I have a question about a dancer I've known for the last six months or so.
We had a great conversation and found a lot of mutual interests the first time we met; which was followed by some great VIP time. I became her regular (1X a week) customer. I never sought anything beyond an ITC ATF relationship; but she suggested we meet OTC. No money was asked for or exchanged. Since then, we've been going out about once a week. I've been a guest at her home. I've met her friends and some family, and we've been intimate. We really do have great chemistry together on every level.
Yet, I haven't stopped seeing her in the club and paying her for VIP time there. I'm probably one of her better customers, although she is a top earner.
I have quite a bit of club experience and this seems way beyond standard customer cultivation. Am I, as she says, "her boyfriend" or just a very special level of customer? How do I delicately discuss the situation with her without offending her?
I don't think it's right for me to see her at work with compensating her; but I also don't think it's right to continue this dual relationship. It's too risky emotionally.
Your wise advice is appreciated.



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