It was a slow night at work, and one of the other dancers had been sitting with a group of people (one single guy and a newlywed couple). While she was on the stage, I happened to walk by the group. The single guy waved me over, so I sat down and started my hustle. The female of the group poured me a drink, and tipped me while I entertained them (complimenting the couple, flirting with the other guy, etc).
When the dancer that had originally been sitting with them returned, she sat behind the unattached guy. It was really obvious that she was left out (the group and I were sitting in a semi-circle facing the stage, and she was sitting behind the single guy. ) I had my hand on his knee while she was whispering in his ear, and he had to crane his neck to listen to her. I wound up leaving the group when I was called to the stage.
At the end of the night, the other dancer told me that I had stepped on her toes, and she didn't think it was okay that I was still flirting with the guy while she was talking to him. She even said that the bouncer agreed, and that I was blocking her sale. Was I in the wrong? I thought that if the group invited me over, they were fair game. In fact, I was a little miffed that she was whispering in his ear while I was attempting to make a sale.
What do y'all think? Was I in the wrong?



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