he is, that we are together) is sitting there talking to him. My hubby can be "hustled" just like any other custy and I will not intrude on that. I've had girls do this to me, and I don't care if you were sitting there before, you left, he said OK for my company so fuck off. Entertainers that do this should go home and shoot themselves in the face.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mare View Post
    First thing I'd wonder was if she was possibly drunk or high. If she's a regular girl of his I would just defer to that. If none of the above I think she has a hardon out for messing your game up.
    Sounds like the other girl mouthing "sorry" knew she was sauced in some way. No excuse.
    I think 9 times outta 10 it's rude. But if you politely excuse yourself and say you'll come back he's going to remember that over cattiness. If he has any class. If it's not that kinda place you can be agressive or passive-agressive as you feel. Plus if the bitch gets shot down hehehe.
    Did he get dances with her? I hope not- nothing like a customer rewarding fucktard behavior.
    No he didn't get dances with her. He even told me after she left that he didn't really like her and she was too pushy.


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    Yea that reminds me...i was working a slow day shift and this chick who was next to this guy left for stage. He had bought her a drink.
    I went to say hi to him and he invited ME to sit for a drink as well, so i did.
    He loves talking to me.
    She came back and said you stole my seat...so i just sarcastically said...well im irish can't refuse a drink!
    He had specifically pulled out the chair for me and wanted me to sit. He did not buy dances but was a tipper for talk....so he gave me abour 40.00 for 10 minutes.
    I am never one to intrude on anyone's hustle, so i was surprised at this.

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    its just that she doesnt give a crap...thats all..those are the types that will never understand the entire "if im sitting with a guy, dont come over" thing.

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