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    For whatever reason, I tend to make men from China fall head over heels for me. Some of my most enamored customers have been Chinese men, and if I'm talking to a guy and he says hemoved here from Beijing, Shangai, or wherever, I 90% can sell him at least one dance BUT.

    Almost all of them insist on trying to kiss me! WHY? It must be cultural I guess but it's so fucking gross. A peck on the cheek or nearby area (Mexican style) is totally fine, especially for saying hello or goodbye, but this kissing thing is way gross.

    I had a couple really nasty-smelling kissers last night and it's honestly the worst thing. Not to mention how irritated I felt when the bigger spender of the two said that some of the girls kiss him as he asks, and how he usually comes on dayshift (dirtier). I actually kind of believe him, and that made me annoyed.

    I hate it when they actually catch my mouth for a peck. They fucking think they've won, but I turn into a total bitch and call them gross when they do that, and the dances end if they're assholes and try to continue.

    Sorry just had to rant...

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    BTW it's not letting me edit but by "comes on dayshift" I meant "visits the club on dayshift", lol. Not that bad.

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    If it's anything like Japanese culture, they assume American women are crazy uninhibited and "anything goes" and will be forgiven. In college, I had some Japanese professors really get too close for my comfort in bars. Ugh.
    "She held me close and whispered in my ear how wonderful I was. Since I'm not wonderful. I was pretty sure this was a trap. So I figured I'd better grope her as much as I could before they sprung the trap. You've got to take what you can get in this life. I read that in a magazine. So I started smearing kisses on her and pawing the front of her dress, trying to get my money's worth before somebody bashed my head in." John Swartzwelder

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    Asian guys love me too, but I havent really noticed a kissing thing- at least not worse than all the other ethnicities!

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    The first night I ever worked there was this guy that a girl that had been there for a while and seemed really nice had been dancing for for like 11 songs....and then he asked me for a dance and I went back with him and immediately he tried to make out with me. I was like I'm sorry, I give a great lap dance but I like to keep my germs to myself, heehee. And he was like You DONT like to KISS? I was like...uh...not...strangers?.....He only bought one dance from me. I never looked at the girl before me after that without gagging a little. This guy? Was gross.

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    So nasty!

    BLEH!

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    Msybr try a mini- hug (pat) and an air kiss Fench style, where it happens so fast, they aren't sure what happened at all.
    Do these guys want a kiss on the lips? If so that's a no no, and yes so gross.

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    I never experienced giving a dance to a Chinese guys because they don't like me since I'm asian too But I hear you about the kissing thing...especially the Indians. Ewww.

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    Asian guys always love me too...I guess I'm what they see as typical American fantasy girl..blonde,blue eyes, big tits...plus a lot of Asian guys are subs or have odd fetishes and I am happy to indulge most of them.

    I've never noticed they were overly kissy though. I find it is more Mexican or South American guys that are kissing and licking FIENDS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hikaru View Post
    But I hear you about the kissing thing...especially the Indians. Ewww.
    yeah...most Indian men are that way in my experience. They KNOW it's not appropriate to try to kiss me, finger me, lick me or whatever they're trying. They'll try to play it off as a cultural thing (also goes along with pretending not to understand "NO".) I call bullshit. They know better--they just don't care. My solution? If I get the sense that someone's going to be difficult, I get my money upfront. Then I can walk away anytime and not lose the money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    I hate it when they actually catch my mouth for a peck. They fucking think they've won,
    YES! When dancing starts to get to me really badly, it feels like this all the time--like a constant struggle to fend off men who are trying to conquer me with these tiny victories. I absolutely hate that feeling. I turn into RAGING BITCH when this happens. Sometimes I get right up in their faces and say something like, "Are you happy, you fat, ugly, pathetic fucking loser? Is that what you wanted?" I get really nasty. These things get to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    yeah...most Indian men are that way in my experience. They KNOW it's not appropriate to try to kiss me, finger me, lick me or whatever they're trying. They'll try to play it off as a cultural thing (also goes along with pretending not to understand "NO".) I call bullshit. They know better--they just don't care. My solution? If I get the sense that someone's going to be difficult, I get my money upfront. Then I can walk away anytime and not lose the money.
    I always get my money upfront too and if I can't handle them, I'll walk away

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    I've had a lot of issues with Indian men. I mean, I still ask them for dances and I don't discriminate, but yeah. There's a huge correlation. Octopus hands, trying to kiss, really grabby, trying to lick, trying to suck... Ehck. I mean, there are plenty of white guys who pull that too.

    I think maybe it IS a cultural thing, insofar as certain cultures are more stratified...I think they just don't respect me at all because I'm a whore in their eyes. They know I said "no", but that what I say just doesn't matter so much. All I do is lay down the law, take their $20 or maybe $40 bucks, and move on.

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    Honestly, I think it's because women in Canada and the States are a lot more free sexually (at least we're encouraged to be by magazines and TV and everything, which is a good thing but still), but it's also because women in other parts of the world are taught to be more submissive so guys assume they can do whatever they want and get an immediate "yes." When I was in South America I was so shocked by how aggressive the guys were. I mean it wasn;t all of them of course, but you definitely get A LOT of attention (even if you're in jeans a baggy sweater) on the streets and guys aren't afraid to get really touchy really quick.

    Girls in most of Asia, India, S America, and many many places in the world are told to lay back and take it. Girls in N America are told to be freer and have fun with sex. So basically these guys take into account both of those facts and BAM!! There we go!
    At some point, most women (hopefully) realize that "the number" doesn't matter one iota and the notion of "slut" is just socially-generated bullshit meant to keep us "in our place". I will fuck who I please when I please and I don't give a rat's ass what anyone thinks about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hikaru View Post
    I never experienced giving a dance to a Chinese guys because they don't like me since I'm asian too But I hear you about the kissing thing...especially the Indians. Ewww.
    If it wasn't for your avatar and different username, I could've sworn that I wrote this post myself because the very same thing happens to me!

    Even though I have danced for a couple of Asian guys, with the ratio of Asian to Caucasian customers being extremely low, they're usually younguns less than 20 who get dances because they see me more a potential gf than as a stripper. And yep, I completely agree with what you said about the touchy feely Indians. I thought it only happened over here!


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    I worked in a place with many Asian customers once. They were all very kissy, and once I let one of them suck on the tip of my nose for half an hour for $700. It was very strange.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    I worked in a place with many Asian customers once. They were all very kissy, and once I let one of them suck on the tip of my nose for half an hour for $700. It was very strange.
    Best thing I've read all day
    At some point, most women (hopefully) realize that "the number" doesn't matter one iota and the notion of "slut" is just socially-generated bullshit meant to keep us "in our place". I will fuck who I please when I please and I don't give a rat's ass what anyone thinks about it.
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    Not sure what it is, but it completely freaks me out when guys take your head in their hands, because you know whats next. My arms come up and out and it's over. Still leaves me shaking, though...

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    ^^ Lol, I HATE that!! I never let anybody grab my head with both hands, ew. Mostly I find Indian and middle eastern guys the worst offenders when it comes to kissing. Yuck.

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    ^I agree and when you give them a lap dance they move like they were having tantric sex...eeewww

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    I have an asian guy who loves me. And he's fresh asian, like I can barely understand him at all!! It's hilarous. And he knows I'm half Filipina and so he tells me he will destroy all evidence of his Laos heritage or whatever he is and become a citizen of the Philippines... craaazy asians!!!!!

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