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    Lately, the funny money girls are taking forever to run credit cards. The last 2 half hours I've done, I wasn't paid until after 45 minutes went by.

    I don't feel as if I have the power until I have money in my hands. The customers aren't terrible. I mean, they are touching my butt and thighs which is tame by most standards. I don't like it though, and I feel as I can't say anything until after I've been paid.

    Also in certain VIP areas, the customers can see what other customers are getting. If a customer sees another dancer allow boob play while I'm being strict about my butt, he's likely to get up and leave, is he?

    I'm willing to grin and bear it, but if there is a thing I can say or do to stop the touching?

    Oh, and one reason I don't like the touching is that it distracts me. I think my dances fucking suck if I can't do my thing. I get paranoid and wonder if this is going to be the shit that tries to finger me. I dance defensively, and it's a horrible uncomfortable dance, all in the name of protecting the kitty and the titty.

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    Is there any way to get paid in advance by the customers who seem gropy?
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    When I go in VIP I just act like it is standard for the guy to pay me up front. So we get the money thing out of the way first...plus it helps the bouncer asks for the room fee at the beginning and also tells him to pay me up front as well.

    Just tell the guy it is club rules to pay first before the fun starts.

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    Lucky for me it IS club rules because the club gets their cut from the VIP. So they won't let you go in without the guy having paid for it first. It's easy enough for me, so that's why it came to mind to have them pay first. Never had that problem, if they've already paid and I haven't promised them any groping for the price I have full right to walk out after having warned them about the groping once. And I get to keep my money.
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    SS, I totally know how you feel. There have been a few times when I take a guy to CR and the hostess takes a while to run his card, either because she's busy or being chatty with the bartender...but then while we're waiting, the customer leans in and acts like it's time to get busy!

    So what do you do? lol "Hey, knock that crap off, I haven't even been paid yet!" Not so sure that'd work out well. So I understand that feeling of wanting to tactfully tell him to chill out without blowing the VIP/CR sale. Usually I will say..."Oh sweety, let's wait until the hostess comes back with our drinks and the other stuff, we don't to get interupted...so tell me, how long are you in town for? (or make up some other question)". If I do that and sort of snuggle into him at the same time, they usually relax knowing that as soon as the hostess comes back the fun can start.

    Hope that helps.




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    Perhaps you should take this up with management. Taking 45 minutes to run a card is unacceptable. Perhaps the club managers will have a better grasp of the time = money concept and figure out some way to expedite things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Asurfael View Post
    Is there any way to get paid in advance by the customers who seem gropy?
    I am paid upfront with cash. If a customer pays by credit card, the credit card girl comes in and does the transaction. I have no choice but to wait for her.

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    Perhaps you should take this up with management. Taking 45 minutes to run a card is unacceptable. Perhaps the club managers will have a better grasp of the time = money concept and figure out some way to expedite things.
    The credit card girls generally are speedy. Sometimes they get slammed and it's not their fault.

    When I have to wait, customers try to put their testicles all over me. Oh, I meant tentacles, N - T.

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    SS, it has to be someones fault.... maybe they need more credit card girls on the busier shifts... I still don't understand why running a card has to take 45 minutes.

    Wait, I just thought of a better solution. Maybe the club can install an ATM machine so that custies can get the money in under 2 minutes.


    Perhaps this idea can be mentioned to the powers that be in your club...
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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    When I have to wait, customers try to put their testicles all over me. Oh, I meant tentacles, N - T.
    OT, but . Two dolllaaaars.

    Anywho, that would make me feel nervous too. I don't like not being paid ASAP, especially being low contact as I am. I also really try and block custies from seeing other LDs as much as I can-If I'm already dancing and he's trying to grope I grab his hands and wrap them around me, so he feels like he's groping, but I've got his paws.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    I am paid upfront with cash. If a customer pays by credit card, the credit card girl comes in and does the transaction. I have no choice but to wait for her.
    Is there any way you can get whoever does the credit card transaction to give the chips (or your cut of them) directly to you once it goes through? This may not be relevant depending on how your club is set up, but one thing I do pretty often when I have to wait around for customers to get money out of the atm or by credit is say I need to check with the dj to make sure I'm not up soon, then ask the dj to put me on stage in a set or two. That way, I can make sure I get the money in my hand and also have just enough time to reiterate appreciation and "how much fun that was", etc., until I have a good excuse to leave. Then if I run into the same customer later, if he's taken out more money I have a better chance of selling more dances since I was just "doing my job" and conveniently happened to get busy rather than outwardly hustling other customers as soon as I got paid.

    Of course, both of these tactics require you to tip the staff well.

    Also, when customers are gropy when I'm not dancing and getting paid for it, I'll usually guide their hands off of me and use a line like, "You're such a bad boy," followed by "be patient and we'll be having fun in no time" if it's before a dance and "you're the one who's making me put my clothes back on and look presentable again" if it's afterwards. I try to keep the least amount of tension possible until I get my money.

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    I would hate having to get paid by customers. That would make me anxious. I know what you mean by dances sucking when you have to constantly worry if their hands are going to wander. My dances are 10x better when guys do not touch. If a guy is very handsy I will purposely give him a shitty dance so he does not want another one. I guess in a VIP situation you could just try to wait for the money so you can get paid up front so if the guy decides to leave or he gets too handsy you can end it without losing. But that me not possible so you may just want to explain your rules up front.
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    Do you have to wait until you have the money to start dancing? Can't you just start, and then xxx minutes later the time is up? If you explain this to the customer, I don't see why they shouldn't understand.

    Of course, the VIP at my club is pretty loosey-goosey, with dancers setting their own prices and timing their own sessions and what-not. Maybe your club isn't as flexible.

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